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2007-11-23 06:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi again. : )
I was 18 and didn't have a lot of money. I don't know why, but I wasn't scared or worried. I was calm and took each day as it came. I was excited about that little baby growing inside me and bonded with it right away. I remember talking to my baby and my husband wanting to know what I was doing. lol He didn't understand talking to a baby that wasn't born yet. Nothing phased me. I just loved that baby and couldn't wait for the day it would be born. I did make one mistake... I bought all girl clothes and had a boy. Ha ha!!! He looked so cute for a few days... pink, purple and ruffles. lol : )
Babies are the most awesome gift a person could ever hope to get. They are definitely bundles of joy.
2007-11-23 11:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I first became pregnant I actually hated the idea.
I was 18 and for whatever reasons (hormones ruled logic) birth control wasn't a consideration.
So I was horrified...one of those people who thought "how did this happen?"
I spent much of my earlier teenage years raising my nephew...he cried it seemed like all the time and honestly I just did not like the idea of having a kid at my feet all the time. My sis would drop him off for literally weeks at a time...my dad would allow this yet would pass out from being drunk and not take care of him either. Sorry but when I was 15 I had better things to do then raise someone elses kids. From that experience I decided I did not like kids.
So when I found out I was like "oh great...I do not even like kids...I will probably kill it or something"
As time went on however I grew to love the idea. I had to realize that I was basing my thought on "hating kids" on the fact that I had to raise one at such an early age.
After the idea grew on me and I changed my perspective I did all that nesting stuff and was really excited. I remember bonding with him and talking to him when he was in my belly. He would kick and it was pretty cool.
So now as it stands old HS friends laugh at me when they see I have 6 kids cause they remember me as the one always saying "I hate kids...Im am never gonna have kids."
2007-11-23 15:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by queen of snarky-yack again 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh God...I feel awed, overjoyed, anxious, overwhelmed. It's an awesome feeling knowing I'm carrying another life in me. It's also hard because I know my life will never be the same. I worry if I'll do something wrong, if I'll be a good mother, if the baby will be healthy. On the whole, though, I cannot express how excited I am.
2007-11-23 14:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I first became pregnant, it was the most exhilarated, jubilant feeling. It literally is a composite of every positive feeling imaginable; joy, anxious, love, possessive, proud, protective . . . . . And, I could hardly wait to start showing. My first didn't show until I was six months along. I wanted to wear the maternity clothes and show off my belly! Great question Moon! You are beautiful!
2007-11-23 15:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I felt incredible, beyond explaining in words. I wanted to shout it out to the world.
Thank-you for asking that question....it makes me remember what's most important in the world, my kids are now 13 & 15, sometimes I am so depressed that I don't want to live, your question comes at an excellent time for me.
2007-11-23 14:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was scared. Worried I would drop him or he'd be deformed, Maybe that I'd raise him to be some miscreant on society. I felt like the easy part was almost over (being pregnant) and the hard part was about to begin. What if he didn't like me? What if I didn't like him? ...
And then he was born and I found out what real love is...
2007-11-23 14:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Moon, if I ever become a mother I guess I should feel amazingly wealthy.
2007-11-23 14:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Semp-listic! 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Wow...excited,scared,overwhelmed with joy!
When she was born was the most wonderful day of my life! And I'll never forget a minute of it.
(((Moon)))
2007-11-23 15:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by mrs O 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋