If you catch your girlfriend cheating on you (kissing another guy, and letting him feel her up), and she reacts as if it means nothing, then sometime later she dumps you for this same guy who was all other her and vice versa, how do you get over it, react to the situation, and come out as the winner? Yes, you can seek revenge, but that only stoops you to her level. Should you kill her with kindness to make her feel guily? Should you just drop her like a bad habit? Should you put her down, talk to her in a condensending way as if she is nothing but trash? Or is a total waste to even acknowledge her?
2007-11-23 06:58:59 · 10 answers · asked by James S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't acknowledge her..... don't talk to her, move on as if nothing happened shes not even a blip on your radar..... she will be so hurt that you could brush her off so quickly she may not show it but she will be hurt. and if you see her out, don't give her the cold shoulder (that looks like you're still hurt), just act like she's an old acquaintance that never meant anything to you.
2007-11-23 07:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When something is over than it is over. Period.
No point in thinking about it, in considering the million "if"-s and tormenting oneself with all possible scenarios in the world. The best thing to do is to get over this whole thing, really leave it behind and go forward. That's what a winner would do. It's not a matter of some kind of race between you and your ex, it's a matter of you only. So learn your lesson, let the bad feelings wash away and go for the next goal whatever it is. Revenge is just looking backwards while walking ahead - you'll bump somewhere sooner or later.
2007-11-23 07:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be angry. Be hurt. Feel sorry for her. Run the whole gambit of emotions.
Ultimately though, the more mental energy you spend on her and the now defunct relationship, the more power you give her.
Empower yourself, heal yourself, and find a girl that will be true to you.
2007-11-23 07:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nathan D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop her. The laws of karma dictate that what goes around, comes around.
The sad thing is that when it does, you've usually moved on and could care less.
That's why "vengeance is Mine, saieth the Lord!"
2007-11-23 07:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by colder_in_minnesota 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. And be at peace with yourself. A cheater cheats for their own reasons. Don;t take it personally. go for a classier type of girl who respects other people.
Just ignore her.
2007-11-23 07:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have nothing to do with her.
your a nice guy, find a nice girl and forget about this one.
i know thats easy for me to say.
with what she did to you talking to her would not only
be a waste of time, but make you lok like a fool.
people like her are probably bothered most when you drop
them, dont talk to them and have nothing to do with them.
good luck.
2007-11-23 07:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total waste, she's a ***** you know it she knows it, just leave it alone and if she comes running back dont even bother with her.
2007-11-23 07:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to do anything. It just isn't worth your time. You deserve better than that.
2007-11-23 07:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just leave her alone. if you see her in the streets, just smile and walk off. its not worth it, you deserve way better.
2007-11-23 07:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by texaslady24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone...wat goes around comes around but in a different way....she will regret it
2007-11-23 07:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋