Recently I became good friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me, is almost too nice to me, and even made me a cd after she asked me if I liked a certain band. She also made copies of her notes for me. She asked me my number too, so we could study together the other night. When I was walking to my car, she also stopped and picked me up (my car was maybe 30 feet away), and we talked alone in her car. Also, today we went and got coffee at school, after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam (she finished first). She hasn't admitted it yet, but I think she likes me. I'm hoping other people agree...she even dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in her's. How should I let her know I like her, but subtlely?
2007-11-16 08:26:28 · 14 answers · asked by cracky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Screw being subtle. People screw up relationships by being subtle. If you like her, ask her out. This way she knows you are interested, and there is no confusion. If she says no, then you know you were just taking friendly advances as romantic. It clears everything up and gets right to the truth.
2007-11-16 08:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she defintely likes you. I'm a girl, I can tell from experience.
You want to tell her in a good way, without making the situation all corny...
The best thing to do is ask her out because once she knows that you like her and she likes you, it becomes one of those akward, "what now?" situations.
If I were you, I would do the same things that she does for you, like driving her home, talking to her late at night. If you want, you can even like invite her to the mall or something on the weekend, and you guys can just hang out. If you do these things, she will think you like her, but won't be sure. Also, flirt with her, or like stare at her in class, and turn away when she looks at you. She'll know you're paying attention to her. Finally, when the time feels right, ask her out. Like maybe when you have a conversation in one of those cars. It's better to be alone and in person. Don't ask her out online or anything stupid like that, though I doubt that you would do that.
Hope everything works out! She definitely likes you.
*** Oh and by the way, call her up more than texting her. When you talk with someone, you become closer to them. Texting isn't a real conversation and it's sorta the wimps way out. So keep calling her like you do.
2007-11-16 08:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by *Katie* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i knew u liked her lol.. especially when u said "after i couldnt get in her lab project group"
my best advise is to tell her straight up.. maybe in a letter, face to face, on msn, on the phone.... either or just get it out.. cause if u dont u will miss the chance and may end up regretting it later on... trust me... u will always wonder i wonder what would of happend if i talked to her/him and told him/her how i felt....
go for it and dont sell yourself short!
2007-11-16 08:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do it subtley. She obviously likes you. You should have made a move when you were in the car. MAKE A MOVE. Girls always respond when guys who they like make a move. I know I do. If you are too chicken then just say I like you... thats all it takes.
2007-11-16 08:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by CurlyQ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really obvious that she likes you! Why don't you just get her alone and ask her out? That whole "subtlety" thing is so overrated! Be direct! Good luck!
2007-11-16 08:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Erin has a crush on Brandon♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be subtle? She clearly is interested in you so be bold and ask her out on a date.
2007-11-16 08:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her hints if she likes u she will pick it up after a few months if she keeps giving u hints without confronting u then u should u say it coz she maybe shy about it.
2007-11-16 08:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweetnsimple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice question. She like you. And If you like her too. Just keep going in fwd. Untill you and she will be close each other then she might think you like her too. I will say.. You and her will be in love each other.
2007-11-16 08:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Zpider 20-0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWE THAT`S SWEET. LOL. i`M THiNKiN SHE`S A PRETTii SWEET GURL. YEAH SHE LiKES U. TRUST ME. && JUST TELL HER U LiKE HER. BUT i`M SURE SHE ALREADii KNOWS iF SHE`S DOiNG ALL THAT. OR DO SOMETHiNG SO THAT SHE CAN FiGURE iT OUT THAT U LiKE HER.
2007-11-16 08:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show the same affection and FLIRT!!
2007-11-16 08:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋