Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

Ok,here's the story...
I like a guy who's 18,lets call him A and I'm 14.
I broke up with my boyfriend last month,cause we had a fight and I realised that I wasn't in love with him,so I didn't want to mislead him...
I wanted to go for a drink with my cousin today,but my mom said no cause she thinks that my cousin will try to hook me up with A. She told my sister that my ex boyfriend is really great and better than A. She also said she was happy cause I was going on a party tomorrow,cause my ex is gonna be there and we could maybe hook up again.

She never met any of them and is just saying that cause my older brother doesn't like A.
My brother isn't a good student,he ditches school often and only likes guys like that. A is a good student,doesn't fight often with guys his age and is shy. That's why my brother doesn't like him. On the other hand,my ex is also shy and nice as a friend,and we're still friends,but I like A.
Here's the story of me and A:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApXzCEPRBDLeLAWoO8x7i07sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071114092031AAIx6RK

2007-11-16 05:01:39 · 30 answers · asked by glad to help :) 6 in Singles & Dating

when she moves out (later today) I will give her one of the cars we own (its the paid for car)
I will also pay for 6 months insurance on the car
she can take anything from the house that she wants, with the exception of my clothes,if there are things she wants I will keep them for her at no charge
I will assume all debt that we aquired in the marriage
and I will keep the house with the mortgage
her mother keeps insisting that I also pay her $1500 per month in alimony until she re-marries (if ever)
and keeps accusing me of being freedy and selfish
we do not have children between us and have been married 10 years

2007-11-16 04:58:11 · 31 answers · asked by 1 free American 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Three years of putting up with my husbands ex and finally I blow my top and tell her off. Now she is making a big deal and told the kids they are now mad at me. Keep in mind, I didn't address this to the kids but to her. She brought them into it.

2007-11-16 04:57:20 · 13 answers · asked by peach 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She also talks about how she still loves her recent ex boyfriend and how she still wants to be with him....but why would she say that she is sorry that she didn't pick me.....does she have any feelings towards me?
I was never with her.....she always rejected me and never liked me in that way....but does she now?

2007-11-16 04:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has all these dudes tryin to get at her on Facebook and Myspace and Hi5....and what's up with the relationship status at "Tell you later" and "It's complicated" and all this BS!?? Dudes is writing on her all saying all types of inappropiate stuff and talking about meeting....

Yahoo answers...wtf am I supposed to do?

2007-11-16 04:49:23 · 11 answers · asked by Chris J 2 in Singles & Dating

questions that are just stupid
like does he like me ?
or what should i do?
hell we dont know we are not you
some times i just want to reach trough the screen and puch someone.

2007-11-16 04:46:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi. My husband and I are currently moved officially because of job. But it is true that we moved because of husband's ex.
She made guys call her PRINCESS. She two-timed with my husband's best friend. She left both of them in 1 month(almost 6 years ago) because they couldn't afford to buy her an apartment.
Boys say PRINCESS didn't even care about them at all.
But ever since I started going out with my husband 1 year ago, PRINCESS started showing up in front of my husband everywhere he goes. One day, my husband noticed PRINCESS was behind him without saying anything on the train. But when my husband is with me, she never shows up.
(At first, I doubted my husband met her by chance. We both cried and our marriage was in danger.)
She just wants boys' attention again because my husband's friend's friend told her about me. But what she does is really creepy.

Although I am away from her now, I am still nervous and sometimes have her nightmare.

I would like your advice to forget her.

2007-11-16 04:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have lived together 6 months, been seeing each a year. I’m 25, he’s 36. I just found he was still emailing his ex until she broke it off about 4 months ago. She lives in his home city & he saw her when he went home for Christmas last year & apparently at that time were still talking about them getting back together. He gave her card that they would be growing old together. We had a fight and broke up back in March, I moved out & he called her and told her she had always been the one, the love of his love ... well we made up, I moved back in but he was still emailing her, looking at her pictures. The crystal heart that says love that is on top of our tv is from her and he kept it as a "reminder of her". I found a letter she sent him & what shocked me was she said she didn’t understand why when she asked him, he only said he loved me, not he was in love with me.. He says it's over, do u think he still loves her? It bothers me that she cut if off not him, still wanted her in his life.

2007-11-16 04:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by Alyssa M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently i answered the following question on Yahoo Answers. Then i received an e-mail saying that this answer violated our Community Guidelines. Read what the person asked and how i answered.

Question: What is procec of court merrig by ligely ans only whom get love merrig onlyby court or by ligel advisor only?

Question Details: What is procec of court merrig by ligely ans only whom get love merrig onlyby court or by ligel advisor only? i love a girl n she is my cousin i whant to get merry with her in court only she is just 17 now n i 29 plz sugess me so i can merry with her

Deleted Answer: u cann't marry ur cousin because it incest and it is illegal. they will arrest u or something like that. that's all i can understand. i don't understand what u r asking. go learn some english before asking this question. u need english more than a solution to ur problem.

my Question is Is is rude to tell someone it it illegal and a taboo to marry ur cousin (sister)?

2007-11-16 04:38:48 · 28 answers · asked by spongebob 5 in Marriage & Divorce

and then one thing led to another and we started attending the classes after mass as well. We are really into this, we feel really happy. We have been together for 21 years now and the lady who gives us the class asked us if we would like to get married. Now that we have been learning more about he church we realized that we should and we want to.

Now, i wanted a small wedding but in the bottom of my heart i have always dreamed about a big wedding...what should i do? Some people tell me it is a waste of money to go on a big trip or something, but for some reason i dream of that big day that i never had no matter the cost and my family and kids all in the wedding. What should I do?

By the way, if i do have a wedding should i put my mother and father as the god parents of the wedding? Is it okay?

2007-11-16 04:38:29 · 27 answers · asked by Trying to help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so should i give up on them or stick it out intell monday when they get in to the rehab center they finally fell asleep
my brothers here helping me and so is his friends NEED ADVICE

2007-11-16 04:36:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

clean and the usual. My husband gets upset anytime I do anything outside of our routine. How do you get around this without causing alot of war? I am bored out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-16 04:35:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my bf for about 5 months but some how i feel he's not yet over his ex.. They dated for about 3 years off and on and, i went from being his best friend to his gf (known him for about 4 yrs), and i'm really happy but can't let that go and i know i should. How would i know if he's over her? I'm scared because I know he's always going to have feelings for her... Should i just let that go and be happy? Or be worried that she might come back in the picture and he could leave me?

2007-11-16 04:31:39 · 7 answers · asked by d 1 in Singles & Dating

Every man or woman has got the limitation, and we maintain the safe distance between partners. Do you know what is the distance or space , you maintain with your partner. What about your partner with you,

2007-11-16 04:31:14 · 15 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiancee is having trouble finding his ex wife n we r planning on getting married but he needs his divorce who do we contact to help in his situation. he's been sep for 8 years

2007-11-16 04:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by deviant d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and husband have been together 4 years. He asked me to marry him days after us finisihing high school. We set a date and was off to planing and such. Well Katrina came messed our hall up so we had to post pon the wedding. Then we got pregnant. Now have a 16month old. But we fight. not always and I know its not as bad as some. But I think couple cousler would do us good. So why does everything think this is insane?? I grew up with fighting all the time. And husbnad never did but he grew up with getting beat by his grandfather who raised him all the time. I want something different for my son. My husband says he'll go to couple counsler if I can find one cheap or that insurance will pay. BUt am I insane to see counsler now before things get bad like I use to deal with?

2007-11-16 04:28:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband, and my daughter, which is 15 are not getting along. the last episode, was 2 days ago he reminded her that she was not locking the door when she left for school in the mornings. She left the door open again the next day, and I said something to her (not a lot). Then this morning when she left for school she left the door not only unlocked, but he said it was open. He is convinced she did it on purpose to prove she does what she wants. (now granted due to the thick tension between the two he has backed up from her) Now, would you say he is right, should I get behind him and discipline her. He unplugged her cable in her bedroom. Should I chill out and let her bear her punishment? (I know what is right I guess I just want some feed on it)

2007-11-16 04:24:29 · 18 answers · asked by Tamm 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If I was in a situation for the past year where I didn't really believe the same hogwash that was fed to me as a child, but my family (including my husband does) should I express this to them. I feel like some of the things that they believe (and I used to) are completely idiotic and childish and full of fiction and fantasy. My inlaws are completely judgemental (they call it devout). Do I just keep it to myself? I feel an obligation to allow my child to come to her own decisions and I will not allow anyone to tell her that their way is the only right way.

2007-11-16 04:21:53 · 34 answers · asked by s7e28w81 5 in Family

Me & my husband, Are Seperatedm But Good Friends, & we See each Other Every Few Months, & make Love/ Eat/ But Then, We Fight More, see i have Anxiety Disorder, He cant Cope With It, He Has a Bad Back, I feel So sorry for him, Hes Low Income, I still feel sorry For him.Im so Confused its Not funny. Hes 8 Years Younger Than Me, We Both Claim To Love Each Other, but we get Along Much Better Being apart, Any Suggestions? whos Experienced? or Can Give Good Advice? Last time I seen Him, He Broke a Chair Into Pieces, Cus Of My Mood Swings With Anxiety, sometimes Its Hard To Keep on Living, Whats The Best For Us? im living with a Friend, 2 Hours away & i take a Train to Visit Him Every Few months, We do Good the First Night, Then It seems, Back To Fighting Again, Im helpless/ Worthless/ & running out of Ideas, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP !!!

2007-11-16 04:20:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

likes me and i like her, but i am confused people say that i am a young boy and stuff like that well why would she go for me, if i am a young boy? i really like her but what do yall think, do you think im too young for her plz give me alot of info i really need yalls help thanks, cody

2007-11-16 04:17:54 · 45 answers · asked by codye 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is deployed right now and we talk on the phone everyday or every other day. We have two children, 3 year old and 6 month old. Anyways, our phone conversations have been great up until the last 3 or so. Before, we would always talk about him coming home. About how much we missed each other. He would ask about the kids. Really satisfying conversations. Even on his days off, we would chat online for a couple of hours. So about three phone calls ago we go into an argument about the money and how I am handling it here. He said the bills look fine, but I am spending too much money it seems in other places. He told me to reevaluate my spending habits. So that was fine, we argued and there was some tension there when we hung up. The next conversation was not good either because my toddler stayed up half the night and I lost alot of sleep. When his phone call came around, I ended up releasing lots of frustrations out for almost and hour.

2007-11-16 04:17:53 · 15 answers · asked by Lovin' Life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, a year back, I asked out a girl for being my girlfriend. She was my net-friend from 1 month and she said yes within 2 days. We had met through a networking site. Now its been over an year , and we're still continuing, and it has got pretty seious relationship now . But we never have met each other, and live in different countries, and we hav talked on phone and net. She says that she loves me a lot, and i really hav started feeling same for her. But there is 1 clause, CAN I TRUST ANYONE SO MUCH ON NET. she says that she likes only me, and loves me a lot, and even want to marry me(though its gonna be after sum years).

2007-11-16 04:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Aman 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some quality time activities to do with your spouse or one your are dating? (please, sex is not an answer here).

2007-11-16 04:14:52 · 14 answers · asked by Chateau Man 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please...anything...and I'm not about to call him "beautiful" or anything feminine.

2007-11-16 04:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 04:11:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok My husband and i have been split up for one month. At first he wanted to get back but i didn't because of all the pain that he has caused me. He made me go thru so much he was very irresponsible, on and of jobs for one year. Would not come home to sleep cause he was at the casino ( adiction). I was always pulling him out of the holes he was in. I knew back then that it was not gonna work out with him, cause i'm the opposite of him. So now I'm heartbroken because i love him so much and i want to get back with him. But he does not want to. Why? He tells me he still loves me though. Do you guys think that he will change his mind one day, That he'll call me back? to work things out with me? If not what can i do to move on? I'm always tempted to calling him and begging him to come back with me. I want to stop but i can't. I love him

2007-11-16 04:11:06 · 14 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am selling my pew bows that I used a couple weeks ago on ebay. These ones are pink and white but IF I could custom make them in different colors- What would you be willing to pay? Everyone and the church LOVED them and I got a lot of comments on them but I don't know if I could make them cheap enough to sell them.
So what would you pay?
Thanks!

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=330189213145

2007-11-16 04:03:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-16 04:01:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

PLease, My best friends' little brother just died last night in his sleep & If you could just right down a quick prayer for their family, that would be great!!!! Thanks again, Oh!! And if you are going to be rude, or make fun of the matter, don't even answer, This is a hard time for both of us, thank you for all of the love & Support!!!

2007-11-16 03:56:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you were to hire a Wedding Consultant, what would you want from her/him? Explain in detail why you would hire her? Or if you are already married and would have choosen to hire one, explain what would he/she would have helped you in your wedding?

2007-11-16 03:49:52 · 11 answers · asked by Bethany S 1 in Weddings