Sunday will be the anniversary of my husband's first marriage. We were together last year on that day as well but I wasn't around that day I only talked with him on the phone. We didn't mention it at all so I didn't notice any weird mood or anything.
What should I expect?
2007-11-16 07:59:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHOA- I'm not dwelling on it. The only reason I know the date is because it is in the divorce decree, which I have seen becaus I referred to it when we were having issues with her regarding the kids. I just didn't know if this was something that was a big deal or not- I don't have an ex husband so I don't know if these dates hold any significance, so rather than bring it up to him- which he may not even realize that it's coming up- I thought I would ask you guys.
No, he did not cheat with me!! We didn't even know each other until over a year after the divorce was final (2 years since they had separated).
2007-11-16 08:09:25 · update #1
I know what you mean it was in the back of my mind on the day that would have been my husband and his ex wife's anniversary. but he totally forgot I have to admit I asked if she called and he was like why would she call??He total forgot and didn't think about it. My husband said he didn't care about her any more and he was with me. I'm sure that's the way your husband feels also. And besides I'm sure he is much happier with you he left her for a reason. I think since girls might think about it they tink guys will to but guys are different. I woudl treat it like any other day and if you really want to remind him why hes with you then you can do something special for him ;) good luck I'm sure it will be fine.
2007-11-16 08:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect? I didn't know that women expected our boyfriends/husbands to have some sort of reaction on the day of their anniversary with an EX! C'mon lady! If he wanted to be with his ex, he would!
2007-11-16 16:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by MayMay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he'll not think much about it, except maybe say that was the day he and his ex got married, and let it go at that. Don't bring it up with him, because I'm sure he knows it would have been his anniversary.
2007-11-16 16:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think its pretty clear- if he is YOUR husband- you need not worry about any previous anniversaries. he obviously chose to move on- to the point of marriage with someone else.
don't expect anything!! just be with your husband and think nothing of it. if you chose to make it a big deal- it will only hurt your relationship since he has moved on but you are stuck with his past!!!
2007-11-16 16:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by missgabbieh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, hopefully nothing. If he's married to you, he shouldn't be bothered much by the end of a previous marriage.
2007-11-16 16:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop thinking about an anniversary that doesn't exist anymore. why are you keeping his former marriage alive? Let it die. It didn't survive, and you shouldn't think about it anymore.
2007-11-16 16:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is married to you....why do you even concern yourself with the anniversary of his first marriage??
2007-11-16 16:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
expect to be love more than she
expect to see him for you and you for him
expect that this doent matter
expect that that was then and this is now
expect to have a strong happy long love life.
2007-11-16 18:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by 10tolife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't have an "ANNIVERSARY" anymore... You and him do, but they don't... But if this is bothering you (not bothering him) that much, then just put on something sexy and take his mind off of it... lol
2007-11-16 16:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Dani_n_keem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat two weeks ago. I don't even think he realized what day it was. Don't think about it- he probably isn't!
2007-11-16 16:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋