my bf and i are pregnant and i told him no sex until the baby. he finally started to give up trying to have sex with me. but now at his house he drinks beer and one time i came over and he didnt know i was coming and i walked in and he had pot lips. he's 17. if we had sex i KNOW he would stop.
how do i get him to stop? do i have sex with him?
2007-11-16 01:56:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not having sex because- I DONT FEEL GOOD
and am not turned on
2007-11-16 02:08:19 · update #1
I'm not having sex because- I DONT FEEL GOOD
and am not turned on
2007-11-16 02:08:24 · update #2
Your boyfriend has more problems than lack of sex; he can solve that issue on his own, solo. Or you could help him without having intercourse. However, there's no reason you can't have sex while pregnant; talk to your ob just to be sure in your situation.
2007-11-16 02:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be doing it because he's stressed out, but that dosent mean have sex with him just because of that. You need to have a serious conversation with him. Talk to him about is he still gone do the same stuff when the baby gets here. N i dont know your reasons for not having sex with him but you know you can still have sex even though your pregnant.
2007-11-16 10:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by tizbabymama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex will not stop anyone's drug or alcohol habits. One thing that I don't understand is why no sex until the baby? That makes no sense to me in this whole scheme of things. To answer your question (is he doing drugs because of me?) NO, he is doing drugs because of him.
2007-11-16 10:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Primrose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋