Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

today both of my parents worked and i hadto babysit my freakin brother (he's 4). well he whines everytime something doesnt go his way and cries if he barely gets hurt (like bumps his knee). well my stepmom babys him. everytime he "gets hurt" she picks him up and cuddles him. EVERY FREAKIN TIME! And when he doesnt get what he wants, she always breaks down and does what he wants. my dad acts like he does a better parenting job but he is just as bad. well now to my question. today i had to watch him. i thought it would be fun if him and i watched transformers. well when it was over, he wanted to watch it again. i said no because the texas game is coming on and we just watched it. well he threw a fit and yelled at me. i told him that if he keeps it up that ill send him to his room and have dad deal with him when he gets home. he then growled at me and went into the other room to cry. i dont feel sorry for my decision because the kid needs some structure and discipline in his life.

2007-11-23 07:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and this guy {he is 17 and i am 15} have been talkin at school and on the phone for the past 2 weeks...We have so0o0o0o much in common it is not even funny...I have a feelin he is about to ask me out because we were talkin about goin to the movies!! Is it bad that we have so much in common?? Should i say yes??

2007-11-23 07:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by volleyballgurl10 2 in Singles & Dating

Like, I like my guy friend, and he keeps staring at me. Like we were just talking and he just stopped and started starring at me, looking into my eyes he's sort of done that before I started to like him. I have asked him why he does this, but he never answers. So I'm not sure what to do, or re-act when he does this. What is the best way to re-act to this? What does this mean? What am I suppose to do?

2007-11-23 07:16:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like to date people the same age
its just simpler and u dont have to worry about people making fun of you or the other person

2007-11-23 07:16:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married for 10 years and i can say my life is wonderful, however..there are times i dreamed about my ex bf.. i tried to erase him in my mind..in my life...i felt guilty with my husband.. i love my husband and i don't want to hurt him...

2007-11-23 07:14:51 · 15 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

her to not mention anything about it to her girl friends? I would think that the fact that some of her bras and panties fit me would be enough to keep her quiet. Right?

2007-11-23 07:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 23 year old female who has been with her man for 2 years this coming up February 1. I have caught him calling other women, putting his profile on dating sites, talking to girls on myspace and he doesn't work, won't look for work, and doesn't care. I am so tired of all this crap and he wasn't this way the 1st year we were together. We live together and I am sick to death of all this crap.

2007-11-23 07:13:46 · 12 answers · asked by missavilez8284 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 07:11:58 · 9 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

And most of the food? Also he is always complaining about the bills, lights, etc. If we run out of milk or butter he will make a big deal about it. Also when we go out and he pays for dinner if its over $70 he will, be like.... $70 gone like that! I would think if you were trying to be romantic and dine out you would not say things like that. We have been together now for three years, he has always been like this and it really bugs me. I have a son so I feel like I have to pay half. But I always thought my future husband would be different. And I am usually unhappy and go to bed sleepy and just depressed.

2007-11-23 07:05:02 · 39 answers · asked by ~*~Amie~*~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-23 07:03:50 · 3 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

When I am out with my boyfriend and his mom calls he will walk off away from me.And if we were in the middle of a conversation and his phone rings he will tell me to be quiet and look at his phone and if its his "mom" then its all serious and he walks away from me like he doesn't want her to hear me and like it would be so bad if she did.Even if what we are talking about is serious he doesn't think about me at all.Just basically tells me to be quiet and walks off.He could at least say excuse me rather than saying SSHHHH! and walking off like I am annoying him.Sometimes I just feel like a fragment of his life that is expendable.

2007-11-23 07:00:39 · 16 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

to ask their ex about his/her expenses? Or maybe it is just my ex being nosy. We get along pretty well now considering he left me for another women. But we have a son and that is what you have to do. But, whenever we talk he seems to focus on money. I am taking a vacation - how much was the airfare? I bought a new car - how much did it cost? I did some renovations in my house - how much did you spend? Today I finally told him - none of your business (in a joking manner). But, he also tells me about his expenses, how he is changing jobs, how much his girlfriend spent on her car, etc. Anyone else's ex crazy like this or is it just mine? Any reasons on why he needs to know this stuff or why he thinks I need to know about his life?

2007-11-23 07:00:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you catch your girlfriend cheating on you (kissing another guy, and letting him feel her up), and she reacts as if it means nothing, then sometime later she dumps you for this same guy who was all other her and vice versa, how do you get over it, react to the situation, and come out as the winner? Yes, you can seek revenge, but that only stoops you to her level. Should you kill her with kindness to make her feel guily? Should you just drop her like a bad habit? Should you put her down, talk to her in a condensending way as if she is nothing but trash? Or is a total waste to even acknowledge her?

2007-11-23 06:58:59 · 10 answers · asked by James S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a widowed 50yo single Jewish mom, recently relocated due to a job change. I'd like to start dating. I'm in a smallish university town, and there are almost no single straight men my age at the one synagogue in town. Likewise my child's school PTA is pretty much just women. I even checked the local political campaign headquarters, but it's all women my age or young folks (university students).
Any suggestions? JDate?

2007-11-23 06:56:38 · 3 answers · asked by M.D. 2 in Singles & Dating

she tells me she loves me more then him
that she wants to be with me but she juz doenst want to hurt him
wat should i do?stay with her or let her go

2007-11-23 06:54:46 · 18 answers · asked by l.serio 1 in Singles & Dating

i went out with this guy over the summer and he was super sweet he'd picked me even though hes going to the 9th grade and there are prettier girls there.he loved me alot and for the first time i had a chance from being self concious about my look.then school started then we broke up becuase i was still stuck in middle school [8th grade.].then back together because we really liked each other.over that time ive been highly depressed [im a pessimist] he offically broke up with me but still liked me and wanted to be frienfds with bebfits but no the sex part lol.so yeah he came to see me as much as possible. we kissed and more stuff.then he liked 4 diff. girls their alll pretty,skate,cheer,good personalities.
my friend secretly talked to him and said he still loves me. but then why the hell does he sex talk other girls [litterally] :[[[[[[[[[[[[[[

2007-11-23 06:51:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been talking to jose for 2 weeks on the phone. we went out yesterday. he brought me a single rose. we went to the movies and back to his house just to talk. he tired to kiss me but i dont let him. he seem hurt. and ask if i like him or think he was ugly. i said no and kissed him. we made out thats it. i guess he was getting turned on and ask for sex. i said no and he said ok and i left but he has called me today. he said he really likes me and we talk about having sex. but i told him when i feel ready then we will. he acted fine with. u think he wants a relationship or just sex. now we are boyfriend and girlfriend but it could be just a act what do u think?

2007-11-23 06:49:24 · 18 answers · asked by eynak1110 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband moved from PA to NC to be with me. We have known each other for a very long time (he was my first boyfriend at the age of 14!). I loved him then as I do now (just more mature now). I wasn't pregnant when he proposed to me, but 2 months later I became pregnant. Because of child support reasons (they told us that because he was paying so much ($129.89 a week) that if we got married sooner that would change his child support), but when we called the day we got married they told us it wouldn't be lowered at all; but raised. And only after the new baby was born will the child support go down; and they told us that we would have to show paternity testing that this child was truely his. I used to live in PA and my mother used to be a paralegal there. Why is the child support office making our lives HELL? Could his ex be telling them lies? (By the way she only has him 2 weeks out of the month, and child support doesn't count that out of her monthly money!)

2007-11-23 06:48:34 · 1 answers · asked by Mum of 2 4 in Family

She doesn't aprove of me not eating meat, so in turnn she only buys meat. No fruits or veggies. Somtimes i save alil money and walk to the dollar store. this has been going for almost 9 months. When she found out that i cut myself she said she couldn't deal with it and did nothing. But when she found out i didn't believe in god she hauled me off to therpy. She Isolates me from my friends. And all they ever did was try to help. And somtimes she can't afford food, like bread. but when she does have money she buys ice cream and furniture. What should i do?????

2007-11-23 06:44:34 · 46 answers · asked by Onyx S 1 in Family

2007-11-23 06:42:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It seems as if my BF lies a lot. Even if I catch him in a lie he still tries to lie guys why does he do this???

2007-11-23 06:40:37 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BF is funny, cute, smart and a great dresser. BUT he is friends with all of his exes (including one that he was the "other" guy with), does not like to share his thoughts and feelings, can be selfish, immature and somewhat verbally abusive. I am somewhat sensitive, but some of the things he has said (all disguised as jokes) have really hurt. I tell him this and he responds that I am too sensitive. He says I love you, cuddles with me all the time, but just does not know how to express himself. I get frustrated and sad. He has said "It's not fun to talk about your feelings" Am I wrong to need that ? It seems like an awful thing to say. He also has said that when I want to have sex often, it makes him not want it. He does not want to go away with me for the weekend, does not seem to like my friends, and can be detached. I fear I am too needy, but we cannot communicate and he does not want to compromise. I need some solid advce because he is not a bad guy but I don't feel good.

2007-11-23 06:37:55 · 3 answers · asked by seeksadvice28 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I wanted to covet my neighbour's wife.
My Priest said "Don't worry about it"
My wife said "A dog will chase a car but he can't drive"
Her husband said "Everyone does- Aren't I the lucky one?"
My neighbour's wife said "I'd be annoyed if you didn't"

2007-11-23 06:33:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love my gf a lot but she is very busy bc she is a senior in college and applying to grad school. i graduated last yr and am working. we live about 500 miles apart. she says that she loves me but she is too busy for a serious relationship and she can't give me what i want or need but i am in love with her so she is what i want and need. i told her we had two options- one was to remain a couple but try to be more casual and the other was to be broken up but still see each other and have sex sometimes (we both really like the sexual part of our relationship). do you think that two people can agree to be casual and become that way? i'm still a little hurt by some things she has said to me in the past week but am trying to not let it show. she broke up with me but took it back. do you think i should walk away or stay?

2007-11-23 06:30:05 · 40 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-23 06:27:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thank you for your answers! :)

Have a wonderful day! :)

2007-11-23 06:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Family

(Not much of the first paragraph is vital and yes, I did just ask this question, I only got one real answer. Please Help.)

Me and this guy are in the same Chemistry class. Since I took an Honors Biology class in my freshman year and passed with a 'C' average, I was allowed to bypass Pysical Science and move right into Chemistry, a junior level class. He's a senior, so apparently, he failed something. We won't go into that =].

Anyway, lately, he's been wanting to work with me during class and hang out with me and talk and such. My best friend's brother hangs out with him and he told me that he likes me =]. PURE JOY!

But I've noticed something. He's constantly asking me questions about my age. I'm 15 and he's 17. My birthday's in March, his is in July.

So he's two years older than me. I've been told by his other friend that he really likes me. And I've been told that he can't stop thinking about me. So do you think age is the factor in not asking me out?

2007-11-23 06:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thank you for your answers! :)

Have a wonderful day! :)

2007-11-23 06:21:48 · 8 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Family

the other night one of my very close guy friends called around 9:30 and wanted to go get ice cream or just go somewhere to talk. i was on thanksgiving break and didnt have school the next day but my mom wouldnt let me go and she said that i wasnt going to be having guys come over late at night wanting to hang out. we had discussed before that my curfew would be around 11 (im 16 by the way) and it was only 9:30
she said it was too late to go out? i dont understand as long as im back by 11 i dont see what the problem is??

2007-11-23 06:18:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just heard from my angel of my HEART and she gave me a birthday gift and HER voice is heaven to ME Who's special voice is on your mind are they near or far..from you

2007-11-23 06:16:25 · 3 answers · asked by NIFman 5 in Singles & Dating