Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

ok....so for some reason my cousin doesnt like her name and she wants to change it. so we want ur opinion....what do u think of the name Nina? plz be completely honest!!!

2007-09-27 15:43:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are 5 things you miss about your most recent ex??

2007-09-27 15:42:02 · 5 answers · asked by chris k 2 in Singles & Dating

we've been close friends for years...he's the type of guy that gets along with everyone but only opens up about his issues to one person...and that was me. Apparently he's liked me since then and i never knew until i fell for him this yr. He's never had a gf or kiss and we had a moment and were "together" for a little but decided to stop and be friends. Things were okay again until he lost someone close and thus pushed me away. Drama and miscommunication happened; hearing different things from diferent people and it was crazy but we're okay now. I wrote him a letter explaining everything and it was good after that.(even posted up more pics of just the two of us on his page)

We just hung out 2 weeks ago and everything seemed fine. He would poke, tease, and tell me his favorite movies and which one i should watch - good day. I called him up and we talked for a little but NOW, if i call just to see "what's up", he won't answer. Don't know if he's just busy or tired...i'm getting worried...what if he's got a "new friend" now that he talks to about things? Don't know if it's because he's busy/tired, focused b/c he's saving up for a car, or too shy to call me up...
COMMUNICATION is important to me and i don't know if this is something i should worry about - did i do something wrong and he's not telling me? Or there's nothing wrong? Should I just wait for him to call or text me when he does?

2007-09-27 15:41:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some signs please. Cause like we were making out and I didn't know until after I left that he took a cold shower because he was getting hard. Now, don't tell me to "feel it" or "just bump against it" because I'm sure there are other ways to tell, I just don't know! O_O

2007-09-27 15:39:45 · 6 answers · asked by Eziah 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a friend who lost his apartment, he needed a place so my best friend took him in...

So today our mutual friend who I'll just call X, apparently goes to my roommate's job and tells him how my best friends house had no electricity and how its hell to live with him and he must must must move in with him (and I) He also said he could not even tell it to my friend face because he disappeared to Mexico and dint even tell him that everything was disconnected (electricity, water).

However my best friend just got to town with his mother and sister and called me right away to tell me his electricity was disconnected, Apparently X form of rent was the electricity bill. had i seen X? Was everything ok? The water was not disconnected that was a lie, and also why my friends dog outside with no food/water in Phoenix, Az heat.

Its not going to end well, but what would be the best way to put everything in the open with my roommate. The last thing i want is to appear sneaky. Thanks.

2007-09-27 15:38:43 · 1 answers · asked by rizoisamazing 2 in Friends

There is this kid in my class who i have to sit next to and he is so annoying. He said we were friends, which to him means; "I'll only like you if you let me copy answers from your papers." I don't mind helping or giving "nudges" toward the correct answer once in a while, but it is every time we have an assignment and he just copies whatever I write down. If I don't give in right away, he starts calling me gay and "like such as." and making excuses that he had a football game and couldn't do it. He is also constantly in my face and makes a big deal out of everything i do! I've told him to leave me alone and to mind his own business many times. It is only the 4th week of school and I'm already at my wits end! what should I do?

2007-09-27 15:37:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband cheated on me and I want to return the favor. I took him back but I haven't forgiven him because I don't trust him and I mention the affair often. I want revenge. What should I do so that I can feel "even" without terminating the marriage?

2007-09-27 15:36:46 · 45 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 15:34:23 · 25 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There are cops and fireman and paramedics all around. He is on a straight back board with a neck brace. How would you react to this? Would you be calm? Hysterical? Moms, answer this as well. What if it was your son?

2007-09-27 15:33:37 · 8 answers · asked by Babygirl325 2 in Family

I have a boyfriend and he has a really great personality but he's super ugly. I seriously can't be around him without thinking how ugly he is and being disgusted. I know you're wondering why I'm dating him in the first place but that's a really long story. He's such a sweet guy but everytime he tries to talk to me or something im like ew...i just wanna put a bag over his head sometimes. I could never imagine kissing him or even "doing" him. Ugh, i don't know what to do and I really don't want to break up him. (Another long story) Can you help me get over this?

2007-09-27 15:32:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i took care of her my whole life as she was always sick and i took care of her at home till she died .. she had heart/ lung failure.. i am having such a terrible time coping with her death..

has any one else had a experience like mine when a very loved one died, that they didnt know how to cope ? and if so what did you do to make things better ?

2007-09-27 15:26:38 · 14 answers · asked by Medusa 4 in Family

well i have no dad im 16 i have tree sisters that are 17 and a brother that is 16 now my family hates me my mom buys everything for my sister and my brother cell phones laptops,cars like BMW and MERCEDEZ and a punch of other stuff but my mam never never buys me anything nothing nothing! no shirts or pants every single **** that i got i bout wiht my money is not that mad im mad cuzz they dont care about me and is not my mam is the all the family they hate me..y!..i dont get nothing for cristmas nothing for my brith day i dont think that they rember .... :*(

2007-09-27 15:26:22 · 2 answers · asked by famous Gilbert 5 in Family

Why when I answer certain questions, such as promoting getting married before you have kids, or bringing up the morality of sleeping around with a practical stranger as being bad behavior, why do I get thumbs down? Why are people so against standing up for doing the right thing? Are we so lost in society that we believe we should just do what we want and feels good regardless of the moral and/or ethics of what we are doing?

I'm not saying I do everything honorably or that I take a moral high ground with all my decisions in life, but certain things should still be important, like actually getting married vs. pretending to be before you bring a baby into this world?

Please, I'm seeking honest thoughtful answers. Thanks!

2007-09-27 15:26:16 · 5 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-27 15:24:54 · 2 answers · asked by cowabunga 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a very good girlfriend, who is beautiful, smart, funny, and all around a really nice girl. But why is it that she is always attracted to the older men. There's tons and tons of guys who would die to go out with her, but yet she chooses to go out with older men that are atleast 10 years her senior. What is she thinking? How can I get her to find someone more our age ( since we're only a year apart ) instead of a dirty old man?

2007-09-27 15:23:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Rate HER...on a scale of 1-10

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2007-09-27 15:19:40 · 5 answers · asked by Gabby 3 in Singles & Dating

who she was completely into. But after he sent her a couple mixed signals she began to like his bestfriend. The Bestfriend asked her to homecomming and to be his girlfriend and she said yes. However basically the moment she said yes the orignial guy started completely flirting with her and told her he loved her. I told her to be honest with both guys but she wont listen and homecomming is in two days, and we're going...with both of them. Any suggestions to avoid a huge blowout?

2007-09-27 15:17:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Thanks!!!

2007-09-27 15:13:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

not just as a hobbie, but real love making.

2007-09-27 15:13:43 · 13 answers · asked by eX0tic 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked someone to homecoming today, she said yes, then we didn't talk about it again.
What do I say next?
(related to homecoming)
Do I need a corsage?
Should I pick her up?
I'm really confused.

2007-09-27 15:12:31 · 17 answers · asked by Bob F 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I have been with this guy off and on for four years and he really annoys me because he works maybe 5 hours a day, and then he has to come home and "relax" and this takes the majority of the day, then I leave his house around 6 or 7 and it is like he waits for me to leave so he can "kick back" on the couch. He says he falls asleep out of boardness. and he does this all the time. So he sleeps like twelve hours a day, and kick back the rest of the time he don't work.

Tell me... Is he lazy or am I bothered by stupid things. Be HONEST TO ME! I hate a lazy man, and I feel he is just that. Tell me, am I over reacting? I have told him he needs to go to the Doctor because this is abnormal and he says nothing is wrong, the only one it bother's is me. Would it bother any of you????
Oh yeah and we literally fight over this issue.

2007-09-27 15:10:35 · 8 answers · asked by SARAH S 2 in Singles & Dating

I am seperated from my husband. I am dating a guy that I really like. My husband is calling me again and wanting to start over again. He never done anything with me. The s@x was good though, very good and I love him with a deep love. My new guy, the sex is fair, but we do a lot together and he is so good to me. I am so messed up. Should I go for the good s@x or the great companionship?

2007-09-27 15:09:26 · 6 answers · asked by gurlndixie 3 in Singles & Dating

I laugh at them. Why do they even bother lol, only DESPERATE lonely men ould choose you !

The sad bit is, i'd date one with a great personality.... but that doesnt exist either! cos they all have a stupid chip on their shoulders and moan about their lives

2007-09-27 15:09:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OkAy I HaVe A Bf OKAy and like all of a sudden he stoped talking to me and he just never calls, comes over or even text me... what should i do!! I noe i deserve better!!

2007-09-27 15:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my cousin....he's really cute. This would never happen, but if i married him and had kids, would the kids have disorder/disabilities?? what other complications would we have if we married?

2007-09-27 14:56:34 · 18 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this guy-friend who has been asking me lately if i ever smoke weed. I listen to reggae but i dont smoke. HE calls me and bugs me about it...tells me that if i ever want to get high he can get the stuff anytime. HE said he will do it for me. He said getting high is a special experience & that i cant just get high with anybody. Reluctanly i asked him "would you get high with me?" he said "yeah just call me anytime 2 weeks before you want to do it ill get the stuff and well get high togther". he says that i am special to him & thats why he would do it. As far as i know he just got tested for THC in his blood at his job. he tested negative. He gets good money but why would he lure me into getting high? and experiencing? is he trying to have a good time with me or is he trying to get some. HE told me to Keep this between me and him. I have a boyfriend and it was his ex-friend. Is he trying to get back at his friend? is he trying to F_cK me?

2007-09-27 14:56:26 · 6 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Friends

my brother younger brother is giving me the silent trewatment. he wont talk to me. i say hios name and he wont even respond. we live in the same house so this is difficult. he constantly tells me that he hates me and to leave him alone. i walk into his room and he immedietly says leave. i dont know what ive done. he has a friend that was initially my friend and he always says ur just jealous that he likes me more..etc. hes so irritable but he doesnt even talk to me anymore...what should i do?

2007-09-27 14:56:25 · 4 answers · asked by goalieboy7789 1 in Family

During my pregnancy I had a lot of drama with my child's father including an instance of him trying 2 sell me a crib 4 the baby.
About 6 months ago, I went 2 work very upset about this and I vented 2 some of my friends. 1 of the male colleagues stated that he thought things would be different once the baby was born!
The baby was born healthy (Yay me!). But the relationship with the father is WORSE!
I was approached by THE male colleague who asked if things had worked out between me and the baby's father. I informed him that the baby was now 2 months old and the father has yet 2 see him. The whole converasation struck me as odd because most guys are not in 2 details
I'm kind of dense but I'm sure he was trying 2 see if I was in a relationship because he was interested. I thought about all of the conversations with him and he is the only guy who looked at my ultrasound pics and listened 2 my labor war story. Is this guy interested in me or am I just reading 2 much into a nice guy

2007-09-27 14:55:30 · 5 answers · asked by Dorothy L 1 in Friends

I used to tell my mom that I was at my apartment when I wasn't so she wouldn't wait up for me at night. A few weeks ago I told my b/f that I went to a party, and I wasnt driving, but in reality I was driving. I even called to check in with him at 3 in morning to tell him i would be goin home soon. I only had two drinks at the party, and left sober because I had to drive, however, he is ticked because I lied about driving. Last week an old guy friend asked me to hang out after work. So we went to the computer lab and i printed some things off and went home. He continues to text me, and one day while on campus, he invited me to lunch before his one class. I went to be nice, and only saw him for 10 minutes. I didn't my boyfriend but then this guy texts me and my boyfriend saw, and said I was sneaking around with other guys. I love my boyfriend, and I never want to do anything to hurt him, I should have told him this guy was texting me so he wouldn't have gotten mad. Am I a liar?

2007-09-27 14:51:52 · 9 answers · asked by xtine1985 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently my fiance asked for my father's blessing and my father said no. This really hurt and pissed off me and my fiance, although he is my father I don't think I want him there because he does not approve. Everyone else on both sides of our families are happy we are getting married.

I have thought about asking my grandfather or my mom and step-dad. Any insite???

2007-09-27 14:47:41 · 31 answers · asked by darkferrie 4 in Weddings