I have been inside my box for a long time,and I seem to be having trouble coming out of it,and I have tried to come out,but having trouble, sexualy,and all around. If you have any ideas that would work let me know. Only honest answers please!!! This has become a serious problem for me!!!
2007-11-23 02:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A friend of mine used the term coming out of her shell and she made it by raising her self esteem. I will give you a site that will help you do that and then just being yourself will make you sexier to anyone who matters. You can click on the words Self Esteem to see that but there is more good help here as well. Good Luck to you!
2007-11-23 03:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not something that happens overnight. Make one little change at a time. Wear something slightly more revealing, write out something sexy or dirty and leave to note for you special someone. Share with that special someone that you want to do this but, it needs to be at your pace. I have been there. When I first was married I would not let him even see me with the lights on in my nighties. Now we have even done it on the beach. Of course you may never want to progress to that level and there is nothing wrong with that. You only need to be who you want to be not what others want you to be. The biggest hurdle I had was self confidence and it sounds like you have the same issue. In time it really will get better. Do not rush yourself and remember he would not be with you if he did not like what he sees. Take care.
2007-11-23 02:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by eaglelover_1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself and decide what it will take for you to feel sexy... set realistic goals.. Do you need to get a "hair" makeover? New makeup? New clothes? Perhaps workout and get toned? When we feel sexy on the inside... it just permeates everything we do and others view us as sexy...
Also, try experimenting with it a little.. and notice the reactions you get.. For example, if you want to be more liberal with your boyfriend in the bedroom, you can take small steps and see if he likes it..... or you could just go all out, pretend you are almost someone else and see how it feels...
Sexy is based on you and your confidence... Sexy is how you view yourself....
2007-11-23 02:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off, how big was the box? lol j/k
first your have to fell secure of yourself. honey, the prettiest girl can not pull a runway off if she dosent feel secure.
dress like you feel, if you feel sexy, well then dress sexy. looks are not important but they do help.
good luck.
2007-11-23 02:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sonadora♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 simple answer confidence
it will open you up more than anything a women with confidence is sexier than anything i can imagine
DM
2007-11-23 02:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
stand infront of a mirror completely naked and start liking who you are and what you look. once you like everything about yourself thats when the box will disappear.
2007-11-23 02:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by kdonsky@rogers.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you under stress? If you are you need to relax and start meeting people that can give you their time and friendship.
2007-11-23 02:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you IM me so we can discuss this further. Not enough information here to work with.
2007-11-23 03:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by old-softy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋