I am a 23 year old female who has been with her man for 2 years this coming up February 1. I have caught him calling other women, putting his profile on dating sites, talking to girls on myspace and he doesn't work, won't look for work, and doesn't care. I am so tired of all this crap and he wasn't this way the 1st year we were together. We live together and I am sick to death of all this crap.
2007-11-23 07:13:46 · 12 answers · asked by missavilez8284 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No offense meant to the guys that are gay, I have friends that are gay, but if you dont like women you cant help me.
2007-11-23 07:14:33 · update #1
I'm not available as I have been happily married for 26 years. However, I work with several straight up guys who claim they cant find decent women who are not already married.
2007-11-23 10:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by The Voice of Reason 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea they are there, suggest you read some in the Bible. You need to find a well balanced person and next time meet the family. Also go to places where the theme is not "dating". Don't let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch. Proverbs is a good start. You make out ok and it's not the end of the world so don't beat yourself up, some people are just i guess sick. Take care. You got to have family and friends, tlak with them, for advice not for them to feel sorry for you. It's like a chess game, have you discussed it withhim in a logical way, dont'' let feelings get inthe way. Do you live with him, have a place to go, if he with you, then change the locks and dont see him for a month. An old trick is "it will never happen again', but from what you have said this is just not going to stop and you don't turst him and you had thought you would be together for life. So cover your back on all accounts before you make your move and seriously lean on friends nd family. NOthing like a couple of gib guys to handle a situation. Of you nedd th epolice contact them and pay an off duty one, don't take a chance. Scope it out and move on with your life. You could contact Hillery and ask her how she handles it, naw just kidding.
2007-11-23 07:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you get that thought that there are no good men, its time to just be single and stray from relationships for a while. Now, you just happen to have a loser at home. How is he living with you, and isnt working? You are good. You sound like the old me.
The whole single field is bad now though. It is not plenty of fish in the sea. People have diseases, too many kids, cant have kids, all that. I know its hard being lonley sometimes, but maybe that is the best solution.
EDIT: Hold up!! You women say you want a good man, but when you get one, you lie to him over little dumb ****. You talk about him to your girls, when the dude you had b4 him was 10x worse!!!! You dont want a good man, you want a challenge.
2007-11-23 07:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know right? And also have a good job too...actually I cant complain cause I have a great guy but I found him 2000 miles away on myspace...but before that....be patient and open minded and youll meet someone, it might not be the way you think though!
Totally boot out bozo! eww! and dont be scared of not meeting someone, my best friend uses the theory of always trading up.
2007-11-23 07:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by MNgirl@thebeach 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't work.... who is feeding him? You? If so, don't be an enabler.
In all, it's a good thing you are not married or have kids. So now it's time to make the split. Don't fall for "I love you" or "I can make this work". Save yourself some pain now. Get back together once you see him making progress.... not before.
2007-11-26 07:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Fred Head 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend and kick him out or you move on. And let him take care of his own mess.
I know what you mean, I'm 28 years old and yeah, I've been single for awhile now. Your situation reminded me of my ex whose 40 years old and still act like an immature teenager -_-He has a decent job and his own a place at least but he still pretty dependent on his mom to cook dinner for him. (I'm guilty as well cause I let my family do all the cooking.)
I think it's about time we stopped searching for guys, and let love come and find us. At least, if we're not thinking about guys all the time, love is likely to be found when it WANTS too.
2007-11-23 07:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
boot that chump out, then you can really devote time to looking. you are obviously looking, but maybe you want the loser around as a fall back. being alone is rough. but.....you will never find somethjing if you are not available.
my other advice, is to look in the right places. you aren't going to find mr right in the clubs or bars. you will find mr one night, which sounds like what you have.
2007-11-23 12:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by tomjohn2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure you are beautiful, but maybe you are too much involved in politics, and he needs "more" of you!
2007-11-26 10:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Joe The Great One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what do you want to do with nice hard working guys who would love to treat you like a princess
2007-11-23 07:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
All men a egotistical SOB's.
Besides me, I'm just a pathetic drunk that likes to use foul language.
2007-11-23 07:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋