would you say its from when you started seeing each other, like cinema and gig dates and stuff?
from when you first kissed?
or from when you actually confirmed it?
like i asked my guy 'where do we stand' and he said 'as far as im concerned we're going out'. so where would he take it from because i would say from that date.
sorry its confusing i know!
2007-11-23 03:14:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most relationships start off casual and just a bit of flirting and stuff when you enjoy each others company, I think when people start to develop feelings and get to know the other person really well after a few dates you can say you're ready to be in a relationship. You can be going out as soon as he asks you on a date but a relationship is dating and with feelings. It shouldnt matter when you make it official, youre still relatively new in your relationship. Just have fun right now and dont worry, he sounds like a nice guy.
2007-11-23 03:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is confusing...
I grew up with the mistaken impression that going out with someone meant that you were going out on some kind of formal date like dinner or a movie or going together to a shcool or church or community dance, or something.
But, I was wrong.
Going out includes the very first time that you ever walked home from school with someone and got that tingly feeling because of being so near to someone so dear to you.
First kisses don't actually occur until the two of you have been 'going out' whether it occurs the very first time you go out or the first time you actually go out to dinner and a movie after walking home with each other a few times for a while.
I get a kick out of the answer you say he gave you. In other words, he doesn't care what you think about it, he thinks of you as his dealy beloved sweetheart.
Regardless of what the rules might appear to be about dating and going together or going out, it's whether or not you're dear sweethearts that matters, not all the rest.
All the rest are simply rules to help you keep in mind that it is VERY possible to wind up in some kind of emotional pitfall.
So, keep on asking these kinds of questions: they're important.
2007-11-23 11:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Robert G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have no idea. We just look at each other when people ask us that and go,. "umm.. like? 2 years?" lol! but I would say it was after our first kiss. February 27th, 2006 or something. Cuz that was pretty much the beginning of the excitement. I met my bf online and had to sneak out to meet him (I was 16, he was 20). 2 years later, thinking about the first times we had STILL give me shivers!!!! Like when we were in my room and we shared the emotional eye contact that led to that first kiss... AWWWWW!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-23 11:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it really matter??? your going out so it makes no difference but i wud say from when you confirmed it and make sure he mean going out as in boyfriend & girlfriend not like going out for a chinease
2007-11-23 11:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, I never understood why people cared so much about when it happened. Be glad it did...
2007-11-23 11:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by LoquaciousFirehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone says
"will you go out with me"
and you say
"yes."
lol
2007-11-23 11:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they pass you that piece of paper in class that has, "will you go out with me?", on it and you mark "yes" and pass it back.
:-)
2007-11-23 11:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by ykalex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it realy matter,take it run with it and see were it goes.
2007-11-23 11:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by maddog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its excited if you just let the circumstances happen itself... just enjoy it so that it will be your lasting moments...
2007-11-23 11:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by star c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you first kissed
2007-11-23 11:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋