Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

I think if you wouldn't do it in front of your spouse, it's cheating. Any other rules of thumb??

2007-11-23 08:20:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I only have one tattoo and will be getting my second one next year, but whenever I'm on campus or out in public and see girls who are covered... I'm just automatically more attracted to them. Is this just me? What do girls think of when guys have tattoos or visa-versa. I am just curious what everything thinks.

2007-11-23 08:15:44 · 13 answers · asked by Christopher H 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 21 months, living together for about 14 of those months. Every time the subject of marriage comes up he blows it off just as quickly, saying "I'm in no hurry.. not for me.. etc"

I know right now it is not a good time, he is going through a hard time financially. And I am in no hurry either, but it seems like he's saying it's never going to happen. I am good enough to spend all my hard earned money paying the rent, buying the groceries, etc. But not to ever make a commitment to? I feel almost as if once things improve for him, he'll be gone.. to find someone better. I feel like I am being used! I just want to know if it's ever a possibility, or if this relationship is simply going nowhere.

I am not willing to make a compromise on this, and I won't force him to do it if it's something he doesn't want for his future. If I compromise, I will simply be filled with resentment and that won't make the situation any better.

2007-11-23 08:15:18 · 27 answers · asked by bluecavygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

*if you were in the military*

... have your girlfriend get dressed in a lingerie set for you, or find her wearing a set of dogtags she had personalized for you, and nothing else...?

2007-11-23 08:09:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was married to my husband on 6/2/07 but just today I found a bill in a stack of papers for him (from 10/19) that included a charge for a movie that I looked up and it is a porno (had an obviously porn name too but I wanted to make sure) the charge was for purchase on 7/19.

Now I am not against porn, but I am against secrets...had he told me maybe I wouldn't have cared. But we had not even been married for a full month!!!!! Would you be upset too????

2007-11-23 08:03:25 · 12 answers · asked by C.C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i hear guys like girls who r hard to get thats the way i am but i havent got ANY1!

2007-11-23 08:01:55 · 47 answers · asked by -->♥Kylie 2 in Singles & Dating

just curious I want to know because I am a city boy
who likes being in the country

2007-11-23 08:00:12 · 5 answers · asked by NIFman 5 in Singles & Dating

help what do i do??????? it happens way to easy like just when i hug a girl i get one :( and today im going on a date with my girlfriend and we are gunna french kiss

2007-11-23 07:56:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in the bahamas.

2007-11-23 07:52:29 · 23 answers · asked by ebony 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate high school drama;really,I do,but no matter what I always seem to BE the subject.I'm basically a doormat for my friends;I love them&I know they mean well&I'm usually the resident psycologist.but sometimes they don't realise that they take advantage of me,wether it be as a project-doer,a coat hanger/shelf,sending me off to do things for them,because they've always known me as "the helper".I also have this friend of mine who likes me,CONSTANTLY on my tail;i think he's bipolar,telling me all the time that I hate him&then that he "loves" me&is always blaming me for all his problems&dumping his emotion baggage onto me,telling me how he mutilates himself&following me after school!I've never done intentionally done anything to him but help&he makes me feel horrible!My family;of course I love them,but there's this constant need to be perfect,especially from my grandma;Im the oldest kid in the house so I'm beckoned to do everything,running around like some chicken with no head.

2007-11-23 07:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you take a lady out and you treat her real special, like a woman's deserves to be treated and you make her feel like she's the most important woman in the world, does it trigger something in her brain that she is too good for you, or do they really like the treatment.

2007-11-23 07:48:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that just doesnt happen

2007-11-23 07:47:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1) he is always staring at me when i walk by in the hall.
2) gives me a big smile and a wave every morning.
3) always stands by me in the morning
*he might not be trying to get closer to me because i havent shown him any signs that i am interested yet, well maybe a little bit but i am a very confusing person when i like someone*

2007-11-23 07:46:28 · 18 answers · asked by on and on we go 3 in Singles & Dating

I just need to know if I should have it when I turn 15 in 3 days...

2007-11-23 07:46:26 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single mother with 3 kids 2 of which are still at home. their father seems to only want to help when he wants to, he feels the drugs are more important. I left their father about 8 years ago looking for a new start, because i was right there with him on drugs and i knew my kids deserved better. so i got away and have been clean ever since. while i was with him i got in trouble for the first and only time and it is true what they say about your past following you ever where you go. I haven't been able to get or keep a job, because as soon as they see that 1 mistake my chance has gone out the window. I am on HUD and sometimes i cant pay my bills, but then out of the blue it seems like something comes along. I always keep my faith, because i know GOD will not make a mountain I can't climb. I just pray he will come through for me this Christmas as well, i may have done things in my past, but my kids haven't, so please let them know that things aren't always going to be bad.

2007-11-23 07:46:07 · 1 answers · asked by pamela 2 in Family

I have never been to strip club. But i am curious to go there. I have heard about the private dance. What am I allowed to do in the private dance?

2007-11-23 07:45:51 · 2 answers · asked by ranjan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 07:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by Salvador A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to make one as a stocking stuffer for my boyfriend... any ideas welcome thanks

2007-11-23 07:44:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay as I said, I live at home. I am 22 years old, and I have recently met this new guy. We've gone on a couple of dates, and might be going out tonight. However, earlier today my mom said she wants to meet him. Is this too soon? (We've gone on 2 dates, and talked a bit online/on the phone). Should I warn him that my parents want to meet him? I'm really not sure what to do with this one! Any help would be great!

2007-11-23 07:40:45 · 6 answers · asked by ripping_thunder 2 in Singles & Dating

i have 2 beautifull babies and there're father is great but he and i dont get a long at all with me not having a place to live due to domestic filince between him and myself i feel i have no choice but to go to my oldest daughter home and let him keep the girls since hes got a very very well paying job and a beautifull home i feel i have nothing to offer my babies for now but to leave them with him breaks my hart what do i do?

2007-11-23 07:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by island girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-23 07:35:56 · 14 answers · asked by Abby V 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married 3 1/2 yrs & we've been together 17. my problem is that he seems to get really mad and nasty when he feels mys sisters are lying to him. I don't know why, they are grown women and have their own lives. anyway the day before turkey day he got really mad at me cause i sent out a video to a male friend of ours it was funny something on youtube, it was NOt sexual, or flirtatious or fresh in anyway. anyway he said it made him uncomfortable that i sent it the friend. i said sorry i just thought it was funny. so then i told him that it made me unconfortable the way he acts about my sister & her so called lying but then he blew up at me. we havent spoken since the day before turkey day. i'm really hurt that he doesnt see what this is doing to us. we've been arguing about this for over a month now & it's getting really old. the way he acts really does make feel uncomfortable, he almost acts like he's a jealous boyfriend and that hurts my feelings. I dont know what to do.

2007-11-23 07:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by Norab 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a girl beg and cried infront of a guy ask him for another chance and back to her..most of the guys will say yes? or just pissed off?

This girl got a very bad attitube ,always nag him becos of a small issue.this girl actually got a 2 years old kid.she asked this guy to marry her..this guy never think of this before because he's just 24years old.he actually avoid her for 1 week ..he is so sick of her bad character.they work together at the same place.his family actually dislike this girl ..this happened 1 week ago between this guy is a gemini=)

2007-11-23 07:33:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As I have mentioned before my dad bought the house I live in and I pay him rent so he is my landlord, his name and my name are on the papers, not my mom's, recently he paid my mom's niece to repaint all the rooms and since that was being done we also cleaned up the rest of the house, I admit it was messy but not trashed, now my mom, who is a neat freak, is threatning that if I don't keep the house as clean as she expects it to be, which is spotless 24/7 she is going to kick me and my girls out and sell the house, can she legaly kick us out just for not having it as clean as she wants? I can see it happening if I was having partys and trashing the place but not for having the girls toys on the floor, I do my best to keep it clean but with 2 small kids it is hard to keep it perfect, and some days I am to busy with other things to clean, it is a lot of stress on me.

2007-11-23 07:32:37 · 6 answers · asked by pumpkin2 1 in Family

Im a guy and My friend and I were meant to go to the movies tonight but my friend sent me a msg saying that he cant go because he's going out drinking instead. This has happened a few times over the last while and each time I dont really get bothered about it. But now im thinking that maybe he's being a bit rude and not being a very good friend at all. Is my friend out of line? Is he really a friend? Or am I being sensitive? I know guys are meant to be bullett proof about stuff like this but at the same time I dont wanna be made a fool out of. Thanks

2007-11-23 07:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1 in Friends

My family, and my husbands family were all together last night and half of my family wouldn't quit STARING at me! I am almost sure I have given up Yale because I am now pregnant but married. I still may go, but I am not 100% sure. Half my family thinks I made a HUGE mistake. My mom and Dad are thrilled because they will have a grandchild but idk know. They are so pissed at me. My family is let's say, above middle class financially, so I don't even really need a job for the money. My husband is going to Yale as well and I will go to Connecticut with my hubby but what do you think? Is my family right? Do they have a reason to do this to me? It was the worst thanksgiving of my ENTIRE life.

2007-11-23 07:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my bf and i have been dating on and off for 2 years. but we've stable for the last 6 months. we're really great together and we're soo in love. we've always had problems with my parents, they think im too young to be dating (im 17) and they dont like him because of race issues. my parents are very strict. my bf has tried his best to adjust, because we both know that he could have found someone else whom its easier to date and who he could see more often. but he hasnt, because he says he loves me and it shouldnt matter. so last weekend i got invited to a friends' party and i invited my bf as my guest. so we bought a bday gift and everything and at the last minute i had a HUGE argument with my parents and they wouldnt let me go to the party. and i didnt get a chance to tell my bf that i wanst going. he went &i never showed up. he tried calling me but my mom took away my phone. he was sooo hurt, he broke up with me saying it was too hard with my parents but its not my fault & he loves me

2007-11-23 07:23:26 · 3 answers · asked by miss.mia 2 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my wife. We were married 2 years. we only knew each other 2 years and 6 months. we had a "shotgun wedding" she treated me like sh**, never was intimate with me, never went out with me, basically it was like living with my sister. i cheated on her and i am with this amazing woman whom i have falling head over heels for. i know i did the wrong thing by cheating but we ended it and are filing for divorce. and yes shes mad about the cheating, but we are getting along for the sake of our daughter. she obviously hates the girl i am with now and is making her life miserable by calling and harassing her and calling her family and harassing them. is there anything i can do to help my ex through this? i still care for her feelings and especially since she is my daughters mom....

2007-11-23 07:22:26 · 46 answers · asked by jenn_gen719 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have married for 10 years i have tolerated my husbands cross dressing allowing him to dress in my presence one night every fortnight but for the last year he has been dressing every opportunity,i have come home on several occasions to find him dressed and obviously aroused,last weekend i came home 2 hours early caught him fully dressed he was oblivious that i was standing in our bedroom doorway as he was wearing headphones to my disgust lying on our bed legs in the air he had a large vibrating penis inside himself,is this behavior normal amongst cross dressers?,is he gay?..should make him pack his frocks and show him the door? ....Janice

2007-11-23 07:21:16 · 42 answers · asked by janicemchaffie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

K i've been married for 4months to my wife but lately she's so wrapped up in her career that we hardly spend time together. or when she's home she's too tired to do anything. Is her work related issues more of a priority than her family. I have 2 kids? What should I do?

2007-11-23 07:21:03 · 8 answers · asked by Dcloser 1 in Marriage & Divorce