Family & Relationships - 16 November 2007

We both work 1st shift now, but a friend of ours told me that there is a job opening at his work but it is 3rd shift. She would work 8am to 4:30pm and my new shift would be 9:30 pm to 7 am. Does anyone think that this would put our relationship going toward a bad direction? The new job I would be making about $100 more per week. But I hate the job I am at now. Need some advise thank you for helping me.

2007-11-16 00:54:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 00:53:16 · 20 answers · asked by nicname 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 00:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by borleo23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 00:51:12 · 16 answers · asked by john m 1 in Singles & Dating

why would a wife tell her husband he is not in her heart to be intimate with? and when wet in a sexual situation, decline intercourse, lying saying she is not wet, then stating she lied and saying she just does not want to admit that she is attracted to me?

2007-11-16 00:47:59 · 23 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this so called racist fight thing that happened in my town so i asked a question about it i pointed no fingers nor were the contents rude.all i said was before anyone jumped to conclusions escecially the naacp who were her.to not jump to conclusions.and they deleted it,wtf.i see questions similar to it about the jena 6 and nothing happens.tell me thats not being racists.

2007-11-16 00:45:03 · 4 answers · asked by mr. y 5 in Friends

2007-11-16 00:44:54 · 15 answers · asked by estrella l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have find it hard to believe that my wife was a virgin when slept for the first time. We been married for 3 yrs.

2007-11-16 00:37:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Live-in Relationships means living with a person(before marriage) to see if he/she is the one whom you are looking for.

2007-11-16 00:29:42 · 20 answers · asked by Micky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a daughter with my second husband. He used to tell me that my first husband was a fool for giving up on his daughterand that he would never. That if we divorced it would be war for custody. These were remarks he made while we were getting along. Sadly I have to divorce him because he left me then begged me not to divorce him when he lived across town. Then he ran into the military at 35 and forgot me and his daughters were even alive. He has been gone 4 months and comes back to town next week. I saw where he rented hotel rooms and went to strip clubs and spent outrageous amounts of money on weekend passes about 400 a weekend!! So no amount of begging not to divorce will work it's over. Even though i'm sure i'll win the custody b-cuz i'm a good mom i still wonder should i move away as seeing him once a week will be hell and i'll always b worried he'll drag me back into court or even steal my daughter Lately he has made remarks about hating me.

2007-11-16 00:29:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Research on chimps and baboons suggests that males of their species can forgive their petrol mates or group members after some time while females keep their grudges for a longer time, sometimes all through their life and never forgive the ones that wronged them. Does the same apply to humans too??

Ask yourself: for how long can you hate someone who wronged you? may be there lies the answer

2007-11-16 00:29:14 · 9 answers · asked by Gulab 6 in Singles & Dating

My wife cheated on me which eventually led to our seperation and divorce. Then I meant this woma at work. She wanted to go out with me. But she was married. She was ok with that. I wasn't. Usually I think to blame is a bad sex life or marriage. But why do men and women have to resort to cheating? Just end it if it comes to that?

2007-11-16 00:25:05 · 20 answers · asked by Ynot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Last year at this time, my husband and I went through bad times, and he hurt me alot. He got sent back early from Iraq because of it, and almost got kicked out the army. As the months passed things began to get better between us and I let my guard down just a little. His friend returned from Iraq 3 weeks ago, and since then things have been bad. He is smoking weed, abusing pills, and neglecting our son. I have had it..I try to talk to him but nothing is getting through. I asked him not to do these things but instead he does it behind my back. Game recognizes Game..So I know whats going on but he denies it. To redeem himself he brings up things I did wrong in the past. I just want our family to not fall apart, but he is not hearing me. What do I do? I really want to leave because I feel like I am being totally disrespected and tired of constantly being lied to. Marriage is based on trust, I feel like if I cant trust him then what is that for a marriage? How do I get through to him?

2007-11-16 00:25:04 · 16 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

before having sex? Does it really matter in the end of all?

2007-11-16 00:24:37 · 22 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

And if so, is it just because they are tired of living a lie? Does it make it easier for them if they get caught? Should I file for divorce or wait for him to fess up?

2007-11-16 00:22:58 · 13 answers · asked by raininonsunday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-16 00:20:10 · 16 answers · asked by sda_boy 1 in Family

I know we live in the 21st century however aren't somethings suppose to stay traditional? I mean if a man wants to marry you, he will propose, simple as that.

The reason I bring this up is...my fiance's sister that was DYING to get married mind you (insight--she's the last one in the family to be engaged --has made several comments that it bugs her & her BF BETTER propose by...October or whatever the month maybe that time) & her BF wasn't asking so she asked him and he said "I guess". What's with all the pressure? I mean isn't love suppose to be patient? I don't think marriage should involve ultimatiums either. Keep in mind this man just lost his Mother too...kind of bad timing. I just want ti to work but I'm seeing when a woman proposes the odds are stacked that it usually don't bc the man didn't want ot get married to begin with. I mean look at the divorce rate already. Ugh. Your thoughts?

2007-11-16 00:14:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been engaged for about 3-4 months , both of us are too busy working during the day , however , we only have the weekends , the thing is , he has been ditching me in the last 3-4 weeks , he had to travell , last week he had to go over his cousins and this weekend we were soppuse to go to a show together , took me a day to get ready , and when the time came he had to go to beach with one of his friends who just came from another country
i have been moaning and complaining about this , he doesnt seem to care ( well he does bring me reasons and tries to make me calm down ) but i hate it how he doesnt care about spending time with me , i can see how happy he is with his friends and how depressed he is around me , i dont know what should i do to show him that he should care about me too that he should be a little bit more considerate about going out with me ?!

2007-11-16 00:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever had an ex who left you for someone else?If so how did you felf?

2007-11-16 00:08:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello friends,
I want to challenge myself that I can to good. I want to loose much weight, trying to speak and write englsh nicely and in flunclly. I want to change my hairs well i have dent ruff "can anybody give me a solution for that " I want to make soooooooooooo many friends and be happy with them, I want to erase bad thinkings from my heart and my head. I wanna to be happy because from that time when i came to Canada i was always sad. i don't have a reason to be happy. people are happy why don't me. i didn't do anything and god giving me punishment, a very bad punishment he is taking back all of my elder family mem. whom i love and care about and he threw me far away from them that i can't see them. I AM A REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLY BAD PERSON THAT NOBODY LIKE ME EVERYBODY STAY AWAY FROM ME. WHAT CAN I DO??? MY MIND IS NOT WORKING. WELL I AM A LIVING DEAD???????/ ANYBODY THERE WHO CAN HELP A LIVING UGLY DEAD WHOSE MIND IS NOT WORKING WHO IS BORING???/ ANYBODY???

2007-11-16 00:08:36 · 7 answers · asked by lala 2 in Friends