Family & Relationships - 27 September 2007

i am 20 yrs .....but i am not having a bf...... i am slim , gud looking.......
all my frnds r having one n they go out wid him........so how am i supposed to attract guys????????
if i am having one how am i supposed to keep him happy???

2007-09-27 18:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by aishu 1 in Singles & Dating

My boss has been flirtatious with me for quite some time and I was beginning to become distracted by it and feel romantic feelings toward him. I confronted him about it (totally awkward, of course) and I don't know where to go from here. On one hand, I'm glad that I said something because I was starting to feel a little obsessed about the issue and it was affecting my quality of life (daily). On the other hand, I think it scared him because he values his job and might be concerned that I'll report this. I don't intend to do that. We're both human and I know that there is/was some mutual level of admiration there. This is just a disappointing situation because we did have a good rapport and I really do respect him. If only I had been able to ignore what I felt were his advances... I'm somewhat worried about potential backlash...

2007-09-27 18:47:20 · 3 answers · asked by Joanie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-27 18:46:08 · 8 answers · asked by terrysains 4 in Family

i need your opinion. its not my problem. and by the way I'm agnostic. anyway if a boy and girl really likes each other and wants be together, but they have different religion, and they are strong believers but also wants be together, whats going to happen? what they can do to make the relationship work?

2007-09-27 18:43:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do u really love your spouse or still u think of your Ex-Bf / Gf. if yes what is the intensity.

2007-09-27 18:43:30 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am good friends with this girl in school.. i know every thing about her.. i care about her alot.. and she asks me why i care about her so much.. well the answer is i love you but i cant tell her .. i dont know why.. but she really wants an answer ... what do i tell her... do you think she likes me

2007-09-27 18:41:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and i have the house free this sunday. Monday in AUS is a public holiday so i am taking a girl out for drinks.

I really want to sleep with her, what do i do to get her back home and then initiate sexual activity?

I'm new to this

2007-09-27 18:33:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 3yrs to my wonderful wife. I love her with all my heart, but we have been having trouble with our sex life. I have always been willing to give her head all the time, but she doesn't do it for me. She says that she doesn't want to because she doesn't like it and even though I love head...I complain that since I do it why can't she? I don't want to be controling and force her to do something that she doesn't want to do, but I want oral sex to spice up our marriage. I love her and respect her and don't want her doing things that she feels is degrading. I just want both of us to be happy with our sex lives. I have heard a rumor from one of her friends that she went to a strip club and after a night of partying gave the male stripper some head. I don't believe everything I hear, but still I can forgive the cheating...I just can't forgive the fact that she is giving someone else head instead of me. P.S. I cheated on her once, confesed and went to marriage counseling.

2007-09-27 18:30:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together for four years. We moved in together after two years of dating. We've lived together ever since. I asked her to marry me last year.

We've been through a move and have both changed careers in the time we've been together. This has been a huge strain.

We're pretty dysfunctional in the bedroom. She's never been a fiery one but we go weeks (sometimes months) at a time without getting busy, and she never initiates it.

We're both way too critical and stubborn with each other. We both acknowledge this, but we can't seem to stop poking away at each other. The sound of her voice really grates on me sometimes.

Our musical tastes are different. She is VERY picky about her food. She yo-yo diets, gains weight over time and takes it out on me.

When I asked her to marry me, our relationship became all about the wedding. She AVOIDS working through our issues with me, preferring to focus on her grand plans.

I've tried to fix this. Suggestions?

2007-09-27 18:28:17 · 25 answers · asked by Sinaria 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-27 18:25:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a fling for only a few days with a girl.i then stopped.after this she told her man everything about what we did.her man now is sending me all these text messages pretenting he is someone else and trying to wined me up.he also got a hold of my password (she told him) for my internet phone account and is always keeping a tab on my phonecalls and ringing random people (and hanging up) that i just rang.he now got all my email contacts and sent a letter to every one of my friends in my address book slandering my name and saying very nasty things about me,and telling everyone in my address bk that they should not be friends with me and to forget about me cause i am not worth it.i never met this fellow.i once said i would like to meet him but he never showed up!!
my question is what should i do about this and he is hacking into all my personnel life spreading vicios rumors and it is not going to stop.so please give me advise on what to do???

2007-09-27 18:25:23 · 10 answers · asked by traveller 1 in Singles & Dating

My marriage was solemnised on Nov'2006 according to Hindu Marriage Act. Now I went for Nullity of Marriage on false ground. My wife is contesting the matter. She has lodged the case of "Restitution of Conjugal Rights" against me. If she gets the decree of restitution, will she get the right of residence in my home? Can she go to my home and stay there without my permission? If I refuse her stay in my home, can she take any legal help? If she stays there for somedays and go to police station and complain that my parents and brothers are torturing her, what legal step we can take against her? Can she be capable of lodging any FIR against us?
Please clear me with details.
In July she made complaint to Police and Women Rights Commission against me and my family members. Every where she wrote that she wants to save her marriage. Please tell me which step can I take against her.

2007-09-27 18:21:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I sit here and read these questions and try to offer reasonable advice. More and more I find people asking questions that really ask you to support their lack of morality. Such as the guy that ran off with a married woman to Florida and now is upset because she calls home to talk to her kid. The question is disturbing enough but some of the answers condon what he is doing and they offer suggestions. I personally condemn people with questions like that and I certainly don't support their behavior. It is clear by the answers that many of the answers come from younger people that think this is the norm. I wish they would require people here on Yahoo Answers to post their age. On top of everything else it is clear that many of these people can't spell (or use a spell check) nor can the form an intelligent sentence. So what does this say about our educational system? I know this is Marriage and Divorce and the reason I ask this here is because it is the only category I answer questions in.

2007-09-27 18:19:47 · 17 answers · asked by Sigmonds smarter brother 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it? I try staying away from my family but the favors is never ending, They will go crazy very (nasty acting) just to turn around and ask me for a favorite? like do they get enjoyment out of it.

2007-09-27 18:18:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I think, as a society, we hear the hype that men are always perverted if they stare at a woman they find attractive.

Now I want to ask this the other way around.... can women be perverted as well when 'checking' out a man physically? Therefore, they usually get away with it because it's ok for a woman to look without coming across as a pervert?

2007-09-27 18:17:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

An Fat girl will attract

1. Older men
2. Black men
3. Latin men

A Skinny girl will attract

1. Younger men
2. White men
3. Asian men

2007-09-27 18:09:13 · 3 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a girl for six weeks and things have got hot and heavy, but I've yet to get her to drop her panties...and it's frustrating.

2007-09-27 18:08:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but asked hubby to keep it a secret from you and his wife, but hubby is good and keeps no secrets from u so u know and the wife of the guy who asked for the money tells u she's going on holiday with her kids to visit family in the near future (Min cost 10k), so obviously has money, would you wonder why on earth she can't give that money to her husband instead of him asking friends to borrow money? Would you find you rlationship strained? Would you confront them or walk away? It has already been made your business so you can't ignore it, you were dragged into their problems. You DIDN'T lend the money nor did u be guarantor for the loan the husband took out and asked hubby to be. There are so many things that pee me off about the situation like her hubby lying to her and keeping secrets, pleading poverty to us but planning this holiday, subjecting a so called friendship to emotional strain all because of money (& a few other things have happened that made us unhappy too). What wud u do?

2007-09-27 17:58:18 · 18 answers · asked by SEJ71 3 in Friends

I am 18 and want to move out asap because my father is horrible and often abuses me and my sister mentally, verbally, and sometimes physically. However, I know I can move out, but I want to take my sister with me. She is only 16, what can I do to be allowed to take her out of this house legally? Money is not an issue.

2007-09-27 17:58:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know he is playboy. He has so many girls and he likes play game with them. But now he is tired and stressful cuz he lies too much and girls are chassing him everyday, he has no single time to relax. His life like a awful drama on the circle of girls, sex and money...which i wish i never know that.
We hooked up at random and had a really opened conversation, he told me everything true about his life cuz we both foreigners, & i am not belong to his circle-life so no need to lie me. With me he just simple wants to share (or tell the true) and i am a good listener. I feel so dispointed and really sad...oh why life is so bad like that? i feel so sorry for him, sorry for the local young girls or old woman those spent money on him and be cheated by him (but probably they enjoyed/accepted that way) even i hate the social life and ppl living here at the city where we are living now...it makes ppl less human being and live so sinful..
He said he wants to meet me again and he really wants

2007-09-27 17:56:29 · 16 answers · asked by BB 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a amazing man who treats me with alot of love and respect and is just wounderfull I have known this guy for about a year now and feel really comfortable with him but the catch is that I'm married and I don't know how to deal with this I have been trying to stop my-self feeling this way and I mean I've done everything I can think of coz I knew that I made a promise infrount of god on my wedding day but I think I was too young to truly understand what that ment, I was only 19 at the time of our wedding and felt like I need to do the right thing by my then 1 year old child, But our life together makes me verey unhappy. My husband has been out of work for 4 years now a will not go out and look for 1 and now that we have two children he needs to work, I want to do the right thing by my children and thier father but I feel like I'm the 1 that's giveing up stuff and not my husband should I leave and try to move on with my life?

2007-09-27 17:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by ali 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After weeks of trying to figure out my crush and his true feelings for me,i finally found the light at the end of the tunnel..guess ive been so stupid ignoring all the obvious signs tht hes just treating me as a fren while telling myself all this while the sweet things tht he did is becos he does actually like me...and today he did something which i wont dwell on but i begin to realize tht is an obvious sign tht he just see me a fren..so im letting go my hope on him...i know its gonna be hard becos ill still see him around..so any wisdom words for me? really need it guys..thanc

2007-09-27 17:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by Stephanie Y 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a secret admirer dropping me useless hints thru her friend and I'm pretty sure Ive never even spoken to the girl before. What should i look for that will help me find out who she is without asking her friend? her friend is stupid and wont tell me anything. Im thinking that because she is doing the secret admirer thing, she must be shy.

2007-09-27 17:53:57 · 7 answers · asked by nOOb 1 in Singles & Dating

Please take tha time to read this: This is how it went. You know those small butane tanks that u use for a heater? The ones that cost about $40 brand new. Well, I was staying over at my cousins house and it was winter. It was pretty cold for me and my kids and my aunt wouldnt let us use an electric heater. About a month or two before my other aunt was living next door. They left a lot of "junk", stuff they didnt want in the garage. So my cuz remembered there was an empty butane tank there i could get filled, and use for a heater. I went to a store and had it filled for about $20(my money). I used it mostly at night for about 3 days. Then outta nowhere my cuz comes and tells me that we gotta move out! So i get all my stuff together, and the tank that i paid to fill, and leave. When we come back my cuz asks where tha tank is. I told him it was in tha trunk of my car. He says "i was gonna use it to make a fish fry". He doesnt ask me to take it out. Continued below....

2007-09-27 17:52:26 · 6 answers · asked by DIVINITY 1 in Family

Just asking, i havent had my first kiss yet, but i know what to do with your tongure while kissing, but what do you do with your lips?
just asking.

2007-09-27 17:51:45 · 7 answers · asked by chaseme 3 in Singles & Dating

I heard you could get into bars or clubs with your spouse if they are over 21 and you aren't if you can prove you are married.

2007-09-27 17:48:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are always talking about moving from NJ for a change. We are so tired of our high taxes and the constant rat race of keeping up with the Jones. I'm also finding people ruder & ruder each day. My husband has his own business and he would be able to move. I would be ready to do it but at the same time not knowing anyone really scares me. What happens if we end up hating it? Here, I have some of my family so it is so scary for me but again I am just sick of this whole area. We also have a 5 yr old and a 9 yr. old and I know they would be upset. My husband does not care about that. He thinks it's good to meet new people. Has anyone does this and how was your experience? (By the way, we drove thru this town in the summer, Crofton, MD and it was such a cute and friendly town. We really liked it, but we would consider other areas as well).

2007-09-27 17:46:14 · 2 answers · asked by mari93 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been friends for 4 yrs. I'm 24 & hetero while she's 28 & BI. She's always a shoulder to cry on when I'm feeling down. But lately, she's been trying to fondle me & I don't feel comfy with that. I told her I don't like that, & I'm afraid she might turn against me & not wanna be my friend anymore & use my flaws against me & throw them in my face, even though she said she's not gonna do that. She's my only friend, but I'm starting to sense something fishy. Our friendship seems too good to be true because many people tell me that no one is gonna be PERFECTLY nice to me. & me & my friend almost never argue. I'm wondering if she's thinking I have to pay her sex to tell her my problems. I don't wanna live like that. I thought she was understanding & caring but now I'm not sure. She was molested as a child & she's a bisexually promiscuous nymphomaniac. I need help. I sort of sensed our friendship tearing apart when I started having nightmares of her treating me mean. Is she a good friend?

2007-09-27 17:42:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This question is for legal fraternity. I understand that sex with married woman, by other than her husband, is an offence and punishable by law. Is it true? Why only man is held responsible? Does woman go scot free?

Which section of Indian Penal Code or any other law covers this aspect. If it is punishable, what is the quantum of punishment. I seek help from legal persons.

There are other sex related offences. Like carnal sex is not allowed even with a consent. Or consensual sex with a minor girl is treated as a rape.

These cases are known. But not much is known about the sex with a married woman.

I had posed this question earlier too but not much of success.

2007-09-27 17:34:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a woman and she's 32, recently seperated, no children and has a drawer full of condoms. She said that she picked them up from when she had her last physical. i went to her doctors office and there were no free condoms. She had like 30-40 different Lifestyles. I asked her how many sex partners she's had in her life and she said about 30. She's claims it was because she was in the military. I understand that she wanted to be protected but we guys normally have our own. I know some of you will say,.."You should be glad she's thinking of protecting herself and her mate" but comeon...a drawer full. I assumed that she's been getting busy on a regular and truthfully may have contracted a STD because the clinic are the only place here in this state that gives them out. Am I wrong in thinking she's a freak. I mean i got busy the second night I went over her house. What do you think?

2007-09-27 17:31:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating