2007-09-27 03:44:47 · 60 answers · asked by Kenny F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trust is most important. If you do not have trust, love is useless.
Take care,
Troy
2007-09-27 04:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the most important thing in a relationship is trust because you can love someone who continually cheats on you, lies to you and takes you for granted all because they know you love them but how can you trust them so that put strain on the relationship. I love a lot of people but I'm not with them anymore because there was no trust why suffer for love when you know they don't love you.
2007-10-04 09:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without love the two people would find someone else that they do love and the relationship would dissolve.
Without trust the two people would not be able to give of themselves completely and the relationship would also dissolve.
So you can't really love someone without trusting them enough to give yourself completely and you can't be in a relationship if all you have is trust and not love, therefore the question is actually a paradox as love and trust are inter-wound.
2007-09-27 03:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ben R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on the type of relationship you are willing to have. You can have him trust you and you can trust him, know that he'll never lie to you and never mess off on u but then he'll also never love you, then you could have him love you more than anything but never be true to you.. As you can see one doesnt come without the other. You cant love someone that u dont trust and u cant trust someone u dont love, its unnatural and its all ingedients to a bad relationship, and lots of misery!!
2007-10-04 04:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I believe you can't even have a relationship with out both Love and Trust!
2007-09-27 03:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by JK 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In a relationship you must have both.You have to love one another and there has to be trust
2007-10-05 02:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and Trust are both VERY important. However, I would
say that TRUST is more important.
Love is (either) "given" or it is "received."
Trust has to be "earned" and then "maintained."
You can "LOVE" someone .... even if you don't trust them.
But a RELATIONSHIP can not be sustained for long periods
of time WITHOUT trust.
If trust is LOST or DAMAGED it CAN be restored or regained
BUT in takes a VERY long time .... AND a lot of work or
both parties.
What a GREAT question!
2007-10-04 08:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by kjh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the core of love, otherwise relationships will collapse in no time.
No trust = No love but plenty of self-centeredness
No love = No NEED for trust
2007-09-27 03:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by Spinaround 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hello, kenny. i've been wondering how you're doing.
love or trust, huh.
from my experience, when love grows and becomes true, respect falls into play and with respect, one would not do anything to make the other distrust them.
if everything else seems to be okay between you and your wife and son, and trust is your only issue, then you have to go with your common sense.
has she done anything to make you feel unsure about trusting her, lately? if you are both working on saving your family, has she agreed to do anything and has she done anything to prove that you can trust her? for example, if she's going somewhere, is it alright with her that if you get a sudden surge of distrust, you can say, "i want to go with you." and that's alright? if she is really interested in regaining your trust, she'd humble herself enough to say, "come on, let's go."
i know i would. you have to feel the respect from her, and then you'll be able to feel the trust, again, someday.
don't worry, though, if everything seems okay to you, then the trust issue is another natural phase you and everybody in the world in your shoes would have to go through. if you're working on saving your marriage, both of you, working together, towards the same goal, she'll just have to work with you throughout this phase, too.
in direct answer to your question, you can love someone but not trust them, but that's kind of like living in between a rock and a hard place. it feels horrible. you can trust someone but not love them, obviously, but that doesn't make a relationship.
so, in a relationship, love without trust still hurts. does the one you love want you to hurt or does she want to help you heal?
i take it you didn't send her to him so he would prove HIMSELF by sending her back, huh ? ! that's okay, it was a drastic measure, for drastic times. i really have been worrying about you and almost got on here and asked my first question, which would have been, "hey, where's Kenny and how's he doing?" !
2007-09-29 15:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by WISDOM & EXPERIENCE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an excellent question. You can love someone but not trust them, but trust can lead to love, or the two can be mutually exclusive.
In my experience, if you love someone, but you can't trust them, eventually the love can be eroded. If you trust someone, then sometimes you will learn to trust them with your most vulnerable emotional state: love.
So, based on that, I guess... trust.
2007-10-05 00:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by LJG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, love cannot survive without trust, you get trust when you love.
2007-09-27 04:28:12 · answer #11 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋