2007-11-23 01:54:16 · 35 answers · asked by redbow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a girl that doesn't suck.
2007-11-23 01:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
When I met my wife I had no car. I slept in the back of a gas station and that's where I lived and worked seven-days a week.
All I had was my job pumping gas and changin oikl and some mechanic work...ect
I was 25 years old and she was 33.
We dated once and that ended up in an argument becasue she wouldn;t take me home. She said that it was not her place to take care of a man.
So I walked home from the club which was about 3 miles from the station.
The next day she comes over and apologizes because she really thought I was lying that I lived in a gas station.
I had no home of my own. I showered in the bathroom. I had new uniforms to wear and worked with no days off.
I made $350.00 a week take home and in 1983 that was allot of money to me.
We got married two months later and I rented an aprtment and we split the rent and the bills 50/50
She left me five times and I left her -o- times.
We have been married 23 years and have one son.
10 years ago I hit 5 out of 6 numbers on the lotto in Georgia. I almost hit the jackpot.
I got $186,000
My life has been so ever blessed since.
So she married me and I had no money and now I do.
Money should not stop you from a relationship even if your poor....it could end up being her loss.
2007-11-23 02:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by bigapple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love her? Do you think that maybe you just like her?
I read so many questions from young people where they profess that they love some girl or guy.
You are so young to truly know what that kind of love is like!!!
Anyway, if she won't go out with you because you are poor, she is probably not a very nice person.
However, if you really want to get her back, you have to get the only thing that she seems to care about, money.
I don't think that you should do it. I mean, for goodness sakes, try to make more money for yourself, there is never anything wrong with that, but I don't think that this girl is right for you. She kinda sounds like a *****.
2007-11-23 02:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl shld never have said that to you. She doesnt know the value of money coz it could have been earned by her parents. She has been pampered a lot. She is not the girl for you. Her upbringing is not right. If the girl is like this, her parents may be worse than her. Get on with life, there are many understanding girls out there who will be willing to share your problems together.
2007-11-23 02:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mermaid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her, leave her alone, you can do waaaay better than some little tart that just wants someone to be her walking cashpoint
if she was the real deal, then she wouldnt care in the slightest bit if you were a homless person on the streets or a multi billionair
nothing more to say about it, just dont even go there
xx vixz xx
2007-11-23 02:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by xx vixz xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to fight a dragon and travel a thousand miles on foot to rescue a golden chalice from an evil king and then return home on the high seas in a pea green boat while all the time tied to her with a golden thread........that is if she is a princess but, she sounds like an idiot so if I were you I'd do nothing.
2007-11-23 01:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl poorer than you so she thinks you are rich.
Seriously...the girl is materialistic and will want materialistic things throughout life. Get over her and move on.
If you don't want to be poor, put your focus and energy into building skills and credentials that will allow you to earn a decent living.
Worry about the women later.
2007-11-23 01:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by BAM 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You just need to find someone else. In order for her to love you, you have to have money? Well that just means she's never going to love you for the type of person you are she's just going to love the things you have and what you can do for her with the money you have. Leave her alone and find someone else, it aint worth it. It aint worth loving someone who can't love you back.
2007-11-23 02:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by jazzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she mean she doesnt think you can give her security? If so then you need to talk about it. But more than likely shes a gold digging b&^%#. Move on if so she will never be happy and she will never leave yopu alone about it.
2007-11-23 01:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Poppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a really good job and give all the money you make to her. That's called marriage. Then give her everything and have 90% of what you make taken from you. That's called divorce.
2007-11-23 02:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
let it go. if she only wants you for your money shes a shallow gold digger. you seem like a pretty nice guy..find a girl who will appreciate you instead of what you have.
2007-11-23 01:58:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋