should i tell my wife i cheated on her
2007-11-16 08:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by bar m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
right after you hire the divorce attorney.
2007-11-20 06:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by verrico98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hide it it may eat you up inside and it will also be even more hurtful if she finds out on her own. i say tell her, it may hurt but if you still want to be with her tell her why you did it and what you're willing to do to save your marriage. your wife will probably also respect you more for being a man and telling her instead of hiding it. i know i would but it doesn't stop it from hurting. she'll be angry and it will take her a long time to get over it but time heals all wounds. deal with it together, go to counseling or just talk and be honest with her about everything. dishonesty is detrimental to a marriage.
2007-11-16 08:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by MrsHec4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means tell her...the truth will come out any way sooner or later always does.............She has the right to make the choice of staying with you or leaving you. If she tells you to stay make sure you get a check up for stds...The quality of women cheating with a married man are questionable
2007-11-16 08:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by wilma s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The book Im reading now says yes. Bet ya cant guess why Im reading it?
2007-11-16 08:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by wrknprgsat47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should you were man enough to cheat so be man enough to face her and tell her the truth
2007-11-16 08:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and as a wife I would want to know...it's up to her what she does with that info, but it should come from you.
2007-11-16 08:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why tell her, unless you want her out of your life. You cheater on her. Now you want to use this excuse to end it or ask for forgiveness?
2007-11-16 08:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out why you did it and what will stop you from doing it again. if you learn something, then it may improve your relationship. in that case, move on and be really good.
2007-11-16 08:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES OF COURSE SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO KNOW AND BASICALLY YOU HAVE PLACED YOURSELF IN THE PREDICAMENT OF FACING THE OUTRAGE. Your pathetic
grow-up and hope she throws you to the curb.
2007-11-16 08:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋