Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

Became really cool friends with a classmate (college) We decided no relationship, but had love for each other. We did have a sexual relationship that benefited both of us and we always had fun. We managed to keep our private relationship from our friendship which was even better. Well we got into a really bad argument bc he asked me to pick him up from wk, and after i dropped everything i was doing, when i got there, he had already found another ride. Keep in mind I was clear across town. That started a huge argument bc this wasn't the first time that happened, he did little things like this often. Now he ignores my calls and text messages, continues to sit next to me in class, and won't even look at me. Two weeks later i go to his house, and he tells me the reason was bc when i get angry it's bad, and I don't let things go. He was supposed to be my best male friend, and he took our friendship away without discussing it with me first. It literally broke my heart I don't get it

2007-11-16 02:49:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-11-16 02:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Friends

I realize that this is America, and that in yahoo Q and A you feel you have the right to answer any question you want. And that's great. God bless America! But that also gives ME the right to complain! So here goes.....

Why do people with absolutely no experience on a subject, answer questions? When you ask a question about a cheating spouse or lazy husbands, why do twenty something people who've never been married think they have the answer? I always crack up at the one line answers to serious questions that read "leave and find somebody better." As if that's a solution to ANY marital problem! And this doesn't apply to just marriage/divorce, but to ANY question.

So I guess my point is that if somebody wants your OPINION then give it to them. But if you really don't have any actual experience on the subject, then maybe you should shut up and move on! The world might be a better place if we all stopped talking out of our arses! Sound good?

2007-11-16 02:46:17 · 35 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

will that freak him out?

2007-11-16 02:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by BostonBlondie 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone. Thanks for taking the time to read my post. My boyfriend of almost 2 years - he's a very great guy. He's sweet and caring - but sometimes I really worry because I catch myself dealing with a boy. He has been in and out of jobs since 06 and that always made me feel iffy because I am one to work... I had to grow up fast because I had a son at a young age. I have so many goals and dreams that really do look realistic and some I am fulfilling. I guess I can say I have reached a point in my life where I have discovered myself and catch myself not caring about the things that I used to care about so much. I feel like my day lags because he doesn't work. He lives in my home. He helps with my son. I know he loves me, but to be quite frank, he's lazy and isn't proactive with the things you'd expect from a 23 year old. He just seems out of focus and it's really wearing me out, but I am such a patient and loving gal and have faith and belief. But I'm slowly running low

2007-11-16 02:42:05 · 24 answers · asked by Natalia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He won't stop calling and harassing her. Any ideas on how to get him to stop? They have a 3 year old daughter which my girlfriend has sole custody. He will call late at night when he knows the daughter is in bed and want to speak with her and if he can't he then picks a fight with my girlfriend. He won't move on and won't stop calling. Any ideas?

2007-11-16 02:38:01 · 34 answers · asked by Liam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK me and my bf have been together 5 or 6 months, and it seems like whenever i want to have sex he doesnt want to, on most occasions we do it when HE wants to because he complains of being tired. alright he jacks off everyday, how i know is he tells me. and is an avid porn watcher, am i doing something wrong? i have kinda high sex drive, i like it almost everyday and sometimes more than that depending on mood, but we do go 3 or more days with out it, so its not like we are rabbits or what not. and it aggrivates me so, because he will have a hard on and tell me he isnt horny! and touch me in places so i get horny and he tells me no WTF? it pissed me off so bad last night i said something really hurtful to him. i know it that was wrong, but have i done anything else? please be honest no jokes. oh he is 25 and im 21.

2007-11-16 02:37:36 · 17 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Singles & Dating

We are both 43 - She had cancer and finished treatment, but it sent her into menopause. She can't get hormone replacement therapy, and basically told me "sorry, too bad, we are at a different phase of our life and get used to it." We have two young children and divorce is really not an option.

2007-11-16 02:37:17 · 21 answers · asked by mykidzdad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does any one else live like this and how do they cope? I dont work and have a 6 month old baby, I do everything in the house, cook, clean, look after the baby, iron, wash I mean EVERYTHING. My husband works 7 till 7 in a high powered job pays all the bills and I get whatever I want. The only thing is I am so unhappy. I am exhausted and when my husband comes home the baby is ready for bed so all he does is put him into his cot. I am so tired and think I might be despressed, my husband doesnt understand at all and I cant talk to him. He doesnt notice anything I do, and always seem to be complaining about something

2007-11-16 02:36:22 · 17 answers · asked by nursie_000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

or in which age , we should leave our childish behvyr??

I know it's a silly ques.. :) ... but still i want to know the answer' ...

2007-11-16 02:31:33 · 9 answers · asked by ViX 2 in Family

ive been married almost 18 months,seperated 6 months of that,i want to divorce her but she doesnt want it,she filed a divorce against me(thinking i would not sign),i agreed to the petition and the particulars(even though it was horrible malicious nonesence)but i signed anyway as i wanted the divorce,trouble is she retracted the petition and wont carry on with it,out of spite i guess,just game playing if you ask me,i want closure on this disasterous marriage but i just cant afford to put a petition in myself,and even if i did raise the funds for it she still would not sign the papers anyway so i would have waisted my money,so the question is,,,,,,,,,,,how long do i wait before we become automatically divorced and/or what other ways are there for me to get the divorce?.....some people say its 2 years some say 5 years but then what would i need to do then,,,,,so confused and desperate to get this woman out of my life for good.please help.

2007-11-16 02:30:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would say is good bedtime if you are 13 years old, & you are home shcooled. Also would you let her get a cell phone, a comoputer, and a TV in her room?

2007-11-16 02:27:16 · 21 answers · asked by ♥BABi GiRL♥ 2 in Family

Okay! I'm 19 years of age and is engage to my wonderful fiance; who I been with for the past two years. He is a ceo of his online company and I'm a student at college going for my bachlors in Psychology. He is 20 and I'm 19 as I stated. We are planning to buy Our first dream house which is a half of million dollars. 500k! I yes we could afford it becaus ehis income is well over 200,000 a year. The problem I have is I was raise on a single parent paycheck to paycheck with my mom and now my fiance is makeing all this money and we are about to get married and move into this house, I feel like i'm being lazy. Am I being lazy? He says I don't have to work, but I also go to school online, we have no kids and hardly any debt. Should I work? I never work a day in my life and couldn't tell you what work is. I don't have that ego that most women have to be independent to poves something and don't plan to! don't need to prove anything to anyone because if chips fall down I have my degree.

2007-11-16 02:27:02 · 15 answers · asked by The Woman of God , I shall be! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 5 years i love him very much but he has a horrible temper. He never has hit me he just calls me horrible names , like lazy , a ***** and the C**t word. He gets mad over really silly things. He breaks me down then tells me how sorry he is and it will never happen again how many chances can i give him. Im 30 dont want to be misreble the rest of my life . I hate when he screams in my face. WHat should i do ?

2007-11-16 02:26:49 · 25 answers · asked by andrea B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there some website I can go to to look it up for free, marriage records

2007-11-16 02:26:44 · 3 answers · asked by jai74lin 3 in Weddings

last night my ex who lives in the 2nd bedroom because of our mortgage sat beside me on the couch and asked if i wanted to share a blanket and watch tv with her. She left me qbout 3 months ago and hasnt shown me any emotion for the longest time. I turned down the opportunity and feel really bad about it. After i went to bed she crawled in beside me because it was to cold in her room. Am i wrong for feeling a bit used and confused about the cuddling aspect of the night. I never did put my arms around her.

2007-11-16 02:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 02:23:33 · 30 answers · asked by Taylor B 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced now for over a year. I found out my ex hubby of 14 1/2 years had been lying and doing things behind my back. I gave him so many chances and finally got the divorce. We have 4 sons and now I find myself wondering what to do now. I have my own small buisness and have the home and my beautiful children. But seems the ex is still in the picture. I tell him that it is to painful and he needs to just see the kids but he gets mad and wants to get together again. He says he found God yet we still argue all the time. Always tells me no man will ever do for me all the tings he did. I am 38 years old, I am nice looking but I cant seem to get to know anyone new. I have lost so much self esteem I feel as though I walk with my head down and cant nake eye contact? I dont want to be alone forever. Any advice would be great because at this point I am so confused and dont trust men. He was my best friend and betrayed me for so many years. I need the courage to move on and look up!

2007-11-16 02:22:19 · 6 answers · asked by sharp p 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I figured I'd put this question out to the masses.There is a guy in my life who I have been friends with for about ten years.In the beginning it was just a friendship,I was engaged to his best friend.After his best friend LEFT ME,we became closer.Eventually I came to love him.I told him about four years ago that I had feelings for him and that they wouldn't go away.He told me he loved me,but wasn't sure what kind of love,and that he wasn't saying we could never be together,just not now.It's been four years and we are slowly approaching 30.We are incredibly close.We talk everyday,we go out.He pretty much hates all of my boyfriends,he won't call them by name.As of recently things have gotten closer.He took me to his brothers wedding,he actually took initiative and got me one hell of a christmas gift,we're going away together,and when he decided to buy a house he asked me to move in (pretty much as a roommate).I just can't make heads or tails of it.Everyone thinks we belong together...

2007-11-16 02:19:20 · 32 answers · asked by courts80 1 in Singles & Dating

For instance: The mother of a grown son and daughter tells aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. that the daughter has closed her out of town restaurant. The sister has also told everyone. But it is kept a secret from the brother. The brothers' info is not kept secret from anyone. But the sister and mother keep the brother in the dark on many occassions. I would like to know the underlying psychology of this secretism and the words to describe it.

2007-11-16 02:18:14 · 1 answers · asked by WhyWhyWhy 2 in Family

How did you react or how would you react if your boyfriend or girlfriend left something extra in the toilet and stunk up the bathroom?

2007-11-16 02:17:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Make this quick, married guy hitting on a married woman, only verbally!! As he knows and she knows it can never be more. She ignores him, but he has obviously fallen for her in his mind and goes to a place where he knows he will see her, and when he does he finds some way to speak to her, she only responds shortly but not rude. What is his reason for doing this? How far can his crush go, this has been going on for a year?

2007-11-16 02:15:26 · 35 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a senior in high school (17 going on 18)and my friend i work with is 22. (he didnt go to college he jumped into the work field) well, we got to hang out a couple times and we made out. He called me and told me he likes me a lot and wants to go on a date with me. I agreed, its in 2 weeks (bc im busy this weekend) we talk and its great, yesterday i went up to work and we talked for a bit but i had to go, i called him after he was done with work and he didnt answer his phone, usually he goes to sleep after work. i felt that he should have called me when he had the chance..am i wrong? everyone says hes into me and really likes me. he even told me himself...but im cynical sometimes and question the motives of people bc ive been hurt b4. is he really into me? some people said maybe he wants sex, but since we were friends already i talked to him about that part of my life and i dont rush into sex right away he he doesnt either.Help! is he sincere or is he a player?

2007-11-16 02:15:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm the husband,
I moved away from my town where I grew up for 28years. One of my best friends is on business for about 5 months about 2 hours from where I live. He would like me to come there for a weekend to "hang out". He's single and has picked up women in front of my wife and brought them back to houses and such and my wife sees that. I understand my wife not wanting me to go there for the weekend. ( we have had some past trust issues). But how do I explain to my friend that I am married now and married people do not go out with buddies for the weekend? does that make sense? How do other married women feel about that?

2007-11-16 02:14:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I have a brother who's ALWAYS in trouble... He's been in/out of jail. He's violent and can't manage his temper... He's been given multiple chances to change himself and he's just gotten worse... My parents tried multiple times to take him in/help him but, it never ends well and he ends up getting kicked out everytime... His latest/greatest he's got a 7 month old son he doesn't see or do anything for- I've given the mother most of my baby things to help.. Although, I do NOT know her. Is it wrong for me to NOT want my brother around my family/children. He stopped by for a "visit" while I was at work and my husband sent him on his way...? I know my parents are going to get upset but I just don't want him around.. I feel that when he is around he's "casing the joint" and waiting to steal our things. Which he's done before...

2007-11-16 02:13:59 · 14 answers · asked by pebblespro 7 in Family

do ppl on here use the word " love" lightly....i mean i read a few questions that said we've been dating a week and i love him/her so much...thats kind of a **** of.....or is it just me?
THANKS

2007-11-16 02:10:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 01:59:21 · 5 answers · asked by Blondie 3 in Singles & Dating

HE ISNT MOTIVATED ANYMORE AND I KNOW HIS STUPIDITY AND LACK PaSSION FIR LIFE IS A TURN OFF. HOW DO i GET HIS BLACK A** OF MY COUCH AND BACK TO MILWAUKEE? TIPs, SUGGESTION, STUFF THAT WORKS

2007-11-16 01:59:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Living in Miami Beach is dealing with too many people but just to find a good guy to meet somebody worth it...

2007-11-16 01:57:39 · 1 answers · asked by lady_virtual_mercenary 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i are pregnant and i told him no sex until the baby. he finally started to give up trying to have sex with me. but now at his house he drinks beer and one time i came over and he didnt know i was coming and i walked in and he had pot lips. he's 17. if we had sex i KNOW he would stop.
how do i get him to stop? do i have sex with him?

2007-11-16 01:56:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating