(Not much of the first paragraph is vital and yes, I did just ask this question, I only got one real answer. Please Help.)
Me and this guy are in the same Chemistry class. Since I took an Honors Biology class in my freshman year and passed with a 'C' average, I was allowed to bypass Pysical Science and move right into Chemistry, a junior level class. He's a senior, so apparently, he failed something. We won't go into that =].
Anyway, lately, he's been wanting to work with me during class and hang out with me and talk and such. My best friend's brother hangs out with him and he told me that he likes me =]. PURE JOY!
But I've noticed something. He's constantly asking me questions about my age. I'm 15 and he's 17. My birthday's in March, his is in July.
So he's two years older than me. I've been told by his other friend that he really likes me. And I've been told that he can't stop thinking about me. So do you think age is the factor in not asking me out?
2007-11-23 06:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be the age, it could also be that he's just looking for someone to be friends with. He may like you, but not 'like' you in that form and fashion. Or he does and is either shy, or been busy with school and such that he hasn't felt it the right time.
Also in some states, in fact most, the age difference can get him in trouble with the law if he isn't careful. Parents can file claims on him and he can be in trouble even if what you and him do or don't do is completely innocent and consensual.
Either way I do ask you be careful, because while I'd love to give the guy the benefit of the doubt there is also the chance he maybe just out to 'use' you. Not saying this is the case and it doesn't sound like it. Either way good luck hun, though remember if it's meant to be it'll happen.
2007-11-23 06:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Domino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful......He could be using you to get better grades, since you did well enough to skip certain classes and he may have failed those classes. You are only 15, take your time when looking for a boy friend.
2007-11-23 14:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by scoobysfans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be. But if he truly likes you he will not have any problem in waiting till your 16 ,17,18 what ever his "standard" is in his mind. when your young like you too, age seems to matter way more than it should , for example I'm dating a woman who is7 years older than me and it dont sen to be an issue to nobody
2007-11-23 14:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by mitchey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just making sure you are as old as you say you are.
He could be a bit worried by the age, yes...or maybe he is just not sure if you are into him.
If you are interested, why don't you just tell him and see what he says.
2007-11-23 14:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i think at 17 he's just kinda immature and shy. maybe he doesn't know how to tell you he likes you or ask you out. you should drop hints that you like him, something like, hey maybe we should go see a movie or something. if you start it up, he's more than likely to go with it. good luck.
2007-11-23 14:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by k_glowner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard of statutory rape or "jail bait"?
2007-11-23 14:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋