Is this true guys?

Question

i hear guys like girls who r hard to get thats the way i am but i havent got ANY1!

The thing is im REALLY REALLY out going but i act like i dont like them becuz i heard they like to chase the girls and like the girls who are harder to get than being really easy

Answer 1

Easy girls get used don't wish for that kind of attention look for a meaningful relationship one that will lead to marriage and last a life time not one that is just a flash in his pants and remember always protect your innocence till your ready for the one that will love you the way you love him! GOD BLESS!

Answer 2

Don't ever over exaggerate your percieved self-importance.

Guys like girls who are welcoming towards guy's advances. The idea of guys who like girls who are hard to get, is a gross exaggeration of guy's thought processes. Sure, there is some underlying truth to it...usually the girls who are hard to get, are usually the girls who are the prettiest, or "most popular", and so the less popular guys desire these girls, if only for the sake of acquiring a "trophy".

If you continue to act hard to get, eventually word will get around that you are too hard to get, and all will give up...to find prospects elsewhere. So, i would suggest you lower your percieved self-importance. Let the world understand that you are on the same world as everyone else, and not on some higher plain (or level of self-importance). Do this in both words and actions. However, this doesn't mean you have to lower your standards for guys qualities. Don't ever get the two confused, or misaligned.

Here are some tips:
1) If a guy calls you and you are not busy, then answer it. You don't have to talk very long, just long to make both yourself and the other feel that something was accomplished; if you his miss his call, call him back (whether he leaves a voice mail or not) ASAP! Don't ever get the mentality that by making him call (and call) you is the only way to lead a chase...it is both detrimental and confusing.
2) If a guy says hello to you and trys to start a conversation, engage him accordingly...do not just blow him off. If you are in a hurry, politely tell him that you are in a hurry and must be elsewhere (you do not have to explain where you have to be or what you are doing, unless you really want to).
3) Just be friendly and open to everyone, smile, be polite, say hello (don't be a typical New Yorker who brushes past everyone else...sorry to all you New Yorker's out there, its just a cliched-example of negative behavior). Engage in friendly coversation with whomever crosses your path. Do not try to cast yourself above others, it only makes you look conceited and shallow (not to mention "hard to get"). Give yourself an image or facade that you are as down-to-earth/girl-next-door as the next door. We guys like the girls more who don't try to primp up their self-importance.

Answer 3

Playing hard to get without looking like you're playing hard to get is actually a good thing. But you need to understand that when you play this game too long, for most guys this simply appears as being stuck up or conceited which is a huge turn off for most people.
Try not to resist for too long because eventually most people will simply move on while you're still playing the hard to get game and you'll find yourself standing alone and feeling kinda stupid.

Answer 4

Being hard to get is one thing, being hard to get a signal from is another. Flirting is fine and certainly chatting up a guy is OK. At least respond positively to guys who show some interest by staring, or chatting you up, or always sitting near you - some guys show their interest in small ways, they want a signal that they are going to at least be welcome to come closer and make their case! So smile more often - girls who smile do look more interesting to guys because they feel less like they will be rejected outright. Guys are not really picky in general, but they are really afraid to look like a fool or to be rejected. Look approachable - think about how you look when you are not thinking about it because you might be walking around looking grumpy or angry and guys are not looking for that. Wink, smile - it does not mean you have to throw yourself at them, but you should try not to be cruel, either. If a girl slaps the first guy to get near her, there will not be a line of guys to follow. Be nice, if you need to say no: say it with kindness.

Answer 5

It's only true in some cases. Most guys want the girl who reaches out to them first. Most guys hate having to chase after a girl who is hard to get.

Answer 6

Depends on the guy and what he is looking for. The guys that are looking for a girl to take home to Mom and have long-term relationship potential will go for girls that are hard to get. The guys who just want to play the field or are only interested in sex go for the easy girls.

Answer 7

First off, don't put out for any guy ... until your are absolutely 100% ready! Be friends with the guy first ... flirt a little. All guys are different. Some don't like girls too be aggressive. Some like a little mystery. Talk to him and try to figure out what he wants in a girl .. but above all ... always be yourself.

Answer 8

Not quite true! Guys like girls that are easy! But, they love girls that are hard to get! Now being shy is sometimes viewed as being snobbish, and being rude, will never work. Just be who you are internally and work on what you appear to be externally.

Answer 9

Maybe you're being too difficult to get? I don't know, you really can't generalize what guys like in girls, but I can tell you this, show a guy who you are, your personality and you're off to a great start.

Answer 10

u r closer to wrong than right..probably thats why u haven't got 'ANY1' n probably u have, but cos u are seen to be hard to get he aint asked u out yet
that don't mean b easy either(that wld totaly soil ur rep for eva) just b cool n b urself..works like a charm :)