she is telling me she loves me since a year. we never met yet. it was all on phone. we are about to meet this week. she was about to leave the country next month, i felt love for her today...(may be i accepted it today), i am trying my best to stop her from leaving the country. she yet loves me. she says she loves me more than her dad. i got a principle in life, thats - one life one woman. so its her now. i found her flirting with other guys a month back, she made excuses to avoid meeting with me (though she is meeting next week now) even though she wants to commit. apart from all these reasons, instead of leaveing her, i simply got attracted, and felt a soft corner for her. i dont know if its gonna work, i dont know if she will continue throughout life, but for me, its a lifetime already. its not a risk (though their are hundreds of chances that i took). its not fake (judged her pretty well in a year). i need no suggestions as my love wont change now. just comment. thankx !
2007-11-23 03:23:31 · 4 answers · asked by confused soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart and go with your instincts. I don't know why she is leaving the country but trying to stop her before meeting and seeing if there is a potential connection might be a little selfish. Meet with her and explain how you feel and then see how things develop from there. It might be for the best - regardless of the outcome.
2007-11-23 03:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Levi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have hear of people "falling in love" online BUT..... Until you are "with" the person you will never really KNOW her. Trust and love is "in the eyes". You ever hear the saying about "seeing a persons sole or heart through their eyes"? You would have to see how you two are TOGETHER before making the decision to BE together. She may/may-not be flirting with a lot of people online for something to do or to FEEL loved. Unfortunately you may be just a number but won't ever know unless you hang with her a while. Make you decision based on that. NOT online.... Good luck!
2007-11-23 11:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see it working. Plus, you don't want anyone who says they love you 'more than their dad'. That's not right. Family love is different, but should never be less than that you feel for someone else. Especially someone you've never met in person.
I'd say approach this very carefully until you meet her in person and spend some time face to face. Things may be very different than you expect. Her avoiding the face to face meeting with you worries me. Maybe she isn't all she says she is. So just wait and see...good luck!
2007-11-23 11:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is deep good luck man i know how it feels!!!
2007-11-23 11:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Smilez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋