OK me and my bf have been together 5 or 6 months, and it seems like whenever i want to have sex he doesnt want to, on most occasions we do it when HE wants to because he complains of being tired. alright he jacks off everyday, how i know is he tells me. and is an avid porn watcher, am i doing something wrong? i have kinda high sex drive, i like it almost everyday and sometimes more than that depending on mood, but we do go 3 or more days with out it, so its not like we are rabbits or what not. and it aggrivates me so, because he will have a hard on and tell me he isnt horny! and touch me in places so i get horny and he tells me no WTF? it pissed me off so bad last night i said something really hurtful to him. i know it that was wrong, but have i done anything else? please be honest no jokes. oh he is 25 and im 21.
2007-11-16 02:37:36 · 17 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too much porn. guys can slip into it pretty easy. whacking is easier than doing it with you. also he is getting desensitized to it. when he gets horny he is probably thinking about watching porn and doing it himself instead of working on you.
2007-11-16 02:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he's addicted to porn, and there is a control issue here. I guess you need to re-think your relationship with him, and figure out what it is that you want out of life and from a healthy relationship. Make the necessary changes, and you'll be much happier, and chalk it up to experience. Why put up with things in a relationship that you don't want or don't even like.
2007-11-16 02:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't think you are attractive. Maybe he doesn't think that sex with you is better than masturbating. Maybe he really is tired. This is really selfish of him but I would say talk to him about it. You can't keep giving in to sex just because he wants to have it especially when nothing happens if you're horny. He could also be cheating. It could be a number of things, your best bet is to ask him, not us
2007-11-16 02:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with your sex drive its just that you and he may be sexually incompatible. This is something you really need to consider if you are going to continue with this relationship.
For what its worth, even if he did have sex with you everyday, he would probably still masturbate. Its typical male behavior.
2007-11-16 02:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 10:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses now and move on. This guy is doing nothing but playing head games with you.
If he's happier pulling his own then being with his girlfriend, he's got some serious issues.
Things will only get more frustrating if you stay with him.
Good luck.
2007-11-16 02:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Sean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a tease. Nothing worse than that. Dump him. Clearly, he is having a great time playing by himself, so he likely won't even notice you're gone.
2007-11-16 02:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well jackin off is easier , is he lazy? do you try new things?like positions places etc? what do you do to turn him on? get kinky see what kind of porn he likes and try thaT.. GOOD LUCK there's always a good vibrator or the guy next door.
2007-11-16 02:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by freakinjokers_serious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using this to control you.. only allow sex when he says so
I would get out now, before worse things show up....
2007-11-16 02:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are so into porn that a real girl doesnt work for them.
2007-11-16 02:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋