we were together for almost three years and he wont talk to me at all what can i do to get him to talk to me
2007-11-23 08:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by babe88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is nothing to be gained by talking to him,apparently he is a liar and a cheater! he did not just meet this woman and decide to marry her after 2 months he most probably was seeing her for quite awhile while he was engaged to you.she told him its me or her and he chose her! you are better off without him ----no one wants to be married to an adulterer.find a new hobby and help out at places where you will be needed and appreciated! you will find your love but he is not the one!!! bless you and good luck!!!!
2007-11-23 08:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he made it clear he is over you by getting married quickly. The only thing that might make you feel better is hearing from someone who had been in a similar situation, his marriage probably will not last. Not knowing the reason of why he turned out to be your EX-fiancé ,can only tell you what I've learned from past experience. My ex-husband did the same thing without really getting to know the person and they divorced within 3 years. I did not keep in contact with him and only found out what happened from a mutual friend. After awhile you will not want to know about your ex and his wife. Move on with your life. Your ex is your ex for a reason.
2007-11-23 09:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, I hope you can see how crazy insane this guy is. Nobody can make a lifetime decision in such a short amount of time. He is living on a lust buzz and as soon as it wears off, I can almost promise you he'll come crying back to you and telling you how mean she is and how she seemed so nice and how she tricked him into this. You have got to turn your back on this guy. He is not the kind of guy you can ever be with again. He left you and then married a total stranger. Wow, what a catch. He is so full of poor judgment! You don't want this guy. Please heal and then find someone new to give yourself to. This one isn't worth it.
2007-11-23 08:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sassie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to talk to him? Keeping in contact with him will only prolong the healing process. Forget about him, and focus on YOURSELF. Start exercising, find a hobby that you'd enjoy, do some volunteer work, put extra effort into work/school. Trust me, you will feel much better in the long run.
2007-11-23 08:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by nenn 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart by not talking to you he's doing the right thing for his marriage. You need to stop torturing yourself, thinking you can change that fact that he is with someone else.
Get a grip and move on.
2007-11-23 08:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by michael w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easier said than done but... don't talk to him. Leave him alone. There are plenty of fish out there... forget about him and start a new life.
2007-11-23 09:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by Riley's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend please move on with your life, he won't change and it is always hard to remember the bad times, but, believe me they were there. That is why he is your ex. Learn to believe in yourself, move forward, and don't look back. It is always easier to say though than to do. For me am having a very similar situation.
2007-11-23 09:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by detroit_city_girl@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to talk to him. Leave him alone now. He's a married man.
2007-11-23 08:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
May be he did you a great favor by calling it off. Take this opportunity to move on.....HE has! Leave the past, in the PAST!
2007-11-23 08:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by that judi 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get over it he is married now. Leave him alone he has no commitments with you any more.
2007-11-23 08:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋