married with kids and 15 years my junior. Age doesn't matter but the married part should. What would you do?
2007-11-16 08:06:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont be a home wrecking wh0re.
2007-11-16 08:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel L 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm in almost the same situation as you are, I'm married and ran into an old ex girlfriend and she is so gorgeous, and me and my wife have had problem from the get go, I have been needing this for such a long time, she knows I'm married and is ok with it, talk to him and see what kind of wife that he has, marriage with kids some times keeps us there for a while, are you willing to be his mistress ?? if you 2 have good strong feelings go for it !! don't care how his wife would feel, maybe she deserves this, maybe he needs this new relationship to have something to look forward to and give him a reason to keep going on,, don't listen to people that have negative views on this issue like saying what if you was his wife, your not his wife and she may be useless and he may be hanging on until the kids are grown, a lot of people do this for the kids, if you like him you go for it,, !!!! marriage isn't nothing but a promise, and people break promises everyday, I'm sure if he is looking for someone he isn't happy with what he's got, I know I'm not,, I'm going for my relationship, it's fair game with love and war baby !!!! word to the wise,,, Never judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes !!!! good luck,,
2007-11-16 16:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A chemistry you both felt that he probably has felt with about 15 other women prior to his bumping into you.....
Listen, he's married. Turn the tables and think if you were the wife home with the kids and he's out there cheating and messing with different girls? How would you feel?
Don't ruin his family, let HIM do that! If he said he'll leave her, he's lying....why hasn't he already? Just please, don't fall for his games and let him sweep you off your feet because he's obviously good at this game.
And if you two did end up together, think of how nice your life would be with a few kids mad at you for breaking up their Mommy and Daddy and a nice bitter ex wife hating you for breaking up her family....
Not trying to be rude, just being realistic! I would have walked the other way as soon as marriage came out of his mouth. And RAN as soon as I heard he had kids too!
2007-11-16 16:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Momto2inFL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it Karma always bit you in the butt I will give you an example. My sister was married a woman whom she knew he was married oursued him wrecked the home. Well the woman than go a cyst in her ovaries the size of a grapefruit and they had to remove it and she may never have kids now and she is getting cheated on by the same guy that left my sis for her. The only goo dthing is my sis realized she was with a loser.
2007-11-16 16:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mari 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The married part is the sticking point here.
He's married and that means off limits.
I don't understand why anyone would ever even consider getting involved with another person that is already married. If they would cheat on their current spouse, what in the h*ll makes you think they wouldn't cheat on you?
2007-11-16 16:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by countryguyhfc 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get a new chemistry set as the 1 your using has bad chemicals>
2007-11-16 16:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let it go and find someone who's available. Sometimes we married people find other people attractive, but we shouldn't act on it and not let it be obvious. If he's a decent guy, he'll not act on any chemistry, and if you are decent, you'll not act on any chemistry with a married person.
2007-11-16 16:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely not even think about it. It would only be very complicating with him being married and having kids. There's other men out there...I'm sure you will find someone else with even better chemistry.
2007-11-16 16:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would not pursue this and leave the married guy alone .im sure there are plenty of single men out there that you may have the same chemistry with you just have to go out and look ......Dont be a homewrecker
2007-11-16 16:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what you had chemistry? I'm sure you've had chemistry with plenty of other guys. He's married he's off limits.
2007-11-16 16:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Laughing all the way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad chemistry, he is married and that is a good reason to stay away.
2007-11-16 16:15:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋