why would a wife tell her husband he is not in her heart to be intimate with? and when wet in a sexual situation, decline intercourse, lying saying she is not wet, then stating she lied and saying she just does not want to admit that she is attracted to me?
2007-11-16 00:47:59 · 23 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we dated 2 years, she pushed marriage the whole time. we got married then after 7 months she acted like this.
2007-11-16 00:58:45 · update #1
i didnt do anything to her. raised my boy for 7 years on my own, his mom passed when he was 10 months, was gracious to finally find someone.
2007-11-16 01:02:47 · update #2
I have no idea why you wife would say she is not attracted to you..........that's just dumb
2007-11-16 00:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by PrincessJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she does not like the way you do it. Or she wants more variety. If she spends a lot of time on the Internet, well I would suspect that something is going on with some one there. You need to ask her what she means, and what it is that she wants to do about it. I mean if the marriage is failing, then you need to free each other up, so that you can find someone that you can be happy with.
2007-11-16 08:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW, Im not sure how to answer that. I think it is a mental thing with her? Have you two had something between you that hurt her and she does not want to give it. I hate to mention this, but could she feel as though she is being unfaithful to another?
2007-11-16 08:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by bigsky74 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have to make her mood... Spend on her, take her out... Be intimate with her... Share u r feelings... She is making it hard to get... Get into her mind and play the game with her!! Best of Luck!!
2007-11-16 08:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Thing From Mars! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to her?
Some spouses with-hold sex to punish the other. It's her only defense even if she is attracted to you she is probibly really angry but can't hold anything on you until you want sex from her. It's the whole "oh now you want something from me" approach.
good luck though.
2007-11-16 08:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Gitana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
??? it almost sounds as if she is not sure what lie tot ell you.... and you are supposed to be married ? of course she should be attracted to you , she is your wife.. why would she not want to admit that>? it is something you should already know. for some reason she is making these excuses
2007-11-16 08:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by janett g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is saving herself for someone else. I suggest hiring a private investigator to find out for sure if she is cheating on you.
2007-11-16 08:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by drdennie2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is clear that she is alienating herself from you and creating causes for a separation. She might be thinking that time is not ripe yet to show her mind completely .
2007-11-16 09:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading questions in your profile, Good Lord!
2007-11-16 09:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by tysdad62271 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like you need to fix yourself first then see if she needs fixin. first read the five languages of appologie, then read the five love languages. I give those books out to everyone that gets married
2007-11-16 08:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because the husband sounds like an idiot.
2007-11-16 08:53:07 · answer #11 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋