Actually I asked her to leave after I caught her cheating on me. I still love her and have been reading self-help books to try to make myself more attractive to her. Sometimes she's super warm towards me and we even have sex. Other times she cannot stand me because she finds that I talk to other women occasionally. She still tells me how attracted she is to me but won't come back. My four little girls tell me that she tells them that Mommy and Daddy will never live together again. I tell the little ones to pray for our family to heal. At what point do I let go and quit trying?
2007-11-23 10:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is jealous of any idea of another woman because of what she did. The guilt is killing her. Now ask her straight do you want this marriage to work or not. If she says yes then you both will need marriage counseling to get pass the issues and you must be able to forgive her mistake. If she says no then ask God for strength to move on. Someone else will appreciate you. Take care of the children.
2007-11-23 11:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your girls that, because it's doing harm-they feel caught in the middle-mom wants out, dad doesn't. She cheated on you-u need self-help books 4 yourself to get self-esteem, once a cheater always a cheater, even if she wanted u back, you will never have full trust in her. Move on and be by yourself 4 a while then find someone new, but never talk bad about their mom.
2007-11-23 11:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by whisperer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have past that point already. Your little girls should not be abused by your adult games. The smart thing for You to do is tell Your wife that the future requires the two of you to limit things to being good parents. GET your sex elsewhere and keep your private life private. Be good to Your children and let them see how good it can be without the back and forth games the two of you play.
2007-11-23 11:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop being a pu$$y and move on. I dont mean that I think you are one but that SHE definitely does or will if you come across this way to her. She will be more likely to return if she thinks you are doing great without her. The more self confident, the better your chances but dont do it to impress her but rather to feel better about yourself no matter what happens.
Leave the kids out of it.
2007-11-23 10:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what about now. Jsut move on and take care of yoru family and she can go whereever. YOu need to become a good aprent to your daughters and move on without her. AND maybe later on you will find another woman who loves to be with you and won't run at teh first sign of trouble.
2007-11-23 11:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now would be good. She's cheated and confused you by her mixed signals. Be a good father to your daughters and move on with the rest of your life. Good luck.
2007-11-23 11:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you change, she's not going to.
Stop wasting you time hoping to get some adulteress whore back in your life. Say goodbye and move on.
2007-11-23 14:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today is the day you give up and stop trying to make a marriage work that wont. Move on, it is time.
2007-11-23 10:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever used Pull Your Ex Back method? Go here : http://ExRecoveryFormula.com . This might definitely help you!
2014-08-19 22:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
six months ago when she cheated, I dont believe relationships can recover after thet kind of betrayal.
2007-11-23 10:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by James 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋