Well, a year back, I asked out a girl for being my girlfriend. She was my net-friend from 1 month and she said yes within 2 days. We had met through a networking site. Now its been over an year , and we're still continuing, and it has got pretty seious relationship now . But we never have met each other, and live in different countries, and we hav talked on phone and net. She says that she loves me a lot, and i really hav started feeling same for her. But there is 1 clause, CAN I TRUST ANYONE SO MUCH ON NET. she says that she likes only me, and loves me a lot, and even want to marry me(though its gonna be after sum years).
2007-11-16 04:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Aman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have heard many stories of cyber-romance. There are as many different possibilities for things to go right or wrong as there are in "real" romance.
As is true anytime you like someone, many things could happen. There are never any guarantees. An online relationship has limits. You don't know what the other person looks like, how that person acts in person or if you will hit it off when you finally do meet. You can exchange pictures, talk on the phone and even made a video tape for each other. These are ways you can get to know each other a little better before meeting.
The most dangerous thing about this arrangement is the possibility of someone lying about who they are. There are many sly manipulator who set up a dream relationship built on lies. You say, you have spoken to her on the phone and net or have seen a picture of her it is unlikely that she is lying. So assuming she is who she says she is, just take things one step at a time.
I am not against cyber-love as a way to experience relationships and explore those feelings. I would suggest that you be open to a relationship with someone you know and live near, though, as well. Try not to close off other possibilities, because, no matter how you look at it, a long-distance relationship is a very difficult thing to maintain.
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2007-11-16 04:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by ravishingV 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you can't trust people over the net but in some cases it works out. If both of love each other just try to meet her and get together but when you decide to meet with her let people know about it and the place you will be. Try not to go by yourself.
2007-11-16 04:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eshh. im not sure cuz ive never had a net relationship. i dont think u can trust anyone on the net. its pretty hard when youve never met that person or have ever seen them.
whoa buddy! ur definetely not ready for marriage especially over a net girlfriend!!!!! thats not worth it and risky, cuz if u do marry her, and then u met her and like eww shes not who i expected her to be. dont get married, cuz i kno youll regret it.
end it before it gets any worse!
2007-11-16 04:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 23:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havent even met her, you dont know who she is she could be anyone as for loving her no way she could be married for all you know and just having a bit of fun. why did yous not meet if you love her so much?
2007-11-16 04:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by arches79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww to be a child again and live a fantasy filled life.....seriously, back away from any technology, go outside, breathe in some fresh air, take a good hard look around, and come back to reality.
2007-11-16 04:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think u are wasting your time!
judge her....you have spoken to her and it is a piece of cake to judge from the way one speaks whether one is serious or not!
if you spot the urge and deep desire in her voice....then go ahead!
if she seems to be taunting you or teasing you then move over to better things!
2007-11-16 04:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should meet and if so you are clear about her character and sure that she is not cheating you.you can express your feelings.
2007-11-16 05:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by hello there! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves you she would come to your country and if she does that she probably loves you!! Good Luck!!
2007-11-16 04:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥JJ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your head is OK? Go to a MENTAL HOSPITAL immedietly!!!
2007-11-16 04:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋