more info for question asked earlier...
she says she doesnt want anything serious. then she says she does. she never brings them to her house. when this happens the kids are with their dad or family. she takes good care of them, mostly on her own! she may just be getting crazy after a life full of being married, to a loser. but she has went home with someone she didnt know. that definately worries me. she plays like she is strong and never gets hurt. but i know her. i think she hurts alot more than she lets on. thanks for all your answers.
previous question i am explaining:
i really like her. we get along well. she has been through alot. she was with the same guy from 14 to 26. since then they have split. they have 3 kids. she started dating. its been about a year since. it seems like almost every weekend she calls with someone new she has slept with. i dont know what to say. dont want to be rude to her. but i have told her that she wont find anyone by doing that and she needs to hold off for a while when she first meets someone. she hasnt taken my advice and i dont know what else to tell her. shes being used and wont even admit it. she acts like shes the player when she really isnt...what should i do???
2007-11-16 08:06:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
also it bothers my bf when she calls and tells me about her nights with the men she meets. any advice on that part??
2007-11-16 08:09:40 · update #1
I can't believe she tells you this ... why would she lie about this ?
2007-11-16 08:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that what she does is no concern to him. Why does it bother him. What she does is not what you do and he should know that. He is being insecure and might think that hearing about all of her adventures might sound appealing to you. I would just reassure him that he is wrong and you are just being her friend. I am sure when his friends get lucky they tell him about it. They just don't tell you about it. Most men don't talk like woman do. I would stop telling him about what she tells you. Your friend might also be going out and having this fun to forget about how much she hurts. You think about it less if you are busy.
2007-11-16 16:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it bothers you, tell her that you are not interested in her love life and that she should stop telling you about them.
2007-11-16 16:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you you don't want her to get an STI. Tell you are concerned for her health. Just don't tell your bf what you talk about!
2007-11-16 16:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Laughing all the way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋