When I am out with my boyfriend and his mom calls he will walk off away from me.And if we were in the middle of a conversation and his phone rings he will tell me to be quiet and look at his phone and if its his "mom" then its all serious and he walks away from me like he doesn't want her to hear me and like it would be so bad if she did.Even if what we are talking about is serious he doesn't think about me at all.Just basically tells me to be quiet and walks off.He could at least say excuse me rather than saying SSHHHH! and walking off like I am annoying him.Sometimes I just feel like a fragment of his life that is expendable.
2007-11-23 07:00:39 · 16 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he'd rather be with his mom ^_^
2007-11-23 07:08:38 · update #1
I believe he respects you...but has more respect for his MOMMY, but I agree with you, he could say excuse me or something....thats just rude as hell, but if its bothering you just talk to him about...make sure you get it all out before his MOMMY calls again lol
2007-11-23 07:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is his mom calling him so much? Maybe he's a mama's boy. Why is it that he feels the need to walk away when his mom calls? That is weird. He should just take her on the dates and hang with her instead of having a girlfriend. The next time he gets a call and walks off, then maybe you need to walk off too. Leave him and find someone else who will treat you like you are someone. Then your boyfriend can have all the time he wants with his mom.
2007-11-23 07:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you both are. If you're in your thirties he's got serious "mommy" issues and isn't to be considered a good candidate for cutting the apron strings. On the other hand, if you're teens, he's not disrespecting you so much as fearing his mother....(not to the point of terror, but reasonable "I don't want to upset her" type fear.) If he was blowing you off to talk to other girls I would say that was a major red flag, but mom will get his undivided attention for awhile yet, and face it, no one wants someone else overhearing the things that come out of mothers' mouths. (Did you know you can be 19 years old and your mother will still give you a spit bath in front of God and everybody if she thinks it's necessary?) So, try to take this with a grain of salt. It all passes in due time, but for now, the day belongs to her.
2007-11-23 07:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear I have a nasty feeling about your boyfriend for he is not being honest to you and is hiding something from you.I am a psychic and I do not mind if you believe in what I do or not that makes no difference to what I am telling you.If it is his mother on the phone he should be happy that you are with him and let you speak to her.For him to walk away to me shows that he doesn't want you to over hear what is being said.If you see his mum tell her what he does every time she rings and I would like to bet she tells you she never rings him.Good luck to you and hope you find either he changes or you find a man that treats you with respect for you deserve that.RAY
2007-11-23 07:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Raymond H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his mom doesnt know the 2 of you are dating. He doesnt want her to know thats why he walks off. Another thing to think about is are you sure its really his mom and not another girl he is talking too and just has her listed under MOM.
2007-11-23 07:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand the way u feel. Boys can be very rude sometimes and they can take girls for granted sometimes. Ask him in a nice way why he treats u like that when his mom calls and say i don't want to be in relationship where ur mom doesn't
A. know about me
B. want me around u
C. doesn't like me
It may be tough but it is the best
2007-11-23 07:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either his mom doesn't know about you or thats not his mom on the other line. I would be betting its the latter. There is no reason or need to walk away and you should be suspicious.
2007-11-23 07:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he respects his mom (which is a good thing). He could be more polite with you. You should talk to him. Does his mom know that he has a girlfriend? What is up with his paranoia about his mom hearing you?
2007-11-23 07:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by User 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's scared of his mom, and some boys don't like talking to their mom around their girlfriend or maybe he is hiding something, either from you or from his mom. Have you ever met his mom? does his mom know that you guys are dating? It can be a lot of reasons.
2007-11-23 07:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by crissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be upset. Just talk to him about it.. Little pesky things that bother you so much can strain a relationship
2007-11-23 07:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋