I manage bank accounts for my wife and self. She has changed her pswd and has little time 4 me.. I travel a lot for work. Her emails have been signed "K" instead of "Love", etc. Advice?
2007-09-27 09:42:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to spend a little more time on her, she either is cheating on you or planing to leave you because she feels she has lost you to "work." You need to talk to her before it is to late to reconcile.
good luck!
2007-09-27 09:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's perspective, I hate to tell you this, but shits going down on the home front.
My fiance has all my passwords to almost everything. Mostly for convenience wise. However the only reason I would ever change them at this point is if there was something I didn't want him to see / know.
Screw her. Seriously... what just because you travel a lot to make a living for yourself and her, she changes? No.. notttt okay. Talk to her. But to be honest, I hope you catch her in something, you don't deserve that! Good Luck.
2007-09-27 09:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by Blond&Tall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is pulling away from you and perhaps fallen out of love with you. If you travel a lot for work, she may be missing you or thinks you have chosen your job over her. Basically, she's being ignored and doesn't want to just "make time" for you when it's convenient for you.
Sit down and talk to her before it's too late.
2007-09-27 09:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, time for a talk!
Plan some time for you to go out to dinner and have a heart-to-heart. It sounds like you just need to reconnect. If you travel a lot, she is probably really starting to feel the distance, and that can be very problematic for your marriage. Reconnect! Make the time! Suggest marriage counseling. If she rebuffs all your efforts, it doesn't look good. I wish the best of luck to you.
2007-09-27 09:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by vividdark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should surprise her with a passionate weekend get away, just you two. she may be lonely and need some re-connect time with you. Don't assume the worst. Just spend time with her and see what happens. The truth will come out eventually and you would feel really bad if you falsely accused her of cheating. She's probably not anyway, its probably something else.
2007-09-27 09:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by chillgirl76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you are drifting apart and could easily become a statistic. Better sit down and talk plainly with her and find out what's up. If she's slipping away...you need to be more of a lover before it's too late.
2007-09-27 09:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by redmane_at_stargazer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe honesty is the best policy. I tell my husband, no matter how bad it might be, I want to know. I would just sit her down and talk about your concerns and see what she is feeling. When people hide things it usually means they are doing something they are not supposed to.
Once this back fired on me. I thought my husband was doing something sneaky...turns out the flowers were actually for me. oops. Talk to her. Keep the communication open.
2007-09-27 09:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ginger L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is cheating on you. Talk to her ask her why is she changed? tell her why is she cold with you now why does she changes her oassword for? the best thing to find out what is wrong with her its by talking to her. let her know you still love her even if you travel alot but she is always in your thoughts. Good luck and hope she aint doing nothing bad to you.
2007-09-27 09:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, can we say communication! I know I have getten up set and my hubby b/c he does not pay attention to me. He travels alot too. I have done those same things just to let him know that he better shape up and spend more time with me. However, last year we talked about our feeling and now talk about stuff instead of doing dumb thing to get the other upset. Talk to her. You will never know unless you guys talk it out!
2007-09-27 09:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good sign when the wife distances herself from her husband, you need to talk with her and find out what is going on.
2007-09-27 09:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by babidollishere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to spend more time with your wife and maybe do some nice things for her. Try to get the romance back in your relationship.
2007-09-27 09:47:21 · answer #11 · answered by bustlebase 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋