Ok there is this guy...I'll call him Caine...and I've known him probably a total of 4 months... and in 2 1/2 we dated. He just recently broke it off because he said we weren't working out... Well I fell in love with him..not for his looks although he was hot, for his heart... And all I care about is him being happy but I want him back...I have thought about it and thought about it...the only way he's talking to me is if my little sister calls him...she's the same age as he he is... Caine is 14, but before anyone calls me a cradle snatcher the only thing about him that was 14 was the actual age number. He acted older, sounded older and sure as heck looked older. And so now he's hitting on my best friend, who just so happens to be dating someone. She's getting him to talk to me again and that's making me happy but should I just leave him alone and try to get another guy? I've tired it but it didnt work...What should I do? Help please?
2007-09-27 09:31:44 · 11 answers · asked by Kota 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure you can find someone else. I know it's hard to fall out of love with someone you been with for awhile but if he's hitting on your bestfriend while shes with someone what does that tell you? honestly theres so much choices out there and only time will tell. trust me 14 years old? yeah i'm sure he just wants to date around and experience whats out there because he's young and i'm sure he doesnt want a serious relationship at this age.
2007-09-27 09:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Precious OnE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would probably be best for you to just be friends with him and leave it at that. If he was hitting on your best friend (whether she has a boyfriend or not) you know you'll probably end up getting hurt again by him in the end. Try and find a guy who'll treat you how you should be treated and who really cares about you. Don't rush out to meet a guy just to have somebody. If you really cared about "Cain" it will probably take you awhile to fully get over him, so give yourself some time.
2007-09-27 16:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard when a relationship doesn't work out, especially when the other person breaks it off. It really sounds as if you are now chasing a shadow, which will make your heart feel additiional pain. It sounds like time to move on, while remembering the great times you had with him.
2007-09-27 16:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone .. there is nothing less attractive to someone than another person chasing after them (in my experience this goes for both males and females - we've all got the knack to sniff out and dismiss desperation). Usually, if a person takes the "chaser" back, it's out of pity and you really don't want that.
2007-09-27 16:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by mystikalyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can move on that fast and to top it off try to hit on your bestfriend you need to leave him alone. He sound like he don't want nothing to do with you only if someone else initiate it first. Let that boy go girl.
2007-09-27 16:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never said how old you are.
But in general, he is way, not interested, do not lower yourself to try and beg him to come back because it would be all for the wrong reason.
Show some pride in yourself and move on, there is someone out there for ya!
2007-09-27 16:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you stated the young mans age was 14yrs,we can't label you a cradle snatcher, because you failed to tell us your age. evidently he must be "A little" inmature, trying to hit on "your best girl"....leave him alone..find a man..peace
2007-09-27 16:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know how old you are but u sound like you are old enough to drop him and move on. At 14 he is not in love to no one.
2007-09-27 16:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by cbe4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok how old are you??? just give it up!!! he's 14 and i hope you are like 16, cuse if you are older thats really nasty!!
2007-09-27 16:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing more pathetic than a stalker. leave him alone. not being mean just realistic.
2007-09-27 16:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by The One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋