Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

my ex wife is 24 and decide to end our marriage because a co worker who is 30- 34 used to listen to our personal problems and she told me that she started having feelings for him, i divorced her its been a year and some times i still think about her but not on the same way love is gone but it hurts knowing that my 5 year marriage ended that way.

2007-11-16 08:32:49 · 27 answers · asked by JUAN C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

every time i stand up for myself i cant help but cry because i am mad and a emocinal person how can stop this emocioness thing going on

2007-11-16 08:32:12 · 3 answers · asked by help!!!32 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad has pretty much disowned me for dating and having a child my someone outside my race. And now my aunt and uncle want my son to come and live with him because I have a fiance, and I want let my son have everything under the moon. I want to find ppl that have had the same problem. I have gave up on my dad coming back into our life. I mean he doesn't even call to see if we are still alive. It is just CRAZY!!!

2007-11-16 08:28:09 · 11 answers · asked by doggyfan 1 in Family

Recently I became good friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me, is almost too nice to me, and even made me a cd after she asked me if I liked a certain band. She also made copies of her notes for me. She asked me my number too, so we could study together the other night. When I was walking to my car, she also stopped and picked me up (my car was maybe 30 feet away), and we talked alone in her car. Also, today we went and got coffee at school, after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam (she finished first). She hasn't admitted it yet, but I think she likes me. I'm hoping other people agree...she even dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in her's. How should I let her know I like her, but subtlely?

2007-11-16 08:26:28 · 14 answers · asked by cracky 2 in Singles & Dating

he has 8 wives and 26 kids
whats a (un)proud mama to do!?

2007-11-16 08:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl at my job that I like and she is goin through a tough time bc of what happens in her previous relationships she has been in. she is depress about it, she is depressed by the fact that she thinks she did something wrong in the relationship and is tired of bein used then dumped. I would like to make her feel better, during lunch she talks with the other females. What can i do or say? Im a nice guy and all, and i truly do like her and i would def love to get to know her. What is the best thing i can do or say to her, i want her to know that i can be there for her to develope a stronger friendship then lead to relationship

2007-11-16 08:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

we were married for 2 years and have a four yr. with medical problems.. i don't know if i love him, i don't know what to do?

2007-11-16 08:23:46 · 22 answers · asked by m_vanness1979 1 in Marriage & Divorce

high school im a year older. weve been dating for a couple months and secretly for the first few before we got caught. her mom doesnt approve and has cut off mearly all connectoin with her, shes grounded from seeing me for years, until she leaves for college basically (btw we're very serious about each other, we already say we love each other and i really do). she goes with her everywhere, for ex. if she stays after school her mom has to be there to keep an eye on her. whenever she talks to her mom she cries, and she doesnt like talking about it with me. i hate seeing her unhappy, and if i talk to her mom the way i want to shes prob gonna cut us off completely no phone or comp. so im stuck i dont know how to help, it makes me cry and very depressed seeing her depressed about this and just please any advice how to help?

2007-11-16 08:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by help 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

should i tell my wife i cheated on her

2007-11-16 08:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by bar m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have some evidence that she might be cheating, and that its been a problem in the past. I have alraedy asked her about it a lot, and she says nothing happened at all and to trust her. Its hard though seeing what i found written about this guy. she said things like i have a crush on him, i feel like a school girl again. In nervous/excited and all the inbetween. Did he tell you what he said, i hope he likes me, he seemed to. Those are just a couple of things. Anyway,she already got real mad at me cuz i kept bugging her about it even though she told me the first time. What do you all think, and how can i approach her in a non offending way to get the real truthful answers out of her?

2007-11-16 08:22:23 · 17 answers · asked by supremyecy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy i really like made fun of me during math class and he keptt snapping my bra just so he could show off to his friends. I was totally embarased.

2007-11-16 08:21:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and are will probably get a limo to drive us from the church to the reception, because of how big my dress is it's probably the best way. We have 12 total attendants. If we get this limo, does it mean we have to transport them AND their dates in the limo? I'd feel bad if we could not transport their dates with them in the limo...but then again 24 people is quite a bit to transfer, and I don't think we'll get a limo THAT big. I also dont know what they would do with their own cars in that case? I don't think the church will let us keep the cars there. What have other people done in this situation? Is it rude for just the bride and groom to travel in a limo themselves?

2007-11-16 08:19:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

First off, I'm 13, have a 4.0, play in basketball(two teams, all-star and school), fastpitch and slowpitch softball, track,cross-country,band,quizball,and have to admit I'm attrative, but not vain. I go to a school where a lot of girls my age are already having sex with their 16 year old boyfriends. I have a boyfriend who recently turned 15, and has asked me several times to have sex. I've already made a promise to God that I'm waiting and have told him(my boyfriend) that. He is a great person, but seems...perverted at some times. I'm not a Holy-roller,I know that, but I made an promise. I have been pondering this issue for months now, and am trying to decide. Thanks for the time.
-Siara Nicole

2007-11-16 08:19:07 · 59 answers · asked by Siara Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok there has been some sort of twisted recurring phenomenon going on in my life for the past... i don't know... 4 years where it seems like all the time i run into girls who are dating my friends' (or people I know and am reasonably friendly with)...why might htis happen...and what should i do about it ine general

2007-11-16 08:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by mapeacock86 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm married, but some guys don't notice or care ; so when they hit on me, should I ignore them, put them in their place or what? I smile alot so maybe they get the wrong idea, but I am very in love with my husband and think its disrespectful for them to say something sexual to me.

2007-11-16 08:17:47 · 25 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my dad is a truck driver he comes home every day and sleeps and we only get to see him on the weekends, but he got off tonight and my mom wanted to go out for dinner just the family, but this is what he says to her "where staying here and eating. are you done talking" exact words, and he always has dinner at home every night and every night its meat. dont you think thats rude.

2007-11-16 08:15:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have the biggest trust issues involving men....i never trust men more than 50%....not my husband,not my brothers,even my dad....the worst right now is my husband...he's running his own busniness & is constantly flying off somewhere for the past 5 months. sometimes,i only got to see him once a week. he doesnt talk bout his work much, he rarely call when he's away, he always has this weird look on his face when i ask him things regarding his work or the people he works with....plus the tone of his voice is soooo not convincing. I'm having the hardest time trying to believe him...i keep wondering whether he's having an affair or not?....Please help me!!! What do i do?

2007-11-16 08:14:28 · 25 answers · asked by ladylike 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a woman chooses a man instead of a woman to stand in her wedding in the "maid of honor" place. What would he be called? NO I'm not gay, I just happen to have a best friend who's a girl and getting married.

2007-11-16 08:13:21 · 16 answers · asked by Doc 13 3 in Weddings

hi I'm going to one of my what you might so called friends ( a guy that i kinda like) and i was wondering what kind of things we could do- i'm 14, he's 16... ideas! :) oh and what should I wear?

2007-11-16 08:12:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-16 08:11:55 · 5 answers · asked by spud.mark 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

married with kids and 15 years my junior. Age doesn't matter but the married part should. What would you do?

2007-11-16 08:06:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

more info for question asked earlier...
she says she doesnt want anything serious. then she says she does. she never brings them to her house. when this happens the kids are with their dad or family. she takes good care of them, mostly on her own! she may just be getting crazy after a life full of being married, to a loser. but she has went home with someone she didnt know. that definately worries me. she plays like she is strong and never gets hurt. but i know her. i think she hurts alot more than she lets on. thanks for all your answers.

previous question i am explaining:
i really like her. we get along well. she has been through alot. she was with the same guy from 14 to 26. since then they have split. they have 3 kids. she started dating. its been about a year since. it seems like almost every weekend she calls with someone new she has slept with. i dont know what to say. dont want to be rude to her. but i have told her that she wont find anyone by doing that and she needs to hold off for a while when she first meets someone. she hasnt taken my advice and i dont know what else to tell her. shes being used and wont even admit it. she acts like shes the player when she really isnt...what should i do???

2007-11-16 08:06:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sunday will be the anniversary of my husband's first marriage. We were together last year on that day as well but I wasn't around that day I only talked with him on the phone. We didn't mention it at all so I didn't notice any weird mood or anything.
What should I expect?

2007-11-16 07:59:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 07:56:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have known each other for 2 years now, we spend practically every spare moment with one another, he knows my parents I know his...we hang out with them. I went to his family weddings, we are going to three of my families next year...when do I push on committment with him?

2007-11-16 07:56:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see my parents are divorced and my big sis and i are curently living with my mom i know its best for me..... but im worried about my dad cause hes 49 yrs old even if hes married and im scared that something hapens to him:: i love him so much ive always been daddys little girl but now he wants me to go with him which is great but i know it wont be a good life like my moms i dont know what to do??? who to choose ?? where to live??? i love both of my parents but i dont know??? i want to go to my fathers cause he let me more freedom like going to a friends house after school or birthday parties which i will love lol:P but my mom wontm let me but she still lets me go to big school trips and my father lives in another city so i wont be able to see my friends got it??...... what to i do???? i know its complicated .... btw im 13 years old . ( plz no rude comments ) i really want it serious...thx xox

2007-11-16 07:55:48 · 4 answers · asked by ♥-'me'-♥ 2 in Family

2007-11-16 07:54:14 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 07:52:10 · 31 answers · asked by Ahwell 7 in Marriage & Divorce

How did you cope? And did you get any payback?

My payback is these wankers are still living their glory days of high school and are incredibly lonely sad people. I don't need anymore than that.

2007-11-16 07:51:27 · 13 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Friends

I'm really quiet in class. sometimes I'll go a whole period without saying anything to anyone. I was walking in the hallway and this guy and his friend were like damn look at that ***. at the time I didn't know how to handle the situation so I didn't say anything at all and kept walking. one of the guys is in my english class. after class he walked up to me and was like why are you so shy in class? I started to say I'm not shy but he cut me off and said yes you are then we walked in opposite directions. we have to read journal prompts out loud for credit or take a zero. I'd rather take a zero. he was like "Laila read yours" but I had alread told the teacher no so I just looked at him and looked away. he has a friend who really likes me. every time his friend sees me in the halls he stares and when I look back he looks away like I'm not even there. I am so confused.
I saw him today and he was with his friends (the guy who asked why I'm shy). he was looking at first but when I looked

2007-11-16 07:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating