I live in the bahamas.
2007-11-23 07:52:29 · 23 answers · asked by ebony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you attract the wrong guys then you need to assess what it is that you do that attracts them.
Are you too willing to just go along with whatever they want? What about what you want? Maybe you should re assess your priorities - what type of man would you like to be with? If you are going to bars/lounges to meet people that's most likely the kind of guy you'll meet. Try joining clubs/activities that you like to meet people with the same interests you have. One more thing - if you are looking too hard you are more likely to grasp at straws. Relax, enjoy your life and I'll bet Mr. Right will show up. Don't lower your standards for anyone!
2007-11-23 08:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tried to find this answer for myself. Where do you meet nice guys? I tried changing churches because one had a singles class and it was all women! I don't meet men in bars and all the men my friends know are married or players. So I signed up on a dating site and I have met some really nice men. Give that a try you don't have to meet until you kind of know each other. I find it's best to talk to those that live close enough to have a real relationship with the out o the country guy or to many miles away will be a computer relationship and that is a lonely relationship so you will be in the same boat as if you had no boyfriend. I use Mate1.com
2007-11-23 08:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally, I like a lady that's confident, clean, smart, funny, and pays attention to her looks.
What is it about you that you think might attract "the wrong guy"? How can you change that about yourself?
Do you know what you want in a partner? Have you written it down? It's perfectly okay to say "I want these things in a man: clean, honest, kind, earns a living, ...." whatever your list is.
Leave off with the romance ideas. That's stuff for dimestore novels and it only lasts a year or two anyway.
So, living in the Bahamas, you've got maybe 30,000 bachelors to pick from. Keep looking. I'm sure you'll find a good guy.
2007-11-23 08:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to date a nerd. Simply put those are always the right guys. Find one that is nerdy that you enjoy and have fun with. They remove 90% of the typical crap that men do that girls dont like. I'm 28, a reformed badass thats now a hopeless romantic and a nerd. very nice guy. you wouldn't beleive how high in demand we become at that point. hehe. But i will say this, the thing about nerds, is that every relastionship i've seen a nerd in that ends, the girl always says they where treated the best and they honestly wished things worked out. Because girls like guys who only want them and will do all the stupid stuff they want, like get them flowers, and not cheat on them. Oh and most nerds have jobs!!! You just have to usually approach them. They are almost always to shy to approach a girl, its also why you know you'll not be rejected and that once you land them, you got them for good if you want them :)
2007-11-23 08:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by shade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow the advice of the barber in the movie "Coming to America," don't look for nice people to date at clubs and bars. Instead look for them at places where you'll have similar interests - maybe churches, or places where people go sit and read and write like a library or a coffee shop, libraries would probably have more academics. Another good one would be social or sporting clubs if you have any sports hobbies, like joining a co-ed soccer team or something like that. My last suggestion is to do things like community services or other volunteering activities - you're likely to meet someone who is interested in giving back to the community and making the world a better place. Most bars and clubs seem to be full of people who are more interested in hooking up, getting drunk, and other kinds of self-centered reckless behavior.
2007-11-23 08:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by christopher o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start doing more in your community, volunteer at a hospital, find things that you like to do and try opening up a little more and talk to some guys. I never been to the Bahamas, but Im sure there are tons of guys that would love to meet you
2007-11-23 07:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by crazy_cat_lady 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I bet you are a nice person, your picker is broken...
You need to change what you are doing, because you keep getting the same results, meaning, your actions are the reason.
Select 10 qualities you want, if the next guy does not fill them, drop him right away. Dating is just a selection process, so you must date more and get out there...So you will be seen.
Pick a place where quality people are.
2007-11-23 07:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So why are you looking in the U.S? Surely there are personal ads in the Bahamas for local dudes.
2007-11-23 07:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Been there, done that. You may be trying too hard, or looking for love in all the wrong places. You are young and I am sure you will meet up with Mr. Right.
Good Luck!!~
2007-11-23 07:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am over here!! and you live in the bahamas! even better it's getting cold up here in Canada.
2007-11-23 07:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋