be honest......... im 15 by the way.
2007-11-23 01:23:46 · 51 answers · asked by AbbiLovesNick&BlooregardQ.Kazoo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah. ive already lost it to HIM about three months ago by the way so its not an answer fr ME im just trying to see what ppl think.
2007-11-23 01:38:02 · update #1
I think it is to young to have sex but you alreay did so anit to much to say but if you was readdy then i guess you are ready but you should have waited.
2007-11-23 05:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
For any adult, sex before 18 is an age too young...but when you are a teenager, you may thing otherwise...it is basically a question of morals and maturity. If you feel that you are ready to have sex, talk about it with an adult first. Someone you trust and someone who you know will provide good advice without judging you. If you do decide to go for it. Be safe and make sure it is with someone you really care about.
Good luck! :)
2007-11-23 01:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by BluDragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your too young to lose your virginity if you dont have a stable Job or arent married yet.
Because at 15, and if you do get pregnant, hows your baby gonna live huh? unless he will have rich grand parents.
You have to think about the consequences of your actions, if you feel like you have already got those consequences covered, then by all means, have all the sex you want. But at that age, I dont think you do.
2007-11-23 01:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by kid_gelo 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
15 is way to young, BUT if you decide to go ahead anyway, at least be protected. Have your parents get birth-control pills for you and have your boyfriend wear a condom. This is a big step for any teen, so you be safe rather than sorry. While you may not stay with this guy forever, a sexually transmitted disease or a baby will!!!
2007-11-23 01:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Brian D 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, you should wait till your married so when you do lose your virginity you know that its to the person you love, care about dearly, and someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. You are too young to be losing your virginity, you should wait because in the end you will be happy with that situation. I know its kind of hard not to wait because everyone else is doing it but be different and not follow the crowd. Believe it or not alot of people respect you alot when you wait and if someone doesn't respect that decision then most likely you don't need them around.
2007-11-23 01:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by jazzy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well i think that 15 is way to young to be having sex but one a days there are people have sex at the age of 12. I think you are to young when you dont understand sex. When you are jsut having sex because everyone else is.
2007-11-23 01:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think most girls have lost their virginity by the age of about 14 or 15. It really depends on how much the girls values her own body i guess. There really isn't a big hurry as usually the first time is a bit of trial and error, from most girls i've spoken to, the first time was NEVER anything to boast or rave about. I was about 3 days off my sixteenth birthday...it was no big deal, beleive me! don't be in such a hurry, you have the rest of your life to experiment, at least try to make the first time memorable in some way
2007-11-23 01:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The biological answer is one thing, morality is another.
Consider this: sexual congress is the biological activity, designed to procreate. In other words, if you do not want children, do not indulge!............ We reach puberty somewhere around the age of 10-13 years' age and that WILL bring on the urge to indulge in sex.
The problem with this is,"Are we ready, at that age, for the psychological consequences?"
In general, even to the age of 17, or 18, we are still thinking in childish ways........... and our adult body develops before we have completed that all important development from child to adult.
Now, children want to enjoy themselves........... and sex, properly conducted, is VERY enjoyable!.......... but it brings responsibilities.......... to yourself, your lover and to your family!
To yourself, because you have self-esteem and inappropriate sexual activity WILL impair that esteem!
To your lover, because a mistake will result in a lifetime commitment which NEITHER of you might want, or be able to fulfil!............. Then there is the aspect of sexual health, STD and the like............
Then there is your family. They have nurtured you from birth and invested a very large amount in trying to prepare you for adulthood and eventual parenthood. Irresponsible sexual behaviour will make most of that investment and love mean absolutely nothing!
Now THINK!............ and have a good life!
2007-11-23 01:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bob P 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I nearly lost mine at 15 to this guy who I was crazy about. but deep deep down I knew he was wrong for me, he was always looking at other girls and I really didnt picture us to be together forever. Then I met this other guy I fell in love and after 3 months we lost our virginities to each other. I was 16 he was 17. He's 20 and i'm 19 now and we're stil together.
I think 16 is a good age if you're sure about the guy.
2007-11-23 01:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Not under 16, and i think that is still too young, because normally at that age no one is involve in a serious relationship to give up your body
2007-11-23 01:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well its too young when you don't know everything. If you are going to be safe, your parents let you and it isn't against the law, go for it. But you should be sure you are ready or just wait for that special someone.
2007-11-23 01:28:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋