how do i get him back in my life? should i?

Question

my bf and i have been dating on and off for 2 years. but we've stable for the last 6 months. we're really great together and we're soo in love. we've always had problems with my parents, they think im too young to be dating (im 17) and they dont like him because of race issues. my parents are very strict. my bf has tried his best to adjust, because we both know that he could have found someone else whom its easier to date and who he could see more often. but he hasnt, because he says he loves me and it shouldnt matter. so last weekend i got invited to a friends' party and i invited my bf as my guest. so we bought a bday gift and everything and at the last minute i had a HUGE argument with my parents and they wouldnt let me go to the party. and i didnt get a chance to tell my bf that i wanst going. he went &i never showed up. he tried calling me but my mom took away my phone. he was sooo hurt, he broke up with me saying it was too hard with my parents but its not my fault & he loves me

Answer 1

Be patient as soon as you turn 18,your parents won't have much to say or control your life.
If you have a job,save up some money of your own,learn to budget and manage your money in case your parents try to force you to obey them by choosing between their support and finding a place of your own.
At 17,you should be able to date who you want,but there is nothing you can do to change your parents or make them accept your friends.
On the other hand,your parents should start trusting you to make more decisions for yourself with their guidance.

Answer 2

this really depends on if you really love him or not. no one really knows if they are inlove or not, because after a break up, most people say they thought they where. but here is what i would do.

Tell him you love him, and you understand if he wants to date other people. if thats what he needs, you want him to be happy. tell him your to young to leave your parents and they still have a say in what you do. That you honestly want to be with him and the race thing never mattered to you. Tell him you will respect his wishes, and want him to be happy whatever he decides, and that when you can be in a position where your less influenced by your parents that you really want to try again, and be together. tell him you believe race shouldn't matter, but that you believe time shouldn't either. But thats not up for you to decide. Then tell him if you want to wait for him or not till then, and how you feel about him.

Answer 3

I think that if you 2 love each other try to make it work and when you are 18 you can just move out. If you two love each other enough it will work no matter what. Do you have a friend that will cover for you so that you can go see him?