Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

2007-09-27 04:17:49 · 19 answers · asked by Mr. Wallace 1 in Singles & Dating

Isn't it time you quit? Are you scared to be on your own? What keeps you with him/her that your common sense says to let go? Yoou knew it when you married them, and you kept believing it would get better, didn't you? But it's not. Isn't it time to leave, and get straight with God saving your Children from an awful legacy of the same they view at home?

2007-09-27 04:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by Tired of Users 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this is meant for back2future i need email address

2007-09-27 04:17:39 · 5 answers · asked by me1234529 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i get a copy of obit? tried to get on line to the paper, no obit on line? please help! she passed away 9-17-07. he was told of this 9-26-07

2007-09-27 04:11:58 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ cat furrever ♥ 6 in Friends

I enrolled in a major online poker tournament this morning, and I was doing pretty well. About 4 hours into the tourney, my wife went into labor. I tried to explain to her that I was playing for alot of money, and asked if she could wait for an hour or two (after all, it takes about 10 hours, right?) but she insisted that we go to the hospital NOW. I had my brother drive her and told them I would meet them there as soon as I was finished.

Well, I busted out of that tournament and started up a new one. I'm playing it right now and I'm at the final table. My brother called me a few minutes ago and told me that the baby is coming soon and that I better get down there. But there is thousands of dollars at stake! That baby isn't going anywhere... we have our entire lives ahead of us. Is it really necessary for me to drop everything just to watch the little guy squeeze out of my wife's vagina?

2007-09-27 04:11:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am interested in joining the army and have been for some time now. My girlfriend who i have been dating for over a year said that if i join than she is leaving me. It is kinda a loose loose situation. I really want to join but i dont want to loose her. How can i fix this I dont know how to tell her without her breaking down. please i really need help

2007-09-27 04:06:51 · 9 answers · asked by Jay B 2 in Singles & Dating

moved in to house from my council house together 5 years ago,we both work so all bills are shared as well asbying all goods in house together,

2007-09-27 04:06:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Whenever I go out guys never talk to me. Last week, I had a girls night out with some co-workers and this one guy kept coming up to our table asking if any of us wanted to dance, but he would never look at me. Even when I tried talking to him he had a hard time looking at me. Is there something wrong?

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2007-09-27 04:05:53 · 16 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been away for the past 6 months and is back on saturday i want to look good have the house perfect and just make him so happy but i want to know what other things i can do. i can go out and buy anything cause im in the middle of no where. please help. what would you women do? and what would you men like done for you?

2007-09-27 04:04:20 · 28 answers · asked by Miranda C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 04:02:18 · 23 answers · asked by sanjay k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the Weddings section, these questions are asked about once every 48 hours:

-How much should I spend on a gift?
-What song should I play at my wedding?
-How much does an "average" wedding cost?
-When do I send thank you notes?

I move for a 30-day moratorium on these questions. Who's with me?

2007-09-27 03:58:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know this is very common statistically but when it happens to you its not a joke. I dont believe midlife crisis is any excuse for a guy but when the right person comes along who pushes your buttons you have a hard time fighting off the urge to see what its like to have an intimate relationship with another person even for a short period. The modern trend is to follow your bliss wherever but I feel tortutred by the torment of knowing its not right as it would really hurt my wife. I have had no other intimate relationships before marraige so there is a longing to sow my wild oats..
How do you fight off the urge and stay faithful to your relationship or do you give in and hope its new love not lust.

2007-09-27 03:57:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

people post question whether a person likes them or not? It is soo annoying!

2007-09-27 03:56:21 · 1 answers · asked by sweetinsanity 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have been with my husband 13 years. I love him and he loves me, we are faithful, and would not consider divorce.The man is so difficult! He is a wonderful provider for our family and he loves the kids.BUt he is moody as as hell.Forever having temper tantrums about dumb stuff, in a foul mood, because of work 70 percent of the time.He is picky with me and how i do things.When he isnt stressed its fine and good, but I am tired of letting his mood effects me.If he is crabby, Im down. I have known about how he is before i married him, its nothing new, and he does have other characteristics that I enjoy.I know alot of women out there deal with this.Is it ok to just ignore his moods and go about life uneffected by it? I don't want the kids effected by it, so I usually , just say, don't mind Daddy he's just being Daddy... and laugh it off.

2007-09-27 03:56:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so I am talking to this guy... we have been talking for about a month now.... we do things couples do.... but he is not my boyfriend. He tells me he is scared bc his last relationship was BAD... but I don't know if he is just saying that... Is he useing me?

2007-09-27 03:55:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And when challenged ask you to repeat above statement 'down va pub, like innit'

Is it because:
-your women are more masculine and generally hairier
-you require vast inputs of beer for anythig approaching courage
-you realise the world still hates you with a fiery passion
-sodomy, rum and the lash are the three pillars of British society and Empire with a mass devoted following
- your foreskin is so full of cheese you market as "fromage paysan"- peasant cheese to the British knuckle-dragger
- grin smugly as they take it up the colon from Islamics and blacks
-your hero Beckham is an illiterate, inarticulate admitted transvestite married to a squawking woman resembling a roast chicken?

Tell me why British men are such poncing nancies?

2007-09-27 03:54:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends/family just can't wait to tell what's wrong with my marriage. Sometimes we don't always go traditional route with everything we do but we are very happy, thank you!

2007-09-27 03:52:02 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a great friend with whom I share a close relationship with. He has invited me to a vacation on a ship but we are to share a room w/ one bed. For some reason he cannot get it out of his head that we will become more than friends on this vacation and that it will be a romantic getaway where he can pop the "question". I do NOT feel the same way. I have reapeated this to him and have stressed the fact that we are only friends but he still says he dreams about it and there is no harm in dreaming/ hoping. I am not sure he understands that we will NEVER be more than friends. The vacation will be at the beginning of next year and I am unsure as to how to deal with him or even if I should go at all. Thing is, the tickets have already been paid for and he paid for them fully. I do not think there are refunds available.

2007-09-27 03:51:06 · 11 answers · asked by jg6 1 in Friends

I am 14 years old. My foster bro is 12. He is a good kid, and I like him (as a foster bro you perve :P) Anyways, we usually get along, but sometimes, and I dont know why, he just gets on my nerves and I freak out and start acting really mean. And I mean REALLY MEAN. I don't hit him or anything though. But after he leaves for school or whatever, I feel really bad. I've tried stopping myself when I start acting mean but it doesn't work. I don't know, maybe I'm just not trying hard enough...Any suggestions? Thanks for your time.

2007-09-27 03:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance is 27 and im 23, im all about doing anything and everything, and when i met him i thought he had experience, but he didnt, he tried oral and he had no clue what he was doing, i tried teaching him but he got upset. Also now he enver wants to do it, i mean im very clean, and iconsider my self sexy, and i know he does too, but he keeps telling me he doesnt like it, well i do, and i feel like he doesnt care much for what my desires are, what should i do?? i mean i think i could leave w it if at least sex was more often and very good,. but is not, i really need to seat w him and give him an ultimatum?? i mean we are gtting marie in 5 months, soo what do i do?

2007-09-27 03:50:00 · 13 answers · asked by mel 2 in Singles & Dating

Before I start telling the "negative" parts of the story. I'll start with the positive. I'm in school working on my bachelors, I have 2 years left, and he's taking care of me. My parents gave us a fully furnished apartment... so I have everything I need. He works, pays for the bills, remembers to pay bills lol, etc.

We got married 7 months ago. At the time, I knew who I was, but I was holding myself back a lot. My situation at home with my parents wasn't good. I was in a rush to get out of there. My husband was telling me he'll save me from that environment and give me one thats good for me. My parents LOVED him. Dad always told me what type of guy I needed to marry and he believed this was him. My parents were astounded because they never thought we'd get married. They thought he was this good wonderful person. Dad told me he was the type who would never get mad, super calm, always a gentleman, would be very successful, etc.

Answer when I'm done please.. to be continued

2007-09-27 03:49:51 · 21 answers · asked by Sweet23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

someone else.

2007-09-27 03:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my very good friends wants to commit suicide. I had went for an appointment to a mutual friend of ours & asked her if he is k. She asked why because she had a story that he not doing well. She had told me her side & I had told her that he had wanted to commit suicide. We put both our stories together & it had made sense. We had both said we would not tell anyone apart from ourselves. Have I broken a line of friendship by asking someone?? He is a good friend & would not want to loose him ? Was I wrong by seeking info in which to help him???

2007-09-27 03:45:20 · 12 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Friends

2007-09-27 03:44:47 · 60 answers · asked by Kenny F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend or ex boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs, and we have a 3 month old son together. i have been talking to someone online and like him alot. he wants to meet me but im scared to cuz me and my ex just broke up a week ago but as far as im concerned it was over a while ago because he treated me like ****. do you think its wrong that im already looking? well im not really looking, i kinda stumbled upon it. please help me out im stressing over this bad!

2007-09-27 03:43:58 · 16 answers · asked by Dimmuchickx666x 1 in Singles & Dating

We met in about 2 months ago, Firstly he lied about his age, and said he was 29, but really he's 32. I am 19, but I am not a typical 19 year old, I already know what I want out of life. Well things got really serious, really fast I ended up moving in with him, and living there for about a month, then I moved out due to the fact I just got scared, I really dont want to get hurt. So now he works nights and we really dont see eachother till the weekend along with his son who's 12 yrs old, and very disrespectful, to me and to his dad, because he never disaplines him, I completley stay out of all that. This past couple of weeks he makes only 1 time out of his day for a simple phone call, which we end up talking for 2 mins and then it's "i got to go!" , so I said the other day, this isn't working and he pops off with lets be friends. Just like that showed absoultley no compassion toward me at all, so we talked a little yesturday and he wants to have lunch. what do you think about all this?

2007-09-27 03:43:50 · 9 answers · asked by ♥JENN♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Specifically, for women over 40, how do you look at sex differently than you did in your youth - how have your motives, interests, attitudes changed?

2007-09-27 03:42:28 · 6 answers · asked by sarvar 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a man to feel irritated and frustrated because he can only have intercourse with his wife once a week and he would like it twice a week? Also, the man is craving more affection(kissing, touching, caressing, passion) and is left feeling unsatisfied after one day a week of intercourse. The man has communicated this to his wife and she STILL makes no effort to compromise.... Please no silly inmature answers.

2007-09-27 03:40:48 · 26 answers · asked by akbar s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think this is a good idea? I have heard of cases where an abuser was confronted by their victim, but the victim ended up being more upset afterwards because the molester denied everything, and tried to make the victim think she was crazy and "imagining" things.

That made me think to myself, is this a good idea. Should a child abuse survivor confront the abuser, or should they just move on with their life through therapy and whatever else.

I was molested as a child, and I haven't seen the abuser in years. I don't even know if I would recognize him if I see him, but I always wondered to myself, if I had the opportunity to see him again, what would I say? Would I confront him about it, or would I just keep walking like I didn't see him? What he did to me as a child still affects me today, but I have learned to "get over it". If I confronted him, would that open old wounds, and bring back memories of things I don't want to remember??

What are your thoughts on this?

2007-09-27 03:40:45 · 11 answers · asked by CJ 4 in Family

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Please read the previous question to get more insight into this one, thanks!

Okay... after reading the answers to the previous question I talked to my boyfriend and gave him my insight. He told me that his parents have already discussed everything at that his MOM, who has been a housewife for 20 years now is going to move out of their home. She has no source of income for herself and though she seems to think it is okay, it just seems wrong to be putting her out like that. Anyway, the problem I see is that if she leaves there will be nobody to take care of the "home", and though my boyfriend has a good relationship with both of his parents, I just can't see him and his dad being okay by themselves (eating healthy, keeping things clean). When I said that, he excitedly said that when his mom moves out I should move in! Honestly it would get me out of and enviornment I'm not...

2007-09-27 03:40:31 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Infatuation 3 in Family