I just need to know if I should have it when I turn 15 in 3 days...
2007-11-23 07:46:26 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to be old enough to not make your name "hot_babe"
2007-11-23 07:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
To be honest age doesn't mean a thing when it comes to sex. I am 17 years old with a 9 week old baby boy and well I started having sex at the age of 13. Everyday I look back and I wish I could have saved myself for my husband cause it would have meant so much more with my true love. Don't get me wrong I love my baby boy to death and I'm thankful everyday for him. My mom always preached to me about save yourself for when your married. I wish I would have listened. Your virginity is the best wedding present that you can give to your husband. Sex before marriage puts strain on the relationship and it's an emotional attachment that you shouldn't have to worry about at 15. You should go out on dayes go out with friends hang out with your family but don't rush into sex. The only thing that I can tell you is that look at the pro's and con's of sex before marriage. You get that instant thrill for a short time cause not many guys can last long. But the con's far outweigh the pro's you could get diseases, and whether or not you are on the pill or condom you can still become pregnant. I was born when my mom was using the pill and my brother was the condom and my other brother was rythm. You just can't be too sure. So my personal answer to your question is no, but thats your decision to make.
2007-11-23 08:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all the STD's,why have sex?
There isn't any set age,but it only takes 1 time to get pregnant and at your age,that is too young to have a baby.
Just because you can have sex,doesn't mean you have to.
If you do start having sex,word will get out and some of the boys in your school will start hitting on you just to claim they made out with you (even if they don't) and you get labeled a tramp (even if you aren't).
It will be hard to do,but wait for the right guy-some women are waiting until they get married (the old fashioned way it used to be).
Also,in some states,it is illegal for teenagers to have sex.
Age of consent varies from state to state,but 18 is the federal age of consent.
2007-11-23 08:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no right age. But you are very young. The first guy you do it with is likely just going to break your heart. Better to hold out for awhile. As long as you can. Don't be pressured into it by friends or guys. When the time is right, you'll know. No rush.
Oh, and guys your age are usually not that concerned with making it good for the girl so you will likely be disappointed.
Make sure you're old enough to deal with any possible outcomes - pregnancy & taking care of a baby, boy saying "thanks, see ya!", sexually transmitted diseases some fatal like AIDS. None are easy to deal with so better to wait & be safe when you do.
2007-11-23 07:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Pogo peeps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for opinions, mine is when you are married. May be old-fashioned, but you have to have some moral integrity and values. It tends to work out better that way anyway, because you can grow in maturity without all of the extra worries in a relationship, determine true love and commitment and not just something based on sexual gratification.
2007-11-23 07:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
its not a matter of ur age. it depends on if u and whoever ur going to have sex with are responsible enough to except the consequences that come with it. you could get pregnant, u could get STD's or both and if u do, ur gonna need a real job. i think u should wait till ur responsible enough,cuz the fact that ur even asking means u thing u shouldn't
2007-11-23 08:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the politically and religiously correct answer to this would be to wait until your married.
But honestly, there isnt really a correct age you should be to have sex. Its all about you, and when YOU feel comfortable with sex and the idea of it.
Also, with sex comes the thought of responsibility. What if your condom malfunctions and you end up pregnant? What if the person you have sex with breaks up with you?
once you've thought about all this, and you still feel ready. than i guess your ready.
2007-11-23 07:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When shes old enough to handle the consequences that follow.
Old enough to take care of a child-
When shes old enough to make her own decision and handle the consequence's and not want to do things or have things just because "everyone else" has it or is doing it.
When shes old enough to put others needs before her own.
When shes old enough to respect her reputation
When shes old enough to realize she should respect her self and her body.
2007-11-23 08:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to start a family right away or possibly contract AIDS, HIV or STD's the best age to start having sex, is at least 21 or older, when most young people are being serious enough to accept responsibilities.
2007-11-23 07:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by slimdude142 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should only have sex when your really ready not just cos you think you should have it. 16 is the legal age in the UK but many have sex before this age and just as many have sex long after this age.
2007-11-23 07:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by klt1986 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the age of consent is in your country/state of residence, im from the UK so 16 here but think varies in different states in the US of A and is 18 over there.
2007-11-23 07:50:12 · answer #11 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋