Ok there has been some sort of twisted recurring phenomenon going on in my life for the past... i don't know... 4 years where it seems like all the time i run into girls who are dating my friends' (or people I know and am reasonably friendly with)...why might htis happen...and what should i do about it ine general
2007-11-16 08:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by mapeacock86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you are mistaking their friendliness, probably extended to you out of respect for your girlfriend, for sexual interest. At any rate, your role is to remain faithful to your girlfriend.
2007-11-16 08:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by unabashed 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello Rudy, This is serious. She sounds like she has some major issues and needs therapy. This is humiliating and demoralizing to you. Not loving, not considerate, not kind to you at all. Think of it this way-- Would you do something like this to someone you love? If she has no control, she may have had a sexual trauma in her past and some childhood issues. This is a common thing, but so few people actually go for help. She would need to see a counselor for sex addiction and therapy, emotional release therapy, and acupuncture can help calm her down. There is a root to this behavior, it is only a symptom of a greater problem. This is not who you should be with now, or where you should live now. She is incapable of being with you. She seems to be using you as a nurturer or parent-figure to get the love she did not get growing up. You really need to move out Rudy. Its in both of your best interests. If you stay, you are enabling her to continue this behavior.
2016-05-23 10:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask All Friends To Email Pictures Of Girlfriends So Theres No Mix Ups. Keep Them In Your Wallet So Its Instand Remebering. :D
P.S: Make Sure You Take Them Out When Your Married.
:D
2007-11-16 08:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by gdc3.rocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey life is life. It's very unpredictable and you never know whats around the corner. It also sounds like you live in a small town. I wouldn't do anything as I don't take anything for granted and neither should you. Just lead your life the way you have been, it's probably a coincidence.
2007-11-16 08:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you didn't sleep with any of them! Maybe it's the type of girls your friends go out with, I don't know. Are you the flirtatious type? Maybe they are getting that vibe from you and wanting to act on it. I don't know...definately an original question, lol.
2007-11-16 08:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep your friends, forget them. Tell them you're not interested. If you don't care about your friends, have a good time.
2007-11-16 08:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Frosty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had problems like that ..., but you are in control of the situation, you can have sex with them, or not. Your choice
2007-11-16 08:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by Blow at High Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is wishful thinking then get a life
It this is factual then get a room
2007-11-16 08:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, great question, sorry i can't help. Get a toy.
2007-11-16 08:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, just keep doing what your doing I guess!
2007-11-16 08:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by space chimp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋