me and my (ex)boyfriend were doing very well since we first got together about 5 months ago. we did break up at one point but he said it was an honest mistake of what he did (not going into detail) and i did forgive him and we went back together because he really wanted to and went very far with an apology. but a couple of days ago he told me that we should just stop without even TELLING me why.......and when i asked him he just said something else and is not telling me. why...is he like this?...
2007-11-23 03:12:03 · 22 answers · asked by 2514 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps he made that mistake again and doesn't want to deal with telling you. Or he could just be guilty about that mistake (I'm not sure how big of a mistake it was). Or there really just may be no reason, guys can be stubborn and asses.
2007-11-23 03:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading between the lines, sounds like your boyfriend is a loser and a player. You said you broke up for some "honest mistake" he made and you forgave him, and now he wants to end it with you. Whatever it was that made you break up with him should have been your first clue. This guy obviously doesn't really care about you. If he cared about you at all he would give you the courtesy of an explanation. His attitude tells me he has decided you have worn out your usefulness and now he wants to look elsewhere. Do yourself a favor and kick his sorry @$$ to the curb.
2007-11-23 11:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he did something that he thinks or knows that that you will disapprove of. Either he is a coward and doesn't want to be a man and own up to his mistakes or maybe he just doesn't want to hurt and he thinks that if he doesn't tell you , you won't get hurt (again) but that is just my opinion and you will only find the true answer from him which doesn't mean it will make you feel any better but sometimes the truth hurts and sometimes that's just what it takes to move on. I hope that i gave you an answer you were looking for . and sorry for has happened between you and your boyfriend it must be hard.
2007-11-23 11:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by apple crisp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may-be he is really confused in where the relationship is or where its going he probably needs time to find his feelings and figure out if he made another mistake or he did the right thing but if i was u i would move on. everone deserves a second chance but not a third one when they will just make the same mistake agian if i was u i would move on but its up to u.
2007-11-23 11:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Smilez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend was the same way. Turns out he was using me, lied to me, cheated on me, got another girl pregnant, and the list goes on and on. If he wants to go..let him go it will be better for you in the long run. It wont be easy but it will get better.
2007-11-23 11:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stalking him? My brother has a crazy girlfriend. She drives by our house always, listens to his messages, gets on his myspace thing, and calls him constantly. Are you like this? If so, for the sake of his family...leave the boy alone. if not, well I'm just not sure.
2007-11-23 11:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by LoquaciousFirehawk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on before you get hurt further. Maybe he could not stand the thought you dumped him and wanted to get together. Now it is on his terms. It is all about male ego.
2007-11-23 11:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Iris R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably cheating on you and got the girl pregnant or something. he doesnt want you to think of thim in a bad way, but i honestly think you should move on. hes a total a hole. hes not even worth your time. good luck =]
2007-11-23 11:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by [kristi lou!♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think we have 3 cases
1 -he is a men who love u so much and something happened with him (maybe he is sick) and don't wont to hurt or desturb u.
2- may be he is not feeling happy with you.
3- may be he is dating someone.
so try to find the truth
2007-11-23 11:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know
there are a lot of reasons he could of
but i don't want to be wrong and then ruin something because of it
2007-11-23 11:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by bennyc94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋