2007-11-16 00:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by borleo23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe because you are a masochist.
2007-11-16 01:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself unconditionally first.
Realize that things happen for a reason, whether good or bad, and they can all be used as learning experiences.
Not all people are bad or mean - but it takes a lot of digging to find that one and you're bound to get a few crappy ones along the way.
Just take it slow and really get to know yourself first then start looking for that one person who can love who you are instead of trying to make you into what they want you to be.
2007-11-16 01:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by mizryLayne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can love another person if you still love someone else who hurt you. You have to give yourself time to get over it before you can move on.
2007-11-16 01:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The emotional stability of any person can be measured by how well they can adjust to and adapt to things that happen in their lives. Some people can never adapt and forever hang on to things that happen to them years ago. You need to learn to move on when bad things happen to you. This may e the first time your heart was ever hurt, but it won't be the last.
2007-11-16 04:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to love yourself more than anyone else. if you're loving someone that hurt you so much I find it hard to believe you love yourself. It does take time but may I suggest spending some time alone healing your heart and building your self-love before trying to love anyone else....worked for me.
2007-11-16 01:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question... think about it.... How can you love someone else if you still love someone who hurt you.... You can't.
Decide whether you want to continue to hurt over this creep or move on to someone else who will not hurt you... be the victim or the victor..... it's your choice..
~best of luck
~jennifer
2007-11-16 01:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can never love two persons at the same time. so try to fix issues with your past and try to know if your ready for the future... dont rush things and always be fair to the other person.
2007-11-16 01:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first,let go of the past. think about the situation.does the person you are with treat you with respect and love?the one that hurt you doesn't love nor respect you.move on.nix the past!
2007-11-16 01:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by candy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that makes you still love him is HISTORY.
2007-11-16 01:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by Little Sammy Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes that's true but time will let u heal...............even how many times you say...but still u can't do just to foeget him/her......just pray hard....the heaven will help you heal ur wound...
2007-11-16 00:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋