Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

ok, ive got this guy friend i've known for 9 mths.. we get along well. we can talk for hours, text for days. he tells me lots of stories about his school and such. and asks alot of questions about me. he'd joke around if possible, even confides in me about issues he has..

we don't have a chance to speak in class, but he looks pretty often. at first,when i caught him, he'd look away.now, he holds my gaze..but i look away. and he doesnt dare have physical contact. he mumbles alot when he talks actually, and when i speak to him, he gets tongue-tied..

i went to his orchestral concert,he was staring alot onstage. changed his bus route for mine, he made like he wanted my no and such, took out his phone but put it away. whenever his guy friend talks to me in class, he'd stare at us awful long.

classes are ending soon.. and i really wanna ask him out. would i fail?

2007-09-27 21:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago, and he didnt give me a good reason at all... and didnt call or email once after that break up... i was devastated but have been pretty good the past few weeks, and the the past few days I cant control my emotions... and I actually just found out a few hours ago he is with someone else..
I just feel like its so unfair, i loved him so much, I didnt do anything wrong, he found someone he prefers more than me, and I'm the one suffering??? why is this fair? I did nothing wrong!!
And I feel like emailing him telling him "HA I FOUND THE REAL REASON YOU BROKE UP WITH ME!"
but knowing him he wont even respond..
its not fair! he has already moved on to a better version of me while i'm still crying over him... and I cant help it... i know they say if a man makes you cry, then he isnt worth crying over, but its hard bc its like "why not me? why her? and why not just tell me you met someone new instead of blaming the breakup on me, which made no sens

2007-09-27 21:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by Cookie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 21:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by robert r 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 21:32:38 · 13 answers · asked by BTB2211 5 in Weddings

what will i do???....im falling for my x...

2007-09-27 21:31:19 · 10 answers · asked by dess 1 in Singles & Dating

stil think bout this girl even though its been months, wat do I do?

2007-09-27 21:30:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am considering to take a "PREPARE-ENRICH" program with my fiance.

Have you ever taken this counseling service? If so, would you please tell me your experience?

I heard there are over 120 of questions we answerd and they analysis from 120 of answers. What kind of questions do they ask?

2007-09-27 21:29:13 · 2 answers · asked by miwaima 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1) Decent Girl
2) Indecent Girl
3) Slutty Girl
4) Available Girl
5) Wife
6) Girlfriend
7) Player
8) Exciting Girl
9) Cheap Girl
10) Sweet / Cute Girl

2007-09-27 21:28:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it could be ackward you know? and I want to avoid confrintation?

2007-09-27 21:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 21:25:42 · 3 answers · asked by Adil N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

That I didn't tell my boyfriend that I was a virgin before he and I had sex? The thing is that we talked about sex and I didn't make myself seem like I was a virgin. So I just decided not to tell him I haven't had sex before. He never asked. And I never told him. But I think he was assuming I wasn't a virgin. He probably was positive that I wasn't because of the way I talked and how much stuff I know. Plus I'm too old to be a virgin. I didn't bleed the first time because I do insert stuff when I play...

Do you think it's like I'm lying? Is it ok if I don't tell him?

2007-09-27 21:25:20 · 14 answers · asked by A 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf....she poppin pills now...i dnt kno wut to do...she evrything to me!!
i dnt want nuthin to happen to her..she my whole life..if ya can help..

pleaze tel me a way i can stop her...dis is importent to me please im evn prayin to god
to tell her to stop..

i need her in my life..

please tell me a way b4 smthg smthg really bad happenz..im alreadyy stressin,cant sleep..cant do nuthin...

i need yall to tell me smthg

please....... =*(

2007-09-27 21:24:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 17,good looking but i have not been in any relationship due to my academic priorities.is sex as beautiful as it is brought upto be?how is the first time for a guy?are bisexual thoughts normal for guys when masterbating?

2007-09-27 21:20:42 · 6 answers · asked by the sandman 2 in Singles & Dating

I honestly hate my man's ex girlfriend. I guess its bc he really liked her and I'm almost always comparing myself to her, in hopes to be better. but now I cant take it anymore, like I wish she fall from the surface of the earth lol.
But now im thinking, maybe i'll stop stressing about her if I make peace? Should I just confront her and get over my obsession by being kind to her? She hasnt done anything to piss me off besides exist lol
Maybe I'll find peace of mind if we become friends...or will it make things worst, maybe I'll get to know her more and it will make me even more obsessed about her past relationship with my man.
OMG help me

2007-09-27 21:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 21:15:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have had sex 2 to 3times before but he asks me not to be shy he asks me to be wild. He wants something more from me. I cant understand wat to do. how i should perform that satisfies him. how i can show i am wild. how can i be wild

2007-09-27 21:14:40 · 3 answers · asked by llliiiyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 21:13:20 · 8 answers · asked by aussie_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

So ya ex girlfriend dumped me i got all depressed realized I am better that her etc...

So just wondering I remember asking her why she left me for her ex of 3 years. she said she was in love with him, but this girl cheated on him with me, and from what I understand cheated on him like 5 other times with other guys. So ya I made a mistake on having feelings for her I understand this.

But is that love I mean she says she loves him, but she cheats on him??? She is 18, I dunno your views Please its a very interesting topic

2007-09-27 21:11:32 · 2 answers · asked by mover1799 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 4 years, and i'll catch him from time to time checking out another girl. He used to do it a lot when we first started dated, fortunately he's kinda stopped doing it, or maybe he's gotten better at hiding it lol. But it really pisses me off, like how could he admire another girl, like i'm not good enough for him. I'm so jealous, it makes me feel like crap and like i'm ugly when he checks other girls out.
I may look at a guy or two, but not often, and I just look real quick, I dont imagine myself in bed with the guy, but I feel like my man gets sexually attracted to girls he finds pretty.
Am I just paranoid, how do I get over this ??

2007-09-27 21:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-27 21:09:43 · 5 answers · asked by mafraqnavsari 1 in Family

I'm 17 and i've been with my bf for a year and i love him but he has 2 other girls that he is really good friends with. He hangs out with them almost as much as me and i try to be as understanding as i can. I know he hasn't cheated on me and i dont think he ever would but it just hurts a bit. I dont want him to not see them coz there his friends and i want him to be happy. But i dont know if i can keep pretending like it dusnt bother me at all.Yesterday he didnt even tell me he was hanging out with one of them and he was late to pick me up coz he was with her. It really hurt. I'm not good at confrontation but shoud i speak to him???

2007-09-27 21:00:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your opinion on it? I personally am going to wait till after I am married but so many people I know can't wait to get it on. Some have even 'done things' already. Shouldn't you wait to do these things with that special someone (your husband/wife)? Why do people have sex before marriage and would you/did you? Do you agree with it or not?

2007-09-27 20:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by Pistachio 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married almost a year now and I'm already heading into a divorce. I have battled with depression for 11 years. I'm 22 he is 32. When my husband met me he knew I had depression he didn't know the severity. I was in control of it with medication and therapy with sucess for 4 months until we got married and everything changed. He became unsupportive when I needed emotional support. He is very judgemetal and speaks his mind even if it hurts me. He believes that I am not able to make my own choices correctly and that I have bad judgement because of my depression. First off all I have a 4.0 in college and scored the highest score in the County exam for work as a teen sexual health counselor. I have two jobs and volunteer as an advocate for low income families. If I were "wrong" why is it I can do all this. But any how. I gave in a started to believe something was wrong with me and so we decided to take counseling. That didn't help he didnt agree with the last 3 Dr.'s we had.

2007-09-27 20:43:17 · 19 answers · asked by lilborikua 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i remarried my husband when we first got divorced i was granted the house but i never got him to sign over the house to me now we are getting divorced again and he now wants half of the house..is he entitled to that or does the old divorce decree prevail

Optional Information:
honoulu, Hawaii

2007-09-27 20:30:21 · 3 answers · asked by rakesh s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where do guys like to be kissed. I want to know, tell what is the best place. (anything NOT below the belt?) and also how do guys like to be kissed?

2007-09-27 20:12:55 · 17 answers · asked by persian_ladyyy 2 in Singles & Dating

If you tell a girl that she is looking nice today. Is this sexual harassment. Considering that the girl is your acquaintance.

2007-09-27 20:12:07 · 11 answers · asked by Hello 2 in Singles & Dating

without her being there with me.they constantly bicker and fight.my g/f says ehr best friend never calls her and when she does its for me,yet her best friends cell phone bill lists my g/f's number over 60 times in the last month.what do i do.i think shes in denial and wants everyone to feel sorry for her.plus when me and her go down there her best friend and her fiance and i drink alcohol yet my g/f sits far away from us doesnt talk to us and stares at the three of us.shes only drank once before and she had 14 mikes lemonades and puked all day the next day and is afraid to drink now.i told she went too far her first time.she has lots of trouble with fizzy alcohol,beer and liquor and wine.what the hell should she drink.i just need to know how to get them to be happy again and not fight.what should i say to her.also what drink should i get her?

2007-09-27 20:12:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know that we all love our father and mother as parents but wut u think of them as a person? do u admire them ? do u wish to become like them in future? or do u like me hate them as a person yet u love them as parents.............think about it

2007-09-27 20:10:13 · 9 answers · asked by Albert 3 in Family

but know in the back of your mind that you can do better and that you can get any girl that you like..?

2007-09-27 20:07:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ex wife is a real pain in my ***!! I do everything for him!!!When she call's he alway's I say acting scared of her, but nomatter what he always takes her side!!She called the other day saying her little girl needed shoe's but we had just gotten her a new pair but what does he say" he say's ok we will go get her a new pair tomorrow", like a little baby!!!She call's everyday knowing he's asleep through the day,works at night, just to ask for brake's for her car an yes she get's plenty child support from him!!!Can I say or do something to make him stand up to her???Really tired of the mess!!!!

2007-09-27 20:05:21 · 11 answers · asked by ajjsdj4ever 2 in Marriage & Divorce