she tells me she loves me more then him
that she wants to be with me but she juz doenst want to hurt him
wat should i do?stay with her or let her go
2007-11-23 06:54:46 · 18 answers · asked by l.serio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she tells me she loves me more then him
that she wants to be with me but she juz doenst want to hurt him
wat should i do?stay with her or let her go
im so confused
2007-11-23 07:30:55 · update #1
If you like her alot wait a bit longer.. It's always a common thing for girls not wanting to hurt the guy she's with him, but she has to do it sooner or later. I say wait it out a bit longer if you love her not like her.
2007-11-23 06:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by frank91898 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she doesn't want to hurt the other guy but she is hurting you in the process. Five months is a long time to wait. I would give her a final ultimatum- its you or him. You can't wait any more, it's only going to tear you apart inside. And if she isn't ready to make her move then let it go. Besides, if she doesnt have enough sense to be with you when she says she loves you more then she isn't even worth it. Why be with someone who isnt even sure what she really wants?? And who knows, if she got with you, you wouldnt want her sneaking around behind your back like she is doing with this guy would you? And would you want her to stay with you when she doesnt want to be with you because she is scared of hurting your feelings? I think not. This girl needs to grow up and learn not to toy with people's emotions. It isn't very nice. If she doesnt end up being with you, move on and find someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them. Don't allow yourself anything less than what you deserve.... Good Luck : )
2007-11-23 15:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much drama you want to stir up with this other guy by taking away his girl and also if she is really worth it. If you think this is the girl you'd love to be with for years to come, then no matter what she is worth waiting for. But you need to live your life too, and if your not sure, then you should move on. Don't kill yourself in the meantime by waiting for her unless your positive she's worth it, because it sounds like she's stringing you along by not taking care of business...
2007-11-23 15:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Loni Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a girl like this? 5 months is way too long, and so not fair to you. She needs to step up to the plate and make a decision, not string you along. I say let her go.
2007-11-23 15:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dose of Reality 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? 5 months?? I say if she can't let go of him and she obviously can't cuz she hasn't then free yourself up and find someone who loves you and only you. Forget her. If she is going to leave him for you then she will do the same thing to you as well. She isn't worth it.
2007-11-23 15:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wanted to be with you she would have kicked him to the curb a long time ago.
Dump her, now, and consider yourself lucky that you haven't wasted more than 5 months with her. Good luck.
2007-11-23 14:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Tom P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're wasting your time by waiting. Let her go. She's somebody else's girl now and it doesn't sound like she wants to change that.
2007-11-23 14:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be wrong to let her go cuz just 1 day she will break up wit him and go to u so don`t let her go u will break her heart if u do.
2007-11-23 15:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by lily c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are a limited time offer only. If she doesn't act soon someone one else would not mind comforting you in your time of need.
2007-11-23 15:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her two choices - you or him - tell her if hse loves u more as she says she shouldn't hurt you .... otherwise let her go and look for someone honest ,,
2007-11-23 14:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by Biba love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋