Me and this guy {he is 17 and i am 15} have been talkin at school and on the phone for the past 2 weeks...We have so0o0o0o much in common it is not even funny...I have a feelin he is about to ask me out because we were talkin about goin to the movies!! Is it bad that we have so much in common?? Should i say yes??
2007-11-23 07:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by volleyballgurl10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is such a sweeet guy and i have never even noticed him until i dropped my books at school and he was helpin me pick them up...is height a factor i am 5'2 and he is 6'0??
2007-11-23 07:28:52 · update #1
LOL, you are too cute. Say yes and enjoy.
I'm 5'3" and my bf is 6'4 so you're fine (and have a great excuse to wear heels whenever you like.)
2007-11-23 07:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dose of Reality 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're in high school it's hard not to have a reasonable amount of things in common...you're compulsorily grouped into a single school because you live in relatively close proximity to each other; you have no autonomy because you're technically children, so you're both accustomed to other people (usually parents) calling the shots for you. So, of course you have a lot in common, but that's not the big deal it will be if you still have a great deal in common in ten years. So, don't place too much emphasis on commonality right now. More important right now is, do you like each others personalities, sense of humor, and sense of integrity/personal responsibility? That's something you can build upon, so yeah, go ahead and say yes if you want to (since it very much seems like you do), but just keep your perspectives balanced. Chickens in a coop have a lot in common, too but that doesn't mean much. Good luck to you both.
2007-11-23 07:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a good thing that the two of you have so much in common. if he do ask you out give him a chance to see where this will take you. If you do not try then you will never know what might happen.
Make sure that your dad takes a look at him since you are still young.
Or at least let your family know where you are at all time
Safety first.
Good Luck on your Future first date with him!
2007-11-23 07:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by mycorollababy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S GOOD TO HAVE STUFF IN COMMMON!
As long as you don't agree with everything he says because that makes for a dull realtonship and youll run out of things to talk about.
and if he asks you, sounds like you like him, say yes! it sounds like you guys could have something good!
2007-11-23 07:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by pepsi_chugger8899 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation. if you like this guy i would say go with him but make sure you keep yourself "in check" if yall do go out. make sure you know his motives...but go out and HAVE FUN
2007-11-23 07:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really up to you if you are ready for a relationship go for it if you need a little time longer to decide say thanks for asking but lets stay friends for a little while more
2007-11-23 07:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋