This is a really difficult question but one of my girl friends said in a joke that I better watch out because someone might try to take my husband. I started thinking about what she said and now I'm a little worried. He's really very handsome and masculine and he's been away from me since August in Infantry Training. I will get to see him again early next year and plan to introduce him to his newborn son. I met him when we were both 13 and we became friends. We started dating a few years later and over the years he did occasionally date other girls but always came back to me. I have a great figure but I'm not that pretty. I used to smile at him when he went out with someone else and say it was ok but inside I was crying that I would lose him. Usually he would e mail me or call me on my cell phone after a date and say "hi special girl". Then I would respond with what's up "puppy boy" and he would say "nothing is up because I miss you".That innuendo let me know he still liked me
2007-11-23 08:42:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My dear Rebecca - you have not be insecure about Jamie up to now, so don't start just because of your friend and her flip comment. Jamie loves you, he's married to you, and to him you're the most beautiful woman in the world. You're also having his child. I know there are no guarantees in this world. Just remember that Jamie is married to you now, and from everything I've read about him and you, he's not going anywhere. Someone can't "take your husband" unless he wants to go... and he doesn't. Remember your emotions are all over the place partly because he's gone and because of the pregnancy. Good luck with everything, and relax.
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2007-11-23 15:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, such is always possible, unfortunately. But it is always better not to borrow trouble. Just because it might, maybe happen, does not mean that it will. Don't dwell on it, or you could make it happen. You could start pushing him away because you are too worried about 'might' happen. Instead, focus on your precious son, and on supporting your man. Let him know that you are right where he expects you to be, at home, loving and waiting for him. Let him know you miss him, you love him and you are waiting excitedly for him to return is good for him to hear. It will calm his fears of 'can my girl find someone else and leave me?' That street works both ways, and you can avoid it and all of it's pitfalls by focusing on each other and the love and life you share.
2007-11-24 15:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie anything is possible. I met the man I am with now that way he was married I was married we were all friends. Now I am divorced he is divorced and we are together. Nothing physicall happened between the two of us until we were divorced. How ever the emotional was there.
However if your love is true and his love is true than it shouldn't happen. Love is powerful.. love is something that when it is there it is true and it will not fade.
My ex husband was not love I was stuck. If you are stuck then get out now and never look back...
2007-11-23 16:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress over it. Insecurity is a big reason people end up getting "bored" in a relationship. He loves you and obviously there is something there because he married you and had a baby with you. Though you may not be beautiful in your eyes, you sure are in his.
2007-11-23 17:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ta2dChik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is possible. Anything is possible. The key here is not to worry about every possible disaster that may occur in your life. Doing that alone would be a disaster. You need to rationally and logically make sure you are being honest with yourself about your man.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 16:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋