ok so this guy on my street wants 2 have sex with me....but we r not even goin out n stuff...thats kinda a problem 4 me cuz im still a virgin n im not just gonna go out n have sex wit him which can ruin our friendship...my friend asked him if he likes me just 4 that n he said "i dont like her at all" but i like him...wat shud i do??? n guys, do u just like girls 4 sex?....do u think hes lyin?....he said he wasnt playin around bout the sex thing.
2007-11-23 03:15:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you two seem to be way to young
2007-11-23 03:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by thezinger79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Because if he really doesn't like you in that way and you like him it is gonna make it hard to keep a "just friends relationship" It will become friends with benefits and there for he would just be using you and if you are a virgin you want to lose it to someone who is going to be with you and respect you not just some friend. The way I see it if you do end up doing it you are going to be hurt. For some there are alot of feelings that come along with sex. So my advice don't do it. Share that gift with someone who is going to care about you and not see you as just someone to have sex with. I almost did that with someone who was just a friend and I am glad I didn't because I am with the man of my dreams now and he was my first and will more than likely be my only and I loce that. We have been together for almost 3 years now. So please take care of yourself and respect yourself. If you don't no one else will and none of us want to see you get hurt. Good luck.
2007-11-23 03:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by ???? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you even want to bother with this guy?
1. Nice guys don't want you just for sex.
2. He said he didn't like you... believe him.
3. If he's a true friend he wouldn't take advantage of you like that.
4. I'm guessing he knows you've never had sex and therefore wants to be the one to pop your cherry.
Why would you degrade yourself like that? Walk away. He's not really a friend and he's NOT boyfriend material.
2007-11-23 03:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
None sense don't have sex with him....Respect yourself...You have been a virgin for so long and you are going to loose it to this guy????? Maybe you should ask this question "what is more important your virginity or friendship... My ex I bloke up with her cuz i went to a military academy"Future Air-force Server" But I really liked her. Not cuz of SEX SEX SEX!!!!!
2007-11-23 03:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Screw u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it this way...do you want the first time you have sex to be a situation in which you are being used?
there's all sorts of guys out there. some will use girls for sex. some will want a relationship that may or may not include sex. some will not want sex with you at all.
2007-11-23 03:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, 'though u like him..pls..dont go w/ him just only for sex...Dont waste 'ur virginity to just a guy who doesnt love u..and it's just for sex...U could find some1 who really deserves u..it's a nice feeling if u lost it w/ some1 who really love,care and respect you and u love him 2...dont go in rush..For sure it will come to u someday...and besides how old are u?...Grow up first!!!!..Sex is only for a couple or people that really ready to face the responsibility and it depends too bec. i know we have different insights..but, pls..dont go to that boy ok...he's not worth it!!!!and u might get STD coz u mentioned that he's just playing around about the sex thinggy...Goodluck and take care of 'ur virginity...
2007-11-23 03:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by angel love-love is blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't waste something as precious as your virginity on a loser like that. The fact that your asking for advice is an indicator that you kinda know it's not the right thing to do. He doesn't even like you but he wants to have sex with you? Save your virginity for someone who LOVES you as much as you LOVE them. Once it's gone it's gone....
2007-11-23 03:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question. Do you feel that you are worth than just a f**k? if not then do the nasty with him. However if you are a decent girl with a sense of self worth then you won't even contemplate having sex with someone who only sees you as a sex object.
2007-11-23 03:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl have respect for yourself. I'm glad you haven't jumped into bed with him. And I hope you don't. From when he's telling your friend he doesn't like you at all, just because you won't have sex with him, he is a jerk! You can do better than that. Find a guy that likes you for who you are and enjoys your company, not only for your body.
2007-11-23 03:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Heartfelt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU GIVE IT UP TO A JERK LIKE HIM?
He just wants sex. Well, he could just use his nice, warm hand or maybe a gerbil and get the same rush. To him, you just feel a little better than his hand. Wow, that is so romantic.
Wait for true love and committment, otherwise you are just another ho.
2007-11-23 03:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by greengo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it! Sex is not something that you take lightly has there is a great deal of responsibility involved. Wait until you are older and able to make a good decision.
2007-11-23 03:19:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋