high school im a year older. weve been dating for a couple months and secretly for the first few before we got caught. her mom doesnt approve and has cut off mearly all connectoin with her, shes grounded from seeing me for years, until she leaves for college basically (btw we're very serious about each other, we already say we love each other and i really do). she goes with her everywhere, for ex. if she stays after school her mom has to be there to keep an eye on her. whenever she talks to her mom she cries, and she doesnt like talking about it with me. i hate seeing her unhappy, and if i talk to her mom the way i want to shes prob gonna cut us off completely no phone or comp. so im stuck i dont know how to help, it makes me cry and very depressed seeing her depressed about this and just please any advice how to help?
2007-11-16 08:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This girls mother is trying to protect her from things that can happen to young girls. If this woman is a single mom which it sounds like, she does not want her daughter to make the same mistakes she did. Give them space, if the mom sees you are following her rules, she will come to trust you and yo will gain her respect and thus more time with your g/f. Be patient. talk to your mom about it.
2007-11-16 08:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by lotsandlots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 02:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-16 08:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by beststar_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give your girlfriend and her mom some space. Then tell an adult if your girlfriend is still suffering.
2007-11-16 08:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new girlfriend.
Hey, you asked! I just assume you wanted the BEST advice.
Good luck.
2007-11-16 08:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋