2007-11-16 07:54:14 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, because if you really love someone that person should excite you no matter what. Just the thought of having that intimacy with him should be enough to brighten your day.
2007-11-16 07:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by why ask 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
No way!!! But this is what I would do, I would educate him and you, there are so many books, viedos, and toys out there that can it make it more pleasurable for both of you, don't throw in the towel just yet, there is so many ways to make it better, you can start out by saying... I came across this book and I thought some of the ideas in here would be fun to try or to d owould you be up to trying some? You don't just want to come out and say that hey I don't think that you are that great in bed.... but you are killing two birds with one stone and there is nothing wrong with it eighter, but do try this first before you cheat on him, and hey have fun who knows you might both discover alot of new things and both improve!!!
2007-11-16 08:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by kelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always said that a person is not good/bad in bed. Rather, a couple has to learn how to be good in bed for each other.
I can't say I had a huge number of sex partners before I was married. But among the few I had, I can think of examples of one woman "really liking" something that another woman would consider "bad in bed", and vice versa.
If one partner is dissatisfied with what is happening in bed.....talk!
2007-11-16 08:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry him if he was horrible in bed to begin with. Wouldn't even stay in a relationship long, let alone long enough for him to become my hubby. As soon as someone is bad in bed, cut and run!
2007-11-16 07:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Naughty ♥Angel♥ Mommy2B! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look at more porn and masturbate. Got to ask why did you not know he sucked in bed before you married him???
You can teach and show him to be a better lover, however if sex is important to you and he is slefish and will not communicate regarding helping the situation, I would dump him. But I would not cheat
2007-11-16 07:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond Dogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, mine had some 'problems' and I waited and did not cheat, until he got medical advise and it worked out, so......I would not cheat - if he was just not good in bed for no medical or physiological reason, I would talk to him about what I need to be pleased in that area.
2007-11-16 09:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU SURE IT IS NOT YOU THAT IS HORRIBLE IN BED, MAKE IT WORK OR TRY SOMETHING ELSE, ONLY YOU CAN MAKE IT BETTER, TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT OR SHOW HIM, BE COMFORTABLE WITH EACH OTHER, DON'T CHEAT IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY LEAVE THEN LOOK FOR THE OTHER.
2007-11-16 07:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by just doing it! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach him, let him know what you like or what feels good to you. Never cheat, that is wrong and only going to get you an STD
2007-11-16 08:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you can give your hubby some ideas of what you would like to try with him.
2007-11-16 08:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would not cheat on him but id get some porno movies and some toys. If you have alot of four play when it comes down to sex you will get off either way.
2007-11-16 07:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by karls dream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would suck, but no I wouldn't cheat. I would make the effort to teach him how to be better. Buy some books, videos, toys, etc. and practice, practice, practice!!! He's bound to get better!
2007-11-16 07:57:54 · answer #11 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋