okay so my bf broke up with me becouse of the school i go to. see where i live everyone calls me a rich snotty girl (my ex never heard anyone call me that before) becouse of the school i go to. then a cuple days ago i told my ex what school i go to (it was when we were still bf gf) then he called me a rich snotty ***** so i called him a jerk he told me he hates me and that was our breakup but if your gf told you what school she goes to and everyone around were she lives calls her the rich snotty white girl (i live in a place that has mostly black people in it but i'm not racist or anything) would you stay with her or break up with her (somthing like how my ex brok up with me) and plz be honost i wont be mad at you if you say yes you would other people might but i wont yell at you or anything so plz be completly honost.
2007-11-23 03:08:28 · 43 answers · asked by spiritgirl2595 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look i just don't like to watch out for grammar or spelling or anything and i was in a hurry because i had to do something so sorry for the grammar and spelling. oh and i know my ex is a jerk and i go to a school that has a reputation for a bad football team and for being rude and rich but i'm everything but that i am nice kind sweet and even if someone calls me a rich snotty bi*ch i would still help them if they needed help and i am not rich i was very lucky to go to the school i go to. and i am sorta happy that my ex broke up with me becouse now i know that he is a jerk and i feel sorry for the next girl he goes out with and i hope that she realizes what a jerk he is also and dump him.
2007-11-23 03:23:00 · update #1
oh yeah and him and i were only going out for like 2-4 days but we knew each other before we started going out (i just never told him what school i go to until our breakup)
2007-11-23 03:28:14 · update #2
No, I would not break up with a girl for that reason.
2007-11-23 03:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tony M 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you had a real BF, where you go to school would make no difference. Start out with that understanding. Couples break up because they have different goals, distance, incompatability of some reason. But where you work, what you do, where you go to school should not be a factory if you are real friends.
At this point all you did was get rid of someone who was not really a "Friend".
But you did make a mistake. Do not make it ever again.
If this guy said something nasty or hurtfull. did you have to reply in kind? Put it this way - if this guy acts like an idiot, do you have to act that way as well? No, you do not.
Maintain you dignity and just let it go. You did not consider that had you not spoken harsh words in responce, maybe this guy would have thought about things and come back with an appology, realizing that he said something really stupid.
Always be cool. Never put yourself downt o the level fo someone who did or said a bad or wrong ting. OK? Stay on top, Be cool, Keep your dignity and self respect. That makes YOU the bigger person. It also leaves the door open for an appology and reconciliation.
Personally, I would not break up with anyone because of school, work or location of residence. I would take the person as a person, for their intellect, sense of responsibility, humor and what few or many common interests we have. You do the same and you will always be right. People are people and will say and do things that hurt, bring joy, anger and grief. That is because we are human and sometimes speak faster than we think. You keep to the standards that you know are acceptable, proper, good manners and no one can fault you. This little problem (Remember in consideration of the universe this is a very little problem) will pass and whether or not your former BF makes amends, You keep your head high and always stay in the right - you are the winner.
2007-11-23 03:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by organbuilder272 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok its seems that your BF is a moron. There is nothing wrong with going to a better school. Its for your future. It sounds like he is immature and jealous. Would he go to your school if he had a chance. Probably. The better question is do you act like a snotty rich girl? How do you treat other people. If you treat everyone equally then dont worry about it. If you feel you are better than everyone else or people owe you something then you need to take a better look at yourself.
2007-11-23 03:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it. If you live in a rich neighborhood, and go to a rich school, why would people be surprised if your family has money? And what does that have to do with a majority black neighborhood. Are you implying that all black people are poor and has no money, so you have to go outside of the neighborhood to go to school? If you're not racist, which you're not because you have no power over black people or any other race, probably just prejudice, then why would it matter who lives where? Maybe you are snotty. I don't know. Maybe you should examine yourself and your reasons for not going to the neighborhood school. If you're good enough to love there, you should be good enough to get educated there.
2007-11-23 03:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by ykalex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a little immature by the way he insulted you and for giving you this reason when I really think it was something else why he broke up with you. Sometimes, people have a hard time expressing what they feel and this might just be the case. There was something in the relationship that he didn't feel content with and his resolution was to break up. Relationships are hard but it's a good experience; learn from it and move on. He certainly took the first step already.
2007-11-23 03:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Domini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your boyfriend who is wrong. He is being a snob because of the school that you go to. He obviously didn't think you were the "rich snotty *****" when he didn't know what school you went to, so why did that change once he did? You didn't change between before and now. Forget him and move on. You don't need someone in your life who cannot appreciate you for you and not for what you have or don't have.
2007-11-23 03:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by randmthots 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. well personally, I think that your' boyfriend was a ****. Who in their right mind would break up with someone for going to a rich school. Is the school notorious for something horrible, or just known for being a school for people with more money? I could understand if something bad happened there, like at my school where there was a stabbing and now they think all of us are crazy, but if you've given all the information I don't think that's any reason at all.. *_*
2007-11-23 03:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Jeff Sparrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your actual behavior would be cause for breaking up, but not what school you attend. You apparently weren't acting like a "rich snotty whatever" before he learned of your school, so your actual behavior didn't figure into his reaction - only your school - right?
If that's the case he's wrong to accuse you of anything for that reason - let alone break up with you.
No, I most definitely would NOT break up over a particular school.
2007-11-23 03:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Arsan Lupin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but from what you said....he may have just been being sarcastic and a smart a** when he called you a rich snotty b***h because you had told him that's what other people call you and that's what led to your fight and break up.If he thinks that way about you for real then he's not worth keeping.
2007-11-23 03:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Janell T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl but. If I was a guy, I wouldn't break up with a girl just for her being called A rich snotty *****. Guys are supposed to love you for who you are. Not others opinions about you.
2007-11-23 03:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell no he is a retard, it makes no difference to what school you go to. If anything he is dumb as a cup of dirt I mean he liked you when he thought you were poor or middle class what difference does it make if you have money or not.
I dated a "rich girl" in high school and we got along great and I was certainly not well off actually I was lower middle class, I was not poor but didn't have alot of disposable income. She knew it her family knew it but they didn't hold it over me they liked me for me and that is what counts. They would offer to take me out to dinner with them and at first I though it was because they thought I was poor and underfed or something like that so I took offense to it and told my gf at the time and she told her dad and he sat down and explained that was not the reason they just wanted to get to know me.
So in closing if your ex is that hung up on class distinctions just let him go it sounds to me like he will probably not go far in life with that type of attitude.
2007-11-23 03:17:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋