Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

Ok, I locked myself out of my house by accident (we're in high school and he lives across the street). He came across the street and tried to help me and my friend life my garage up. But, it didn't work. He asked me if I wanted to stay at his house, but stupidly I ended up going to my other friend's house. So I went to her house, and later I had to go back home because my mom was on her way. I sat down in front of my house in the grass, and a minute later he came out of his house. He said

"Hey, what are you doing?" (in a nice, smiling manar), "I invited you to my house, what are you sitting out here for?"

He walked across the street, and I explained. Then, he talked to me for a little while, then my mom got home and we parted ways.

what do you think? I mean, if he didn't really like me, he wouldn't have gone through the trouble, right?

2007-09-27 09:55:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you be open to new ideas?

2007-09-27 09:53:36 · 20 answers · asked by You know you want me 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 09:52:49 · 12 answers · asked by seth001 2 in Weddings

I think that women, and I am a guy saying this are better communicators by far then us guys! It seems like we give more one sentence answers, where women are better at describiing what it is they want, commenting with much more compassion and thought>

Guys and girls are welcome to answer!

2007-09-27 09:51:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I keep trusting my bf with the money. Everytime it is all gone and I ask why, he says he doesn't know. I tell myself I will never trust him again with my money, but I always do somehow. This has been going on for3 years and I am really in debt. I don't know what I can do. He is mad at me now. I work so so f-ing hard, and it all goes where? Why do I work so hard and still trust him with my money. We have been together for 6 years. He doesn't have a job and tells me he is looking, but I don't believe him. I still have hope in him though. I feel so stupid. It seems like he only cares about himself. I had money for rent, but it is disappeared. Now my next check, I have to pay rent and not the other bills which puts me so far behind even more. He reuses to get him last check from his previous job, it is only like 15 bucks, but so what?What do I do? Why do I keep trusting him?

2007-09-27 09:50:24 · 8 answers · asked by RearFace@18mo. 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-27 09:47:35 · 17 answers · asked by Nic 1 in Singles & Dating

You hear stories of women who marry men and they are verbally and physically are abusive to them. And the question I have is why do woman marry a man who shows throughout the relationship he is a very angry and controlling person, why do you say,"I DO?" Samething goes for a man who cheats during the relationship, off and on..If he can't be trusted while dating.. Why do you think he will remain fatefull in marriage?

Girls.. please opinions welcome!

2007-09-27 09:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has offered few details except that it has nothing to do with me. He said he is unhappy and wants to fix things in his own life. The only thing I know is he is unhappy at his job. But, he is in the process of getting a new one. I tried not to ask questions. But, twice I have asked! What exactly do you need to fix? How long is this going to take? I never get a straight answer, he just basically says he is not sure why he was so unhappy. That something is wrong with him, not me. The 2 times that I asked questions, he ended up saying forget this You need to move on. Only later with my convincing he would change his mind. Since he has been gone he confuses me because he calls, texts, and visits. It is so hard on me. I cry all the time (not in front of him) I did go on a few dates, but he said it hurts him. I just agreed to not date, but that we needed to have no contact. This is killing me, should I be patient and give him time? He treated me really good, and I miss him!

2007-09-27 09:43:57 · 10 answers · asked by Kimberly H 2 in Singles & Dating

I manage bank accounts for my wife and self. She has changed her pswd and has little time 4 me.. I travel a lot for work. Her emails have been signed "K" instead of "Love", etc. Advice?

2007-09-27 09:42:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can I make him be okay with it or what can I say to reassure him that it doesnt matter to me. I've tried everything I can think of. Please help me. I love him so much and do not want to loose him because of his pride.

2007-09-27 09:42:52 · 8 answers · asked by tmw555 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has a really good job now but he is looking to work at a bigger hospital. He interviewed last week in CA (we live in Florida) and was so excited about the job. He said the interview went great. Well they called today and told him they offered the job to someone else. He said he is fine with it but I can tell he is bummed..What are some encouraging things I can say to him?

2007-09-27 09:42:14 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey, my best friend is having a really really hard time coping with her parents divorce. Her parents' divorce isn't finalized and her mom is already engaged. (she doesn't want them to get married-she doesn't like the fiance). Her brother sorta 'hates' her, and she 'hates' him. Her dad is almost never home. She feels as if her mom doesn't care about her at all. All in all, her life kinda sucks to her. The problem is that I can't help her because I can't relate to her situation. My question: Do you guys know any good sites for teens that give good advice on how to cope with stuff like this?
The help hotlines wouldn't help that much unless they're Swiss or French numbers (we live in Switzerland).

Thanks so much for any help, my friend really needs it. xx

2007-09-27 09:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 09:40:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so bad today. I got Halo 3, which you would think is a good thing because I am now a 15 year old boy. But, my dad waited, the day it came out, 6 or 7 hours just to get it for me. He went out of his way just to make me happy on my birthday. He had a surgery very recently, and I feel so bad. He said it was nothing, what should I do to make it up to him?

2007-09-27 09:40:30 · 11 answers · asked by dsbag 1 in Family

We been involved for 18 years off and on, I want to be with him but he says he's not ready for a relationship. I'm ready to move on, but how?

2007-09-27 09:39:16 · 17 answers · asked by lashanda n 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now. I honestly thought *maybe still think * i am in love with him .. and i know he is with me .. but yesterday he told me that he had something important to tell me . He said two days after he asked me out he cheated on me .. he claims you know "he didnt know what was happening it was sudden " blah blah .. but he didnt want to tell me because he knew i wouldnt trust him and id break up with him. Now that he tells me i feel like ive had 50 blows to theheart and i dont know what to do because im in love with him, but i hate him so much at the same time.. he wants me to forgive him but i know the whole "cheat once they'll prob do it again" thing, but i dont think he would .. i just dont know what to do.

2007-09-27 09:37:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just curious, is that the standard. Is it okay to be in a serious relationship and still contact old flings to hang out???

2007-09-27 09:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by Alberto R 2 in Singles & Dating

So I had this girlfriend. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. We've been going out for 3 years and then all of the sudden she decided that I was too muscular and should just be skinny, I have too much hair and should shave it off, that she doesn't like football and I should quit being 1st string quarterback, and that I shouldn't be so smart and start failing classes. Are these reasons why a girl would dump a guy? I mean we were fine for 4 years. Should I change myself?

2007-09-27 09:33:57 · 51 answers · asked by Max 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it a big turn off to a guy if a girl is insecure about things from time to time. I just started dating this guy and I really like him but I find myself fumbling over my words and getting self-conscious sometimes. I'm usually pretty self-assured but I like this guy so much that it makes me nervous sometimes. Is this a big turn off? Should I be trying to act smooth and collected even when I feel the opposite?

2007-09-27 09:33:43 · 5 answers · asked by saboe 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering my husband had more sex partners then me and his sex before me was exciting then it is now that he is married Should I be botehred by that and what should I do?

2007-09-27 09:32:16 · 14 answers · asked by adever23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok there is this guy...I'll call him Caine...and I've known him probably a total of 4 months... and in 2 1/2 we dated. He just recently broke it off because he said we weren't working out... Well I fell in love with him..not for his looks although he was hot, for his heart... And all I care about is him being happy but I want him back...I have thought about it and thought about it...the only way he's talking to me is if my little sister calls him...she's the same age as he he is... Caine is 14, but before anyone calls me a cradle snatcher the only thing about him that was 14 was the actual age number. He acted older, sounded older and sure as heck looked older. And so now he's hitting on my best friend, who just so happens to be dating someone. She's getting him to talk to me again and that's making me happy but should I just leave him alone and try to get another guy? I've tired it but it didnt work...What should I do? Help please?

2007-09-27 09:31:44 · 11 answers · asked by Kota 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 09:30:40 · 4 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 4yrs wanted breast implants. I asked her, why?
She answered: to feel better about myself. I replied, you look fine just the way you are! Even though I didn't see the need, she had the proceedure done. It actually upset me that she had it done!!
Later, in retalliation I stated to her that I was going look into having my penis enlarged! She freaked! I told her that I just wanted to feel better about myself. In a very firm voice, she said if I altered it in any way we'd be through! Sound a bit one sided?

2007-09-27 09:28:09 · 15 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

For those of you who answered my question the other day, Thank you. I have to tell you what has just happened. My grandparents escaped assisted living and the police are out looking for them. We have to go pick them up when the police call because the assisted living facility wont take them back. Now we have to pay to move them back into the house and we have to send my grandfather up north to live with his kids. She cant take care of him. She cant even take care of herself. She hasnt taken a bath in weeks. Im just so irritated right now. I just need to vent. I am so irritated with them right now.

2007-09-27 09:27:36 · 2 answers · asked by Bridget 3 in Family

I shave my head, but feel some girls prefer a full head of hair.

What's best, for the ladies?

2007-09-27 09:27:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 09:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my b/f cheated a while ago and it took time but i forgave him but a couple of weeks ago i found out that he was talking to the girl that he cheated with. he said that it is nothing but i think it is. should i trust his word or call it off.

2007-09-27 09:23:47 · 28 answers · asked by baby 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 09:21:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My new boyfriend and I (of 3 months) are basically glued to one another. I think I may love him, and he has said that he loves me. However, he has to leave for 2 weeks for student exchange. I am simply terrified that he'll just fall out of love with me because we will have zero contact for those 2 weeks. I'm glad that we hace a little break, because they do say that ditsance makes the heart grow fonder. BUT they also say, out of sight out of mind. I'm not afraid that he'll cheat...I'm afraid that he'll come back and not love me anymore...

I know that I should trust him...but you know the feeling! Sometimes you just feel unsure...

Do you think he'll remember me? He has assured me that nothing like him forgetting about me will happen...how much he'll miss me.
What to do to not miss him so much?

-Please answer both to the best of your abilities-

2007-09-27 09:20:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son's father and I have been separated for about 10 years now, our son is going to be 12 in December. My son's dad , Jason, is on his second marriage and has 4 other kids by 3 different women since we split ( we are both in our early 30's) I have only my one child by him and remained single up until recently. When Jason found out that I am in a relationship again he said that he was jealous .
Jason only picks up our son when it is good for him,(I have control over visitation because he would either not show or cancel all the time. I ALWAYS let our son go with him whenever he and our son agree on it.) Jason lives about two hours from us and uses that as an excuse but picks up his one daughter all the time, she lives 15 minutes from us. He pays child support whenever, pretty much when I say that I am tired of him not helping and mention court. Last night I said that he need to pay child support again and that I am tired of him not being there for our son.

2007-09-27 09:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by kellylee 2 in Family