My friends/family just can't wait to tell what's wrong with my marriage. Sometimes we don't always go traditional route with everything we do but we are very happy, thank you!
2007-09-27 03:52:02 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people just do it to have some kind of justification in there life, to make themselves feel like there problems are OK and make a big deal out of others so there's don't seem to be "as bad". As long as you are happy lady then try to ignore it and try not to let them hurt your feelings.
2007-09-27 03:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by KayKay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly? I think a lot of people out there are jealous of other people’s happiness. I know it seems like the majority of judgment that is cast – including here – contains a lot of talk about what is ‘moral’ or ‘normal’ or ‘right’. But I believe all that is just a front for the fact that deep down inside these people are missing something in their own lives. And when someone else – especially someone who does things the non-traditional (ie wrong) way is genuinely happy, it just burns them to no end.
You and your partner/s opinions are the only ones that matter. As long as you are happy and aren’t causing harm to anyone, hold your head up high in the air and smile. Don’t let the stone casters get you down. The problem is theirs, not yours.
2007-09-27 03:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people only see things their way and can't see out of their own box.They think the way they look and live their life is the only right way and don't understand that everybody is different. They think that because things they do that work for them in their relationships will work for others...but this is not true. Your marriage is your own and if you and your husband are happy and content and love each other then what you are both doing works for you and I would not let others treat me and my husband indifferently. Tell them to keep their opinions to themselves and if you want their advice you will ask them. We are all on our own path in life and some of us take little detours along the way but in the end we all are head for the same things but only in a different way.
2007-09-27 04:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ow my goodness!!!! I thought i was the only person that thought the same thing. I have no idea why people do this. I believe maybe they just need something to do and talk about, or more so they know their relationship is not as good or on the rocks so they stick the noses where they have absolutely screwed up for themselves. My advice do what you do best and make sure that the both of you are happy.Forget everybody else.
2007-09-27 03:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All kinds of reasons. Sometimes your family or other people see the flaws that you can't see at all because "love" is blinding you to them, so you think they are just picking on you. Most of the time people are just concerned and they feel its their duty to say something to you.
If they are that open with you that they feel they can tell you whats on their mind so easily, you sound very close to them, so thats nice. It would be nice if they had more tact though.
If you are very happy, what exactly are they criticizing I wonder.
2007-09-27 04:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Rhianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people just don't like for other people to be happy. So, they do or say whatever they can to break that happiness that they see in your relationship down. I mean, honestly, it's so sad, but, you have people like that in this world. I learned that a long time ago, and finally I just declared that, I don't care what you think or what's your opinion of our relationship that's your problem not mine. And I think that's what you are going to have to do. Don't let it affect your home and your relationship, just realize that you are living your life for you and no one else! I hope this helps you.
Stay Strong.
Stay Positive
2007-09-27 04:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. It happens to us too. We are both traditional and very non-traditional depending on what area it is and we get comments too. If it helps, the older I get the less I pay attention to it. We're happy and that's all that matters!
2007-09-27 04:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because people are nosy. It's always easier to point out where they find fault in others instead of looking at their own problems.
I think everyone in relationships have this problem. Just ignore them and do your own thing and be happy.
2007-09-27 03:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom has a hard time with this too she likes to tell EVERYTHING that I'm doing right/or wrong to everyone in the family so I stopped telling her anything and stopped going over there as much
2007-09-27 03:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do it because their relationship isn't perfect and they want to point out the flaws in yours to make them feel better about themselves.
I have a friend who does this. Her husband had cheated on her and so now everytime my fiance and I get into it, she'll spit out, "He's cheating on you".
Don't worry about them and do not let what they say get to your head! No one else is in the relationship but YOU and your significant other.
2007-09-27 03:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by JMC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋